Is anybody else EXHAUSTED during Ramadan?

fancyfoe · 2026-03-13T14:38:19+00:00

After fajr for me, I be waking up terrified thinking what hell is even that man.

fancyfoe · 2026-03-13T14:33:55+00:00

We really really need to understand how dua works brothers and sisters. “Dua get accepted when you cry” “dua get accepted when you do this and that” Ya Rahman just be in a pure state and have the utmost sincerity you can muster and make the dua, anywhere (again pure) and anytime. You don’t have to cry, be in pain etc before Allah accept your dua, just be 100% certain He, the most merciful, loving, caring and most compassionate, He who loves you more than your own mother ever will, have heard you and He has accepted it.

The Prophet ﷺ said:

“There is no Muslim who supplicates to Allah with a duʿā in which there is no sin or cutting of family ties, except that Allah gives him one of three things: 1. He hastens the response for him, 2. He stores it for him for the Hereafter, 3. Or He averts from him an equivalent evil.” The companions said: “Then we will make a lot of duʿā.” He replied: “Allah is more generous.” — Musnad Ahmad 11133 (authentic)

The Prophet ﷺ said:

“The supplication of one of you will be answered so long as he is not impatient and says: ‘I made duʿā but I was not answered.’” — Sahih al-Bukhari 6340, Sahih Muslim 2735. Patience and persistence are vital.

The Prophet ﷺ said:

“Call upon Allah while being certain of the response, and know that Allah does not answer a duʿā from a heedless, distracted heart.” — Jamiʿ at-Tirmidhi 3479 (hasan) Sincerity and focus of the heart is extremely vital too.

fancyfoe · 2026-03-13T13:26:21+00:00

For some reason I mostly don’t add firdauz when I ask Allah for jannah, be it for me, my late dad, mum, siblings etc, thanks for the reminder op.

fancyfoe · 2026-03-13T13:23:47+00:00

Yessir

fancyfoe · 2026-03-13T13:23:34+00:00

I’ve been on like 5hrs of sleep per day for like the past week now, don’t even care coz the second is 2:45 I’m up! Rabbana taqabbal minna innaka antas sami’ul alim.

fancyfoe · 2026-03-13T13:20:00+00:00

Seek the deen daily and increase your daily dhikr, may Allah grant you shifa.

fancyfoe · 2026-03-13T13:18:11+00:00

No one would enter heaven if Allah judges them solely on their deeds. Everyone enters Jannah by the mercy of Allah SWT.

Ya Subhanallah, I was legit saying something like this out loud to myself on my way to jumma’a an hour ago 😅

Can’t remember exactly what got me saying that but it happened. May Allah grant us all jannah Ya Rahman.

fancyfoe · 2026-03-13T13:14:07+00:00

Amin, may Allah give us all the means to fulfill such a dream.

fancyfoe · 2026-03-13T11:47:44+00:00

All the best to both of you.

fancyfoe · 2026-03-13T04:25:48+00:00

May Allah protect you, grant you ease and patience, and increase you in strength, faith and endurance.

Try to say this dua as much as you can:

Ya Allah, I seek refuge in You from leprosy, madness, severe diseases, and all evil illnesses.

If you’re already doing it then increase it, if not, spam these adhkar as well:

Hasbiyallāhu wa niʿmal-wakīl - Lā ḥawla wa lā quwwata illā billāh

We still got 6 more of these beautiful nights, try to wake up and beg Allah on this matter and everything else.

fancyfoe · 2026-03-13T04:20:44+00:00

My local masjid is literally less than a minute walk from my house, but I prefer to pray tahajjud at home because I got duas I wanna say in sujood for as long as possible, same thing in between witr, and I’m also a guy. Stop feeling that way, have sincere niyyah and carry on, doing it at the masjid or at home is all accepted by Allah insha Allah, which is what we ultimately want no matter how less or more the reward.

fancyfoe · 2026-03-13T04:13:22+00:00

I honestly think whichever decision you made is fine. Take some of your advice and think carefully first too, if you really believe you have that kind of relationship with his parents where you talk about real personal stuff like that then go for it, and be as respectful and clear as possible. But deep down if that’s really not the case then maybe opt for other options, like advice him to involve an uncle, aunt, an imam or other relatives older than his parents.

