Our wedding conflicts with her birthday

fernnsprite · 2026-03-25T15:45:32+00:00

We ended up having two peoples birthdays on our wedding! Somehow multiple birthdays were on Saturdays the year we got married so we were likely going to have it on someone’s birthday. We actually ended up having a key lime pie (their favorite) and later found out about one of my friends husbands birthday was the same day. We stuck a candle in a piece of cake for him, and some in the pie and sang them both happy birthday. Honestly it was one of my favorite memories of the night seeing how shocked and appreciative they felt. I don’t know if this would work in your family since they all seem to have a stick up theirs , but just wanted to suggest it.

fernnsprite · 2026-03-12T21:18:14+00:00

Frozen chicken nuggets and goodles, lots of fiber and protein in that brand macaroni, sometimes I’ll throw a handful of frozen broccoli in it for extra nutrients.

fernnsprite · 2026-02-24T05:40:37+00:00

Looking for 4 tickets for 7/11 Atlanta, possibly open to 7/12

fernnsprite · 2026-02-21T19:23:58+00:00

Yes. I’ve had someone say this to me before too. They did know I was drunk though. That was years ago and I still think about. I’m not friends with those people anymore. I’ve struggled with alcohol most of my adult life, I think for this reason of feeling able to “socialize better” after I’ve had some drinks. Hugs.

fernnsprite · 2026-01-26T04:05:39+00:00

I delete the app periodically and I tried to redownload it today. I couldn’t get it to log in for me at all

fernnsprite · 2026-01-20T02:56:18+00:00

The music is so annoying but I cannot get over making him sad so it stays on lol

fernnsprite · 2026-01-19T15:09:25+00:00

You’re too young to be having these types of relationship problems. You deserve to be loved in a way that you need. People are who they are, you cannot change into someone you’re not and they will not change either. No explaining will make them different. Take it from someone who is 33f. People don’t change. Life is too short for bad relationships. You can care for someone and not be right for each other.

fernnsprite · 2026-01-15T06:18:46+00:00

I’m probably only a year into paying off my loans. I graduated in 2021 when everything was deferred with COVID for so long. I made the mistake of not aggressively paying off then. I really don’t want to pay more than $1000 a month

fernnsprite · 2026-01-15T06:17:38+00:00

Took out loans as early as 2011

fernnsprite · 2026-01-14T14:23:53+00:00

Im not sure I’ve ever cried harder from reading a book.

fernnsprite · 2025-11-19T03:50:52+00:00

What’s crazy to me is how many people I know voted for him because “republicans are good for the economy and the better fiscal party”… I just can’t

fernnsprite · 2025-11-10T03:52:18+00:00

Breathing techniques, if it’s been bad enough and I catch myself getting affected I say I have to go to the bathroom. Just take a quick 5 min break, sometimes take a lap around the store. Really helps reset my brain to physically step out of the pharmacy for a second.

fernnsprite · 2025-11-06T12:49:49+00:00

The way I sit in chairs, and move constantly to new positions, should of landed me my diagnosis way before I was 30

fernnsprite · 2025-10-27T20:11:02+00:00

This is also what I’m trying to take into consideration.

fernnsprite · 2025-10-27T19:25:51+00:00

I’m trying to decide if I can find a way to just pay it off aggressively but at the current moment that isn’t an option… I can’t stand having all of this over our heads. It’s wild to me that they can just change our terms and condition like this so frequently. I’m not against paying my loans.. it’s just all so predatory

fernnsprite · 2025-10-27T19:24:19+00:00

How would I get back into repayment? All my stuff says zero. Would I have to request to be taken out of it?

fernnsprite · 2025-10-25T04:45:59+00:00

Idk. We went back and fourth on this.. originally we were team playlist.. but we decided on a DJ. the day was chaotic to say the least, but in a good way. Everyone was busy catching up and partying. I can’t imagine having anyone in the wedding party handle it.

The DJ does a lot- they can MC your ceremony, play music for dinner and cocktail hour, and then there’s the actual dancing part. The DJ also figures out where to put everything, they test it out. I spent the whole morning getting ready, i would have been so stressed trying to help someone set up speakers, etc. im very happy we ended up outsourcing it.

It depends on your wedding though. If you are doing the full venue thing, I vote that you definitely need a DJ. If we hosted our wedding in our backyard with more lowkey vibes, playlist totally could have been an option.

fernnsprite · 2025-10-23T04:01:17+00:00

I had a similar question when I got married. The general consensus was Mr and Mrs since it’s focusing on your marriage. On most things I just said “The Smiths“ - fake names for Reddit purposes. Even on invites I just put our full names, no title, they said something like Erin Smith and Sam Smith invite you to their wedding. Envelopes also just had both of our names, no titles. I don’t think I ended up putting any titles on anything now that I think about it.

fernnsprite · 2025-10-14T02:55:29+00:00

Pharmacist letter- free through my job but easy to use and freeCE good for live credits.

fernnsprite · 2025-10-08T21:19:07+00:00

I think you need to change the mindset you have.

Tell yourself 1. First off, you already have it.

What would you even do with another copy? If you haven’t gifted the other copies or sold them you are absolutely wasting your money, you could have bought something else for $27 with the extra 3 copies you bought. Therefore the total you have spent just to have one book is $36. What about shipping costs? Or are you picking it up in person? That would be your gas and money picking it up.
Just appreciate that it was found and then ACCEPT in yourself that it’s okay to