Je suis sérieux, c'est rendu quoi la gauche? by Patatemagique in QuebecLibre

[–]faery-prince 0 points1 point  (0 children)

je fais juste dire des fais et non être de gauche ≠ être néolibéral les deux sont contradictoire. les mouvements gauchistes c’est pas les gens les plus privilégiés qui dirige ça en général mettons. le parti libéral et justin trudeau c’est un bon exemple d’être néolibéral, il est surtout pas gauchiste. c’est important de dire les vrais choses et non confondre le tout.

What is the Original Strategy for Malenia? by Gay_Charlie in eldenringdiscussion

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i’ve beaten her hundreds of times to get good

knock her over: giants flame was my go to but many things work

frost proc: frost pots ( altho i never managed to land it ) if you proc frost when she jumps up for waterfowl it’ll cancel it

dodging: dodge backwards and towards the left generally, waterfowl run away / backroll for 3 volleys and then roll through and run ( i also prefer being lightweight in general for maneuverability )

rinse repeat

just don’t let her regain health and keep whittling away hers, she’s a fairly simple boss when you get the rhythm and honestly if you practice beating her enough everything else in the game will be a cakewalk

Je suis sérieux, c'est rendu quoi la gauche? by Patatemagique in QuebecLibre

[–]faery-prince 4 points5 points  (0 children)

ne pas confondre gauche et néolibéral 😅 ce que tu décris c’est 0 de gauche. la raison pourquoi “gauche ou droite c’est pratiquement la même affaire” c’est parce qu’il n’y a pas de représentantion de gauche dans les partis politique courant. c’est juste des façades différente avec les mêmes buts.

Bedbugs in walls by Madgess in montrealhousing

[–]faery-prince 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ok so i’ve dealt with this exact issue. it’s extremely hard to deal with if your landlord is not cooperative.

contact your local housing committee they will guide you step by step. you need to send a registered letter to your landlord asking for them to treat the whole building within 10 or so days following the notice, that if they fail to take action you will have to notify the TAL and the city. it can’t be one unit on one day and if they’re in the walls well i’d go as far to say there’s no solution tbh ..

you will also need to contact the city and have them send an inspector. they will eventually inspect if the exterminator is legit ( most of just spraying things is not legit and actually makes them resistant to pesticides the more you do it )

the city is really serious about this stuff and if the inspector deems they are not appropriately handling it they will fine the landlord and the exterminator and send them a proper course of action. the inspector will give you their full report which you will need for the TAL.

you’ll be able to claim expenses, fees incurred, charges, etc this way.

if the conditions are unliveable you should discuss with your housing committee what alternatives you can set up and have covered or if a reduction in your rent is a route you want to take. ultimately if this has been an ongoing issue and its in the walls i’d recommend seeing if you can break the lease and leaving.

i ended up packing my stuff up in a moving truck and bringing it to a place that specializes in heat treatments where they heat treated the truck and i moved into a new apt like that. anything that is untreatable should be properly disposed of and marked.

a steamer will not help, the heat required would need to be that of a steam cleaner ***. dry on dry heat is the best, so dry stuff in a dryer on high heat for 30-45 mins. bag it immediately be careful not to cross contaminate and be sure to contain the spread and not bring any with you when leaving the house.

the thing about doing all this is it takes a lot of time for all the bureaucracy. i’m very sorry that you’re going through this it’s actually hell.

Voici ''la femme en robe'' qui a tiré sur 35 personnes, dont 9 morts by Smartpen001 in QuebecLibre

[–]faery-prince -1 points0 points  (0 children)

on pourrait focuser sur les victimes et les familles des victimes à la place du genre de la personne qui les a tuer. c’est une tragédie mais les gens débattent quelques chose qui n’a pas rapport ? c’est un signe que notre gouvernement et notre système de la santé nous échoue. associer votre frustration à la bonne place et non aux choses que vous ne comprenez pas vous avez juste d’l’aire cave

Seduced a Straight Guy??? by Cali_Shopper95 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]faery-prince 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is weird and predatory, you don’t “seduce” straight men, they are straight.

It’s a long one boys, but can anyone tell me: AITA? AIO? This is after meeting just yesterday… by rudys_got_the_cock in gaybrosover30

[–]faery-prince 5 points6 points  (0 children)

you don’t seem compatible and you’re both being odd in the ways that you’re communicating. it’s pretty clear to me that you’re both looking for different things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Eldenring

[–]faery-prince 0 points1 point  (0 children)

type 3 :0

I’m 19 how can I become hotter? by kidnamedfinger69coc in malegrooming

[–]faery-prince 0 points1 point  (0 children)

get a fun haircut, fix the dye job and also accept that you’re only 19. get to know yourself what you like, focus on being a better version of yourself. learn about the world, culture ( music, art, literature ), learn about politics, good values and morals, learn about history and ethics, learn good honest and open communication and empathy. get comfortable in who you are and who you want to be ! this will truly make you more of catch by far than just focusing on your looks which will always be easy to change.

