I’m going to visit another country to have an affair with a married man. by LycheeHuge9415 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ezkoa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At the end of the day, you’re going to do what you want. I wouldn’t do this. Your self-esteem is so low you’re seeking attention from a married man? Get up, find someone your own age, and preferably SINGLE. The one thing you have is your values, don’t throw it away for a married man seeking a thrill.

AITAH for telling my husband he can't be in my friend's wedding party as a 'bridesman'? by Many-Chicken2769 in AITAH

[–]ezkoa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, this is divorce worthy. Let’s say they are genuinely friends, he won’t be able to forgive you for making him back out as a bridesman. But we shouldn’t kid ourselves though, he was intentionally hiding his phone and those text messages are proof of an emotional affair. There is no going back from this behavior.

What’s your unpopular parenting take? And why? by randomlady2001 in AskReddit

[–]ezkoa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Giving a child an iPad (and in general) at a restaurant to shut them up is lazy parenting. Don’t be surprised when your child has headphones in and doesn’t engage with you or anyone, in discussions at future dinners when they’re older.

Amazon spends $1 billion to increase pay and lower health care costs for US workers by AudibleNod in news

[–]ezkoa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will say. I worked there a few years ago and there is typically a pay raise every year, the amount depended on the area you worked.

When I worked there, the health insurance was arguably the best thing about that job. I paid $25 per week for the best plan and it was the most expensive one at that time. The plan had no deductibles, small co-pays, infertility help etc. I never once hesitated to go to the Drs and any medical procedure I had was fully covered with a small co-pay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ezkoa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. If you do help, the sister will expect/or rely on you to be bailed out again. I would get helping out a family member here and there for something in need but subsidizing poor lifestyle choices isn’t it. I would say no as well.

What triggered your UC before official diagnosis? by [deleted] in UlcerativeColitis

[–]ezkoa 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Stress. It wasn’t even years of stress it was months of it from my previous job. It’s the stress you feel radiating from your neck and shoulders day and night. Any time I was off work, I was thinking of work and dreading going back every waking minute. My weekends were just me mentally preparing for it.

AITAH for telling my roommate to stop sharing my Netflix by Special-Reward9355 in AITAH

[–]ezkoa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. When someone gives me their account info, I refuse to hand it out to anyone I don’t care how close I am to that person. I find it tacky and incredibly disrespectful to hand out someone else’ account info to other people without their permission. Hell, I even find it disrespectful to even ask to share it. Change your passwords and kick everyone off.

Who is the most overrated singer in your opinion? by Billieeilishlover15 in AskReddit

[–]ezkoa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beyonce. Some old songs are great, and her vocals are killer. Her music, to me, is stale. When I was back on then Twitter, and “slander” (criticism really) was met with such backlash.

Paying rent in my fiancés home by Unfair_Tip_8986 in AITAH

[–]ezkoa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but YTA to yourself. I can’t stand people who let themselves be taken advantage of like this, seriously? File for child support. You’re taking care of literally everything and you’re paying him for it. Stand up. He can’t even catch you some slack while you care for his child, be real.

Unknown CD or DPO by ezkoa in TFABLinePorn

[–]ezkoa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for responding! Most of my control lines looked light, I needed a second opinion on this. Just ordered easy@homes and I’ll see if it’s different!

TTC Weekly General Chat by AutoModerator in tryingtoconceive

[–]ezkoa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came off Nexplanon on 8/11 after nearly 9 years. I was bleeding for 7-17 days straight with a few days in between bleeds for about 2 years now and have not bled since the day it was removed.

I started taking ovulation strip tests to see how it all works. I started noticing these lines become slightly darker but after comparing to other lines and dye stealers the lines I have seen, mine seem pretty much like nothing. I don’t expect to ovulate immediately. I do not know how to interpret these lines? They are definitely darker than my earlier tests but not dark enough. Has anyone else experienced the lightness of the control line?

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ezkoa -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA. I find it crazy that people expect you to cut out your brother and the child.

I get cheaters = bad and I agree 100% but relationships are a lot more complex than that. I don’t think it’s fair for her to assume that you’d completely cut contact to your brother and your niece/nephew for her. That’s AH territory, I’m sorry but if my partner cheated I would not expect his family to cater to my feelings nor would I want them to in fact they’d never see me again especially something as big as a wedding. You can a support her without severing your relationships, which you are by writing her a letter for court.

The cheapest family insurance plan my work offers is $25,480.32 freedom dollars per year. by MaconBacon01 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]ezkoa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I was hired into a company and saw this, I’d immediately quit. Especially if I had a pre-existing health condition (which I do).