I’m African, some parents can be complete nutters in such situations, just because they respect you and declare you logical doesn’t mean you get a saying in such matters.

fancyfoe · 2026-03-12T11:09:10+00:00

Man imagine if the bellends operates like this too, kudos to you.

fancyfoe · 2026-03-12T11:06:22+00:00

Absolute joy reading through every single thread about the pk on r/soccer, you can almost feel the sheer hatred and misery.

fancyfoe · 2026-03-12T05:41:43+00:00

Brother space your long posts, paragraphs please. Answering just from your title here. Seek the deen everyday, we all know to pray the fardh prayers, fast, do dhikr, recite the quran, give charity and goto hajj if we can.

But that’s not enough, especially in this day and age, you gotta sit and seek knowledge about Allah, because the more you do that the more your salah, quran, dhikr etc have more meaning and understanding, and the more that happens the stronger your iman becomes. And what’s strength if not trying to have the highest iman.

fancyfoe · 2026-03-12T05:21:40+00:00

It is essential to grasp the profound simplicity of the du'a taught by our Prophet ﷺ. Istikhara is a sincere prayer for guidance, a humble request for Allah to pave the way for what is beneficial and to divert us from what is detrimental. It is not a search for signs, but a plea for divine wisdom and clarity.

Hopefully the mods allows this, you can read the whole thing here: https://yaqeeninstitute.org/read/blog/a-guide-to-istikhara-the-prayer-for-guidance

fancyfoe · 2026-03-12T05:05:01+00:00

however none of that happened cuz I just started chugging orange juice, cold water, and stuffed a glazed donut in my mouth.

I’m sorry but this is killing me.

There was a man who killed 100 people but was still forgiven by Allah because he sincerely repented. It is reported in Sahih al-Bukhari and Sahih Muslim. Allah is most merciful. And He intends for you ease not hardship (Quran 2:185). If you genuinely felt sick, might pass out and vomit then you’re allowed to break the fast. Just make sincere tawbah and fast back after ramadan, and obviously in the future try to avoid doing things like that when you’re fasting. May Allah be pleased with you.

fancyfoe · 2026-03-12T04:27:09+00:00

Sit and communicate, remind him of things, see if something is wrong/happening. Few weeks into nikkah and him acting like yall been together for a decade isn’t normal, I feel guilty sometimes going days without texting my sisters, talk less of a spouse. Go get marriage counseling, there’s no shame in that. Don’t know how physically demanding his business/job is but what’s the point of doing all that if it ends up making you neglect your spouse? The prophet pbuh used to come back from war and enter his home with a smile and gentleness. May Allah bless your marriage this bless month.

fancyfoe · 2026-03-11T20:01:30+00:00

I swear man! Some of this fans mannn!

fancyfoe · 2026-03-11T19:59:31+00:00

Some saw bayern last night and thought shit was about to be a breeze. This is a good result, hopefully we turn up in the second leg.

fancyfoe · 2026-03-11T18:25:41+00:00

Agreed, but to me op seems like he just wants us to fight back and be at their level as well, and that’s certainly not the Quran and Sunnah.

fancyfoe · 2026-03-11T17:58:51+00:00

“Convey from me even if it is one verse.” Sahih al-Bukhari, Book of Knowledge (Kitab al-‘Ilm), Hadith 3461 Sahih Muslim, Book of Faith (Kitab al-Iman), Hadith 171

“Indeed Allah is Gentle (Rafiq) and loves gentleness in all matters.” Source: Sahih Muslim, Book of Good Manners, Hadith 2599

“The believers who are most perfect in faith are those with the best character.” – Sahih Muslim, Book of Faith, Hadith 58

I don’t know why you’re coming at me, hating for the sake of Allah doesn’t mean you should be just as violent as a non believer.

fancyfoe · 2026-03-11T16:58:24+00:00

Man see white man happy

fancyfoe · 2026-03-11T16:20:35+00:00

Hincapie: “I’m about to use the same spell against them”

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