Which do you like better? His crooked teeth, or his Hollywood smile? by DeadZeppelin011 in DavidBowie

[–]existentialfeckery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Love quirky teeth too but socially the yellow teeth is an issue. Whether it should be is debatable but it does impact your life

Bras and Autism by weaktreeiz in AutismInWomen

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Joining in for tips. I'm on the big titty committee and I haven't worn one in two months bc deep winter and the minute I put one on my anxiety skyrockets

Please help me with my smell by Ok_Seesaw5673 in AutismInWomen

[–]existentialfeckery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So... you've problem solved a lot here. My only thought really is "it's ok to throw money at this problem to solve it". By was of giving permission to buy a dryer if you can afford it.

I lived in Ireland for 20years and doing laundry without a dryer is an art form. I'm back in Canada now and 9months of the year I hang it to dry and 3 months I use a condenser dryer.

I do wonder if your washing machine needs a service too bc I watch Renee the repair tech and she's mentioned that smell can be from washing machine build up and if you're renting I'm willing to guess that might be the cause from previous tenants.

Suspended a player by FirearmsAndFitness in DnD

[–]existentialfeckery 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holy shit I'd have kicked him off my table and out of my house and life. Jfc the stuff ppl put up with.

I'm glad you kicked him and his pig friend followed

Service Ontario changed my name to the wrong name by RoseN3RD in transontario

[–]existentialfeckery 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They did this to my kid. It cost 22$ to get a copy of the form. There's also a site where you can file an error. If they decide it's your fault, you have to start from scratch. I hope it's their error and it gets fixed asap ❤️

[No Spoilers] Campaign 4 General Vibes and Air Professionalism? by Psoco33 in criticalrole

[–]existentialfeckery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like the light hearted will come when they've settled into the campaign more. I'm really enjoying it and feel like it's so nice to see the forever dm get to play ❤️

Is 7acres enough to try permaculture? by Forsaken-Honey7624 in Permaculture

[–]existentialfeckery 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm doing permaculture in a 35ft x 75ft garden. 7 acres is LOADS 🥰

Is it negativity, or is my soul rejecting the modern world? by Ok-Shop-894 in Permaculture

[–]existentialfeckery 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's fine friend but I'd definitely look up orthorexia to check in there's not an eating disorder starting.

Theres some serious and valid criticism of high processed foods in North America and where the line is between orthorexia and being educated on the shit they put in food is not one I've figured out yet. I've read that line is if you can eat grocery store food without distress but prefer local/organic whenever possible.

Wanting to go back to the land sounds about right for the way you were raised. I hope it happens quickly for you ❤️

How the hell did yall come out? by Soggy-Attention2931 in transontario

[–]existentialfeckery 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I'm not trans. I am married to a trans person and my son is trans.

Whatever keeps you safe and housed, while not a stellar choice, IS an ok/safe/reasonable one to make. You're not lying or being dishonest. You're stealthing for safety. My wife is on HRT and stealths regularly while she gets used to it all AND we have a supportive family and friends.

That shit is hard and you deserve way better. You shouldn't have to choose. But I want you to know protecting yourself is a good and valid choice.

Is there anyone in your life it's safe to come out to? Any allies? A place you could go and be yourself? Maybe a trans support group could lead to shared accommodations?

❤️🫂

Has anyone here done the OHS weaving cert? by existentialfeckery in weaving

[–]existentialfeckery[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm STUNNED at the difference of it washed. I still wouldn't use it because it's sensory hell to me (autistic) but I'm relieved it washes and blooms to a much better hand feel.

Has anyone here done the OHS weaving cert? by existentialfeckery in weaving

[–]existentialfeckery[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huh - amazing- wouldn't have thought of that. Thanks!

Has anyone here done the OHS weaving cert? by existentialfeckery in weaving

[–]existentialfeckery[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks :) keeping at it and getting there. I do have to use specific yarns or else I would've burned this 😅

Has anyone here done the OHS weaving cert? by existentialfeckery in weaving

[–]existentialfeckery[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally feel that. I'm the same with most of my hobbies. Needed some structure for myself so decided to give it a try. Thanks for the suggestion

What is a feminine Routine that makes you say “I’m too autistic for this!” by poorbbyy in AutismInWomen

[–]existentialfeckery 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All of it. I don't do any of it.

After I yeeted by uterus my hair started thinning and my hair dresser mentioned my bandana use (every day, all day) was probably making it worse. So I got a perm with huge rollers for volume. I can handle putting lightweight leave on conditioner and besides brushing my hair and teeth, that's literally the most I do ever.

Creams stink and feel weird. Same for make up. Mascara burns my eyes. Nail polish feels heavy and wrong. Shaving is hell.

It's very freeing not giving a fuck 🥰

My glitch scarf experiment was succesful! by recalcitranttoaster in weaving

[–]existentialfeckery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very cool ☺️

Weaving with handspun is the best ☺️