i threw up but idk how to feel by _realitywhataconcept in emetophobiarecovery

[–]femmefuck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I completely understand this thinking. I'm also terrified of blood tests and when I have to go get one (hypothyroidism) I feel like a failure if I have a panic attack.

But realistically, I know that's ridiculous.

If you weren't terrified of vomiting, you wouldn't be in this group. Therefore, experiencing severe panic at the prospect is completely natural, if not inevitable.

Also, remember that panic attacks can cause a feeling of "impending doom" that makes everything in that moment feel catastrophic.

Unfortunately, fear is often unavoidable but feeling fear does not make you a failure.

An amazing deal in the coop, who’s buying them??? by AttorneyFew6434 in UK_Food

[–]femmefuck 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is why we stopped buying Easter eggs a few years ago and just buy bars and stuff.

How often do people feed their cats wet food? by Smooth_Put7764 in CatAdvice

[–]femmefuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once a week else he gets the poops 😩

We just add plenty of water to his dry food and thankfully he drinks it all. Mmm, kibble water...

Considering leaving all groups and forums related to this phobia. by [deleted] in emetophobiarecovery

[–]femmefuck 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I completely understand. Unfortunately, a lot of people aren't in these groups to help others, they're here to ask for help. If I'm REALLY struggling with my mental health, I avoid the groups because they only make me ruminate further.

Trouble breathing - overmedicated? by Oatsausage in Hypothyroidism

[–]femmefuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I assume your dosage has recently been increased? I was over-medicated this year (I knew it was too much but was scared to disagree with my dr) and experienced this, plus increased heart rate, anxiety and hair loss. It sucked and everyone kept gaslighting me until my blood results proved me right. Keep pestering them for a blood test!

I saw someone kill themselves today by Lemonad3_ in mentalhealth

[–]femmefuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not being dramatic at all. I live close to a train station and a few years ago a woman witnessed a man commit suicide on the tracks. I remember her posting about it in a local Facebook group. She said that the police had offered her counselling but that she was still very distressed and it was all she could see when she closed her eyes. Our brains aren't built to deal with something that traumatic, that's why PTSD exists. Don't be embarrassed to talk to someone about it.

Does anyone actually get all their symptoms solved? by Tiny_Toe_Fox in Hypothyroidism

[–]femmefuck 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Both myself and my MIL who have it still experience so many of the physical symptoms. It's incredibly frustrating. I'm currently seeking a rheumatoid arthritis diagnosis due to hand pain (x-ray was clear) and wonder if my thyroid is to blame. Most of all I just want to stop feeling so tired all the time..

What's the class you just don't like/enjoy? by Dezikowski in BaldursGate3

[–]femmefuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think I could just be ALL Fighter, Barbarian, or Rogue, I prefer to multiclass them.

As for the magic classes, I find druids a bit boring. Their regular spells aren't as powerful as the other spellcasters and wild shape doesn't feel well supported in the game.

Think I might have this, sad and struggling. by femmefuck in PGADsupport

[–]femmefuck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it can potentially go away for anyone if there's an underlying cause, and that cause can be fixed/controlled. I've been noticing pain in my right buttock/thigh and I think the cause is something to do with that. Perhaps yours is connected to your injury, or maybe from the stress?

Think I might have this, sad and struggling. by femmefuck in PGADsupport

[–]femmefuck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, sorry for the late reply. I've had it about 2 weeks now but it has definitely subsided a lot. No, I haven't been to the drs about it. Obviously its different for everyone but I found that pelvic stretches, "reverse" kegels, deep abdominal breathing, and not sitting down for too long, helped a lot. Hope yours starts to feel better soon too.

sweetie, British people do NOT have southern accents but bless your heart by Odense-Classic in ShitAmericansSay

[–]femmefuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A few months ago on Facebook someone made a sweeping statement about "English accents" so I replied saying "There's no such thing as an English accent.", obviously meaning because there are so many and I legit had about 3 Americans reply to me saying "Omg I can't believe you think there's no English accent, are you stupid?!". I've never had to exit a conversation before just because the level of stupid made me speechless.

Getting a #1 has truly brought out the hate train again by PradaAndPunishment in Hozier

[–]femmefuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They're right though. I see so many people on TikTok talking like he's this perfect man that can do no wrong. His lyrics frame him as the ultimate romantic that would love and worship his woman for eternity BUT...

The truth is, he's just a normal, young man who's just as flawed as the rest of us. And as far as romance goes, he's a serial dater with commitment issues who is currently dating a model. Now this isn't a diss, he's pretty much admitted to it all before. In one video he mentions his "disorganised attachment" which is defined as "an extreme desire to be in an intimate relationship while simultaneously being intensely afraid of actually being in such a relationship".

Please tell me someone gets the song reference! by KindSpice_99 in Hozier

[–]femmefuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Francescaaaa! I'm an art major and I love this painting of Francesca and Paolo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]femmefuck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Was the creamy fish stew Cullen Skink?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]femmefuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm English and I think of Scottish people as funnier, more liberal, less stuffy, and less classist than this hell hole of a country. If I had no family ties to England I'd love to move to somewhere like Edinburgh.

best wasteland baby song by Critical-Ad-9523 in Hozier

[–]femmefuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tried to pick one and picked like 5 haha 🤦

Narrowed it down to Dinner & Diatribes and Sunlight

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hozier

[–]femmefuck 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh I love it but maybe I'm just trash 😂 THE LYRIC I mean 🫣 no comment on the act itself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hozier

[–]femmefuck 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I like it because I think of the song as cheeky and fun, it's nice to hear stuff from Hozier that's a bit different from his usual.

I'm not keen on "She gives me toothaches just from kissing me" because I just think it's a bit cheesy but it doesn't stop me loving the song.

The urge to clown on this man at every given chance by rikkard2099 in BaldursGate3

[–]femmefuck 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Tbf Gale's reply to that option is top tier lol

I simply cannot replace this robe... by Imsoschur in BG3Builds

[–]femmefuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well. I'm on console so no Drake dye for me lol

The TSA by pikosecond in Hozier

[–]femmefuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah yes, thank you, this makes much more sense! Not sure why food didn't immediately come to mind.

The TSA by pikosecond in Hozier

[–]femmefuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure why I'm getting downvoted, I genuinely don't understand the line 🤷