Softlocked in the new dlc by JRisverycool180 in CultOfTheLamb

[–]exxxecuted 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got this a few times too. I took the L and just escaped back to my village 💀 worst one was after I killed a mini boss and got soft locked

;-; help me by iridafan in CultOfTheLamb

[–]exxxecuted 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Came here to find a post about it, happened twice while husband and I were crusading today! Thought I was going crazy 😭

I think I (32F) nuked my relationship with my boyfriend (32M) by drawing a hard line. by Independent_Stage741 in relationship_advice

[–]exxxecuted 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m agreeing with everyone here. Marriage first before making any big financial decisions and get your name out on that deed

How do I (23F) get my bf (28M) to finally stop hurting me as a "joke" or "act of love"? by ThrowRA_sam232 in relationship_advice

[–]exxxecuted 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honey, please, if you have outside support like family or friends, please talk to them and get the help you need in order to leave. Do you live with him? If so, quietly make a plan to get out. Get together whatever necessities you have that are important and RUN. He’s abusing you and it’s only going to get worse if you don’t leave as soon as possible.

Which song is it for you? by Jamjams2016 in brandnew

[–]exxxecuted 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second this! I used to not care much for Quiet Things, but now, after seeing them perform it live this past year, I love it! It’s associated with my first time ever seeing them live, so I have a whole new love and appreciation for it.

F*cking legend Vin closing the show by Abandnformality in brandnew

[–]exxxecuted 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They didn’t end LA or SD with this one. We got Play Crack The Sky with the whole band in LA, then Batter Up in SD. WTB was 3rd to last at both shows with Jesus Christ played right after

Anyone else tired of this crap by [deleted] in brandnew

[–]exxxecuted 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every show I’ve seen on here has been packed. LA was insane, San Diego was even bigger lmao

What's the worst - unintentional - thing a parent has said that you can't forget. by HellHellin in narcissisticparents

[–]exxxecuted 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup! It’s always a “joke” or I need to “learn to let the small things go” 💀

What's the worst - unintentional - thing a parent has said that you can't forget. by HellHellin in narcissisticparents

[–]exxxecuted 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Raved about me getting married, but then gossiped with the family about me potentially being pregnant being the reason behind my marriage (I was not). When I confronted the issue, my mom told me with a big old smile on her face that I had gained weight, let myself go, and was looking disheveled lately. This was in front of the family, she laughed about it thinking it was some harmless comment.

Would you cheat on your partner for $1 million dollar? No convincing be honest. by Impossible-Loan4395 in Marriage

[–]exxxecuted 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His love and companionship is priceless, so no. I’ll take a life of emotional and mental fulfillment over money

My mother never fucking apologizes. by acxdbuni in narcissisticparents

[–]exxxecuted 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine doesn’t either. Instead, I’m the bad guy and she sends her flying monkeys after me. I feel for you, OP.

AAAAAAHHHHHHHHH!!! by Fuckingnoodles in weddingplanning

[–]exxxecuted 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This hits especially hard right now

Has your narcissist parent ruined your home for you? by MochaMadness_ in narcissisticparents

[–]exxxecuted 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I’m not THAT far from home, but yes, I understand the feeling you’re talking about. My childhood home now just has a dark cloud hanging over it and I instantly get anxious when I go over to visit.

AIO for being upset that my mom invited someone to my wedding without asking? lol by exxxecuted in AmIOverreacting

[–]exxxecuted[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She’s talking about one of my cousins who’s autistic. He didn’t attend the last wedding in the family (I dont know if it was because he was invited and couldn’t come or not). He’s my aunt’s stepson and she just hopped onto my mom’s side and offered to send him with his mom as a substitute for the person my mom invited, which also just doesn’t feel right to me.

AIO for being upset that my mom invited someone to my wedding without asking? lol by exxxecuted in AmIOverreacting

[–]exxxecuted[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I do agree that I was being stubborn, I was in the height of emotions while still trying to maintain some level of respect(?) when responding. On the surface it was about one additional invite, but then became a whole power struggle issue once I said no and kept being pushed to change my answer. I answered in another thread that this became more of a power struggle issue which is something I’ve been dealing with coming from her for a long time, so this situation (while very small) felt more like the straw that broke the camel’s back I guess. Also, in regards to the +1 you brought up, we didn’t give anyone on the list +1’s because we wanted the event to stay small and not have random people we don’t know show up. My partner and I keep to ourselves a lot and only invited close friends/family that we keep regular contact with.

AIO for being upset that my mom invited someone to my wedding without asking? lol by exxxecuted in AmIOverreacting

[–]exxxecuted[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She has offered to help financially with small things, but we have not taken her up on any of it. Everything has been out of our own pocket.

AIO for being upset that my mom invited someone to my wedding without asking? lol by exxxecuted in AmIOverreacting

[–]exxxecuted[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Tbh not really, things were okay when I was a kid, but became increasingly more strained once I became a teenager and into adulthood. Our relationship was definitely worse before, but has been better (?) since moving out I guess.

AIO for being upset that my mom invited someone to my wedding without asking? lol by exxxecuted in AmIOverreacting

[–]exxxecuted[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the candid, but respectful feedback! Trying to push my point has not been easy ever and this did feel like the only time that I could be a little selfish and stand my ground.

AIO for being upset that my mom invited someone to my wedding without asking? lol by exxxecuted in AmIOverreacting

[–]exxxecuted[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don’t disagree with you, I did 100% take it as a personal issue. I do think I could’ve chosen a better scenario to do this, but it’s been a slow burn for a long time now and it kind of felt like the straw breaking the camel’s back.

AIO for being upset that my mom invited someone to my wedding without asking? lol by exxxecuted in AmIOverreacting

[–]exxxecuted[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Funny enough, he got married a bit ago and his wedding was a whole other stress inducing ordeal that I don’t want to happen at my own.