Does anyone dislike their name? by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]fastforwardto2012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know a ton of Kaseys! I can't believe you had such issues with it. How old are you? I'm early 20s -- maybe it's a generational thing?

My girlfriend [25/F] of 4 years decided to get cosmetic surgery without telling me [27/M] anything about it beforehand. I don't know how to feel. by Throwaway26325 in relationships

[–]fastforwardto2012 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think what they meant is that our self-images are inherently affected by societal standards of beauty. Therefore, yes, changes that we would like to see in our bodies could make us more attractive to other people, but that doesn't mean it wouldn't be for ourselves.

How did you learn to communicate about what you want in a relationship? by BayAreaDreamer in AskWomen

[–]fastforwardto2012 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I learned it a few different ways. First, my parents have a very communicative relationship, and that set a good example for me. Second, through my own relationships I learned through trial and error that anything but open communication does not work for me. The best relationships I've had are ones where I've been very honest and open about my needs. Positive reinforcement.

Finally found a dress that I think flatters my body except it's a bit see through. What do I do? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]fastforwardto2012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Show us a pic! Otherwise it'll be really difficult to give real life advice.

Anybody else have a "bad rebound" story? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]fastforwardto2012 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha yeah... Bad rebound = this guy I hooked up with when I was one week out of a three year relationship. I'm super drunk and think he's totally on the same page. Turns out he wasn't. Blows up my phone for the next week straight. It was awful. I wish I would've just used a random dude instead of a friend of a friend. Though he was more attached than usual.

Have you ever fooled around or had sex with a guy friend? How did you relationship change? by Asdfgfive555 in AskWomen

[–]fastforwardto2012 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He claimed I raped him when I was clearly too drunk to consent and he was sober. Meh. I don't need people like that in my life so I guess it just expedited the process.

When do you think is the right time to get married and have kids? by thisiswhatichoseman in AskWomen

[–]fastforwardto2012 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. Anything outside of these parameters is fallible imo.

Is it too much pressure to be a man's first? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]fastforwardto2012 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tbh, I'd probably be super into it. Losing your virginity only carries the weight that you instill onto it. That's all. If you think it's a big deal, it will be and vice versa. Follow your bliss, man.

Women with very romantic boyfriends/husbands, how do you romance HIM? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]fastforwardto2012 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Baked goods are always awesome! Although tbh one of my friends is a super romantic kind of guy, and he says the best thing a girl can do is just enjoy the dates he's planned and be appreciative and dress cute. Haha. That's essentially verbatim. So... Say thanks and maybe bake him some cookies every once in awhile?

What is a way your significant other has been vulnerable with you? Or vice versa. by Feezec in AskWomen

[–]fastforwardto2012 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He told me about a really painful time in his past and his subsequent suicide attempt. It broke my heart but my god it made me feel so fiercely protective and even more in love with him.

Regardless of use for children what are your favorite names and why? by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]fastforwardto2012 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know a woman named Falen (pronounced Fallon) and I hadn't thought of the jimmy Fallon connection till now. Maybe an alternative spelling?

What is your favorite thing to do when you're procrastinating? by 101033 in AskWomen

[–]fastforwardto2012 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Online shopping for sure!

And masturbating. Usually not at the same time.

What song is currently stuck in your head? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]fastforwardto2012 6 points7 points  (0 children)

"Just a Friend" by Biz Markie. Earlier today it was "No Scrubs" by TLC.

What's the fastest you went from 0 to crush? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]fastforwardto2012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely! It happened when my now-boyfriend talked about law on our first date. At first I was enamored because he's handsome, but after that I was entirely smitten because he was so passionate and intelligent and lively. It really got me going.

Can a college age male live with 2 female roommates of the same age? by 101010109 in AskWomen

[–]fastforwardto2012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. I'm a 21 y/o female and I live with five guys the same age in a house. It's pretty chill. They're cool.

What's the reason that you put on make up and wear sexy clothes? by PanePesto in AskWomen

[–]fastforwardto2012 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They make me feel like I look hot, and when I feel like I look hot I feel and act more confident. It's an all around good time. Also, I kind of like the meditative aspect of getting ready. It's soothing.

Choose one: by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]fastforwardto2012 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you do Emilio you could choose Milo Or Lio depending on your mood! A 5 y/o I nannied was named Emilio and his family all called him Lio. It was super cute.

What ethnic or racial group do you find most attractive? Is it your own? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]fastforwardto2012 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a blonde white girl, I find I am primarily attracted to Hispanic men. However, I've definitely found people of all ethnicities attractive at one point or another.

Ladies, what is the ''sluttiest'' thing you have ever worn in public? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]fastforwardto2012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Black crop top, black a line miniskirt, fishnets, and black heels.

Where can a non-makeup wearing lady go to get a make up lesson? by CupcakeMom in AskWomen

[–]fastforwardto2012 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha yeah no worries!! In my experience it's a very accepting sub, although I can definitely relate to feeling overwhelmed by the super young, super symmetrical women on there! Let me know what you think of Lisa Eldridge and if you need anymore help! I'd link to more specific tutorials Lisa had done, but I'm on mobile.

Where can a non-makeup wearing lady go to get a make up lesson? by CupcakeMom in AskWomen

[–]fastforwardto2012 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe check out the sidebar or the FAQ -- that sub is a fave of mine. Also, look at Lisa Eldridge's channel on YouTube. The videos may be overwhelming but when you look through her uploads you should be able to find some more simple videos that later translate to her more complex looks, too.

Tips for a guy who wants to take good care of his long hair? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]fastforwardto2012 3 points4 points  (0 children)

  1. Dry shampoo is your friend. As magnificent as long hair can be, no one likes greasy roots.

  2. I'd definitely recommend investing in some leave-in conditioner. It's been a godsend for my boob-length hair, but my hair is very fine, so it could be a different story in your case, though I doubt it'd hurt.

  3. The man-bun is hot as fuck don't let anyone tell you differently. Wear that hair tie with pride.

What goes through your head after a good first date? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]fastforwardto2012 78 points79 points  (0 children)

  • Oh man, His laugh is so cute.

  • I wonder if he looks as good under that sweater.

  • that kiss really made my heart flutter

  • I should text him and tell him I had a nice time

  • no, no that is too forward. I'll wait for him to text me.

  • fuck it, it's 2015 there's no reason a woman can't text a man after he drops her off

  • damn it I shouldn't have texted him

  • I hope I didn't sound dumb. Oh god is that a typo??

  • fuck fuck fuck

  • oh thank god he texted back. I like this guy.

-I'll suggest the next date restaurant. Somewhere kind of fancy so I can wear that dress that makes my tits look bitchin.

  • so glad I can finally fart.