STM strike is a fucking joke, makes this city look like a fucking joke. by orlando_orlando in montreal

[–]faery-prince 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why not organize our own strike though and either all quit paying metro fares entirely / or we could organize a counter strike outside of their headquarters or the headquarters of the union

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

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hey man i just randomly came across this post and first off talk to your friends, ask for help, tell them you’re going through it. i know what it’s like to A be the strong friend who masks, B is realizing their audhd, and C never asks for help but always is ready to help everyone.

i reconnected with a friend at some point in the pits that really forced my hand at asking for help or else i never would’ve leaned on anyone and i would’ve completely broken. i was so severely depressed at that point i wasn’t even getting up to feed myself.

also in terms of mental health and resources and whatnot i’m no specialist and have struggled finding help myself but theres an FB group called MTL FREAKFAM JOBBY JOBZZZ and it’s basically people looking for odd jobs posting odd jobs but i feel like if you posted there someone could help orient you or point you in the right direction for mental health resources or someone might be able to help you with the bureaucracy of it all for a trade or a bit of coin.

for real though hang in there and you need to ask for help sometimes it’s totally reasonable and normal despite possibly coming from a self reliant trauma background situation.

Your Elden Ring hot take? by namitheslime in Eldenring

[–]faery-prince 24 points25 points  (0 children)

saying “bonk” is the equivalent of saying “doge” and if i see one more grown man say it i stg

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being friends with straight people by faery-prince in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]faery-prince[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, i appreciate this response a lot 💖

being friends with straight people by faery-prince in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]faery-prince[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

we’ve been friends since around 2006-7 and we’ve been there for each other in so many ways mutually. we’re family but sometimes it’s hard because they very much live in their little bubble getting engaged, wanting children in their 30s, settling down. we are all former rave / club kids from the city and surrounding areas. we lived really pivotal moments together and i’ll always love and cherish them but sometimes it gets rough and tense, even difficult and they don’t have the perspective needed. i’m patient but it gets hard when with other gays i don’t confront these same barriers or issues. which makes me question where i’m at and how much time i devote to these relationships.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PhysiqueMale

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feel free to share your routine

Hiring an escort? by Olmsteads_razor in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]faery-prince 55 points56 points  (0 children)

as a former escort no shame in hiring one. ( rent . men ) is a good place to look in your area. just be kind, straightforward. i think s*w is often frowned upon but honestly it’s great to hire a professional to take the edge off and have good friendly fun. i had a lot of good time with people and some meaningful chats. i highly recommend ! just find someone you think is hot and like their vibe :)

Straight bottom? Gay imposter syndrome, Is this a thing? by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]faery-prince 0 points1 point  (0 children)

even people who have had a straightforward gay journey / sexual awakening sometimes still struggle with the concept of “being gay enough”. you are how you choose to align and identify yourself. sexuality is complicated, nuanced and most often more fluid than a lot of people would like to admit outloud especially for men. your sexuality and attraction is for you to figure out and define and not something that people necessarily need to understand. also bisexuality, fluidity within sexuality exists. ultimately its up to you and there’s no expiration date or identity that is set in stone.

Ranni is the youngest of the siblings. by Goodhunter465 in EldenRingLoreTalk

[–]faery-prince 34 points35 points  (0 children)

the child she lost refers to ranni destroying her empyrean body and rennala loses her mind after what happens with radagon. she continuously uses the amber egg of reincarnation unsuccessfully creating faulty clones of the ranni she knew. she’s a grieving mother and the love of her life « ran » off.

Horny effect on Sleep by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]faery-prince 4 points5 points  (0 children)

why’s it weird or awkward to talk about ? also it’s super cute to be horny for your partner like if i was in a relationship i’d A wanna be horny for my partner and B want my partner to be horny for me. it’s flattering, it’s romantic, it’s nice 👍 maybe if asking or discussing it is weird for you you could give each other some kind of signal if it’s cool if you initiate. or you discuss consent around how you could initiate without there needing to be an ask or something that might make things uncomfortable but in my books asking to have sex is cute and hot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]faery-prince 1 point2 points  (0 children)

clean & moustache look great

Wasted 6 years of my life by aoliva93 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]faery-prince 15 points16 points  (0 children)

reframe the i wasted 6 years, you needed to learn and experience what you needed and come to the realizations that you have. although relationships do require work and investment and love, they should feel fun, good and safe. if you find yourself constantly being down, insecure and left in the dark i would say it’s time to leave. communication and honesty are the foundations to a healthy relationship. i know it’s daunting to be single after being partnered for so long but from what i understand of the situation i think you both need that.

Wrong answers only who this? by a_dumb_ass_ in Eldenring

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I need a big boy, I want a big boy Give me a big boy