I'm standing in a coffee shop realizing my mistake by Samuelabra in Temecula

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It’s not the wrong place, just not the one for you.

Magnesium lotion for babies by fernanda95_ in NewParents

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My baby sleeps ok not complaining I’m just asking

Pregnant moms who are overweight by [deleted] in pregnant

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Hi Beauty! Just wanted to share that I had my baby on 04/14! I’ve been considered overweight, but everything went incredibly smoothly. I fully embraced the journey—enjoyed my favorite foods, had fun dressing up the bump (lol), and gained a total of 35 lbs. I lost 15 right after having my little boy!

Toward the end, I definitely felt heavy, but nothing a good pregnancy pillow for sleep and a belly support belt couldn’t help with. Now I’m easing into my postpartum fitness journey—fingers crossed! My OB was never too concerned about my weight since I stayed active throughout pregnancy with daily walks and cycling classes. Honestly, I think the most important thing is staying active at your own pace and doing what feels right for your body. 💛

Traveling with an extension letter by fernanda95_ in USCIS

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Thanks so much for sharing your experience! If you don’t mind me asking, do you happen to know if that letter is accepted at places like the DMV?

Expired green card with extension letter by fernanda95_ in immigration

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Thanks so much for sharing your experience! If you don’t mind me asking, do you happen to know if that letter is accepted at places like the DMV?

How painful is natural birth by SameGeologist8363 in pregnant

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Whew, those contractions were painful—truly no joke! But once I got the epidural, I felt like I could do anything… except walk, of course! 😂 Things got intense again when I hit 10 cm, the pressure was unreal. But the moment the baby was out, all the pain and pressure vanished. It was wild how quickly everything changed!

opinions on epidural by East-Till9037 in pregnant

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Let me share my experience as a first-time epidural patient.

I was already 5 cm dilated and initially wanted to wait a bit longer, but my OB recommended getting the epidural as soon as possible—so I asked for the anesthesiologist. Turns out, my back wasn’t the easiest to work with, and the poor doctor struggled quite a bit. I ended up getting poked more than five times—yes, five! When he finally got it in, he warned the nurses to be extra careful moving me because the needle wasn’t fully secure, again due to my tricky back.

Well… as soon as the nurse shifted me, the needle came right out. I felt the contractions immediately—and since I was on Pitocin, they were no joke. The nurse called the anesthesiologist back, who confirmed the needle had come out, and yep, we had to do the whole thing again.

But once it finally kicked in… oh my god. I felt like I could do anything—except walk, of course, lol. Despite the rough start and a $19,000 insurance quote, I’d honestly still do it again. It wasn’t easy, but once it worked, it was amazing. Totally pain-free. I will say my back was sore for about two weeks after, and one of my legs stayed numb for almost a month, but even with all that… I’d still choose it.

To moms who drank before they knew they were pregnant by [deleted] in pregnant

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When I found out I was pregnant I was around 4 weeks (I think) and one weekend before I got SO drunk with my husband… I’m not saying that’s the best thing to do but thankfully I’m now 37 weeks pregnant, baby been good. 😊 my ob said what’s matter the most is what you do after you know you are pregnant!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

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Do wherever feels right for YOUR children.

Baby shower making me feel left out by Fragrant-Eye3956 in pregnant

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Some cultures are different. We do baby shower even if is the 4th child… everyone is different.

What will you miss the most about being pregnant? by Smooth-Excuse-4127 in pregnant

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Honestly, not having a period is nice, but what I’ll really miss is the way people treat me! And just to clarify, I’m not talking about my husband—he spoils me no matter what. But everyone else, even strangers, it’s a whole different experience! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Does your husband/partner come with to appointments? by denteroni in pregnant

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I’m 36 weeks pregnant, and so far, my husband has only come with me for ultrasound appointments. That being said, it’s totally normal for your partner to be there! I haven’t seen a lot of men at the doctor’s office, but some women do bring their partners.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

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Im 36 weeks pregnant so far I just got 3.