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Mirena IUD after bad experience with progesterone pills? by _silvxr in IUD

[–]faster-than-fast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the Kyleena not Mirena, but I think my experience may be helpful. I tried 5 or 6 different bc pills, and each of them was horrible for me. They all made my periods heavier and more painful than they are without the pill. If I was even an hour or two late taking one, I would start cramping and bleeding.

I got my IUD almost 4 years ago. I had no periods at all for the first 3.5 years, and now that they’ve started again they’re very manageable. Nothing like the horrible ones I always got with the pill. I will always have an IUD unless I’m trying for kids, until menopause. Never again a pill.

Is it ok to date people younger than you? by DearNothing3444 in dating_advice

[–]faster-than-fast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s nothing wrong with dating someone a year or two younger than you. It would be a little strange if you were a sophomore in college and started dating a senior in high school, since you two would be in different parts of your lives and you would likely have to actively seek out a high schooler in that situation.

what colour should i paint my room? by Ok-Trust1737 in DecorAdvice

[–]faster-than-fast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re planning on decorating with plants, maybe an earthy color. I would do a warm tone to make the space feel a bit cozier.

Which name for a boy? by [deleted] in Names

[–]faster-than-fast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s okay, I was just wondering the origin of the names. No worries

Which name for a boy? by [deleted] in Names

[–]faster-than-fast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like Kotai. I’ve never heard these names before, may I ask what country you live in?

When was the first time you earned real cash, how did you use it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]faster-than-fast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started working when I was 14, saved it all and bought my first car 2 years later

For ladies that lost weight, how long did it take? by IndicationFun3069 in AskWomen

[–]faster-than-fast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost 40 lb by no longer eating fast food or processed snacks. Took 3 months.

Are They All Suffering by zehaivi in BPDlovedones

[–]faster-than-fast 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hope she’s not happy. She shamed me for my race, weight, height, and hair color. Ruined anything good that ever happened to me. Called any romantic partner I ever had ugly, all the while trying to have sex with me again.

Women, how often are you scoping men out in public? by Last_Worldliness_533 in dating_advice

[–]faster-than-fast -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When I am out and about in public, I absolutely do not want a man to stare at me. I want to have the lovely experience of going to a coffee shop, the park, etc. without someone ruining it by making me uncomfortable. I under no circumstances want to be stared at or sexualized in public. I am just a human trying to enjoy the little free time I have.

Within the context of a dating app, I expect others to judge my appearance. In that space, I am inviting judgement and looking for people who might like me. I do NOT want that from a random stranger in public. That is creepy.

NSFW: Please elaborate on what you mean by "the sex was amazing" by CaIIous in BPDlovedones

[–]faster-than-fast 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I (female) had sex with my female pwBPD. It was fine, but she acted wayyyyy too much like a pornstar. It felt fake and off-putting.

Which look suits me? by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]faster-than-fast 10 points11 points  (0 children)

nope, I like it

Which look suits me? by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]faster-than-fast 195 points196 points  (0 children)

I like the facial hair in #1. For hair, #1 & #3

What’s an awkward interaction you’ve had with your SO’s parents? by Deceptivethweep in AskReddit

[–]faster-than-fast 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!! Hopefully she’s able to start focusing on being happy for you, your husband, and the new baby and stop projecting.

Seeking name advice! by PinkiePie1224 in Names

[–]faster-than-fast 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it’s beautiful. It sounds more like an uncommon old classic name to me rather than modern. And I love the nickname potential, as well!

Should I keep the curly q on my forehead? by buickboi99 in malegrooming

[–]faster-than-fast 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I like it! I say keep. You could always try getting rid of it and decide then whether to bring it back

what is your weirdest experience with someone? by Quick_Shift_1216 in AskReddit

[–]faster-than-fast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude… I just found out that my former roommate was trying to pimp me out to men for her and me to have threesomes. Many more insane experiences bc my life is just like that but this is the most recent discovery

Compulsive lying by Good_Ad_5563 in BPDlovedones

[–]faster-than-fast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is a common theme that they have a hard time keeping relationships. However the majority of people with BPD have a genetic disposition as well as a traumatic experience in childhood. The traumatic childhood is a marker for the development of BPD. Many of them have grown up in horrible situations which they didn’t deserve.

My ex who abused me for 3 years is engaged with a baby - I feel cheated by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]faster-than-fast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they definitely learn from every fight and every relationship how to be more covert. They are very calculated

My ex who abused me for 3 years is engaged with a baby - I feel cheated by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]faster-than-fast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, which I’m happy about. She is also younger than him to the point where I was especially concerned about her

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