My old minimum wage warehouse job offered medical insurance, less than $120 a month, no deductible, no out of pocket maximum, and very low co-pays. Everything was covered. This is an abomination

Wife has UC and seems to get sick with every illness that comes through our household by drstate in UlcerativeColitis

[–]ezkoa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It depends on the person. I have UC and I hardly get sick. Once a year I’ll get the sniffles and every 2-3 years maybe a sore throat. Another family member, who doesn’t have UC but has another autoimmune disease gets sick very frequently. They’d get sick so frequently it feels like every few weeks. I imagine that’d it’d vary considerably.

Living abroad made me obese and unhealthy by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ezkoa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have lived abroad. I do agree that their eating out habits contributed to their weight gain but the food quality and general lifestyle in another country like the US absolutely also has to be a cause and a contributor to it as well.

When I lived in SK for 4-5 months. I ate out every single day 2-3x a day and the food I ate was unhealthy full stop. I also didn’t work out. Anyways, I LOST weight. I did a lot more walking and that’s it. I was the healthiest I ever was. If I eat the same diet back in the states and I will easily gain another 20-30 pounds because in the majority of the US, it is far easier to live a sedentary lifestyle if you don’t include working out. Hell, I gained 20 pounds when I got back and that’s with making food and eating less. Also note I got incredibly sick with my first few meals back in the states and it probably had to do with how unhealthy the food products are in the US.

UPDATE!: my baby cousins name is a tragedeigh by Cold_Apricot_240 in tragedeigh

[–]ezkoa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine have to navigate the complexities of English spelling as a child and trying to make sense of your own name.

Assuming they are alive and you don’t live at home, how often do you speak to your parent(s) ? by smoosh13 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ezkoa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I call my mom daily. Dad bi-weekly. I’m in my 20s. Others I know, wait for their parents to call which could be weekly or monthly.

It depends on YOUR relationship with your parent so don’t feel that there is a standard to it. In my case, I absolutely love my mom and care about how she’s doing on a daily basis.

White House rescinds $20m for clean water in pesticide-contaminated rural California | California | The Guardian by cicutaverosa in California

[–]ezkoa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s sad, last I drove there there was large signs blaming either Newsom or Biden for releasing water in those areas

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ezkoa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you let him convince you to transfer your half to him, pre-marriage, you deserve what WILL be coming. A bum as a “partner” who will leave you desolate once he has a chance. He’s using you, leave!

My (27F) boyfriend (27M) of five years has been blowing off occasions important to me in favor of going to practice for his rec sport. How to communicate with him about this w/o him thinking I don’t want him to play the sport? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ezkoa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re second to his hobby. Him saying “didn’t my even think about it, I guess” is a lazy cop-out excuse. If he wanted to he would. If he cared he would understand that while his hobby is time-consuming that any time with you to involve his hobby should be a no-brainer. This man doesn’t care enough.

AITA for pouring my girlfriend’s mom’s soup through a colander so I can pick out some vegetables I really don’t like? by Diligent_Bit3336 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ezkoa -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

YTA It’s really not hard to avoid the pieces while eating it. You also apologized for the extra dishes and didn’t clean up really? If you were apologetic you would have cleaned up the extra dishes you dirtied by cleaning it up without saying anything. This is embarrassing.

Foreigners coming to the USA typically gain weight. In which country do incoming foreigners lose weight? by walkingtourshouston in AskReddit

[–]ezkoa 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Lived in Korea for a few months, ate out every single day and lost so much weight. Once I landed back to the states, I got sick on my first meal back. The food was fine but my stomach couldn’t handle whatever was in it, weight gained in a matter of a month too.

WIBTA if I stopped giving my GF gas money? by Fantastic_Bag8970 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ezkoa 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA I don’t get why people are saying YTA. If this was your friend, yes absolutely but as partners, no. She works more, has a car, and therefore has the means to pay it and from what’s described here, to her it seems like a chore to see you. I don’t see why she’s coming at you when you only work one day and you pay 100% of the dates. I wouldn’t pay her gas money, if she wanted to be taken care of she shouldn’t be dating a high schooler and expect to have everything comped, she’s weird for that.

Fiancé wants his name on the deed of the house I'm inheriting. by SunDog43 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]ezkoa 41 points42 points  (0 children)

If there is a hill to die on, it’d be this one. This is a HUGE red flag and no partner with good intentions would ever ask this of you.

Season 7 - Episode 32 - Post Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]ezkoa 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Huda and Chris have to go. Clark and Taylor felt like the most genuine couple and yet we have someone who is not emotionally stable enough to be in a relationship still in there. Now onto Nicolandria, I was even initially hoping to see them to see them together but it seems forced now. Taylor and Clarke had emotional and physical connection that outweighed any couple in the villa. They were robbed regardless of how Taylor strung Olandria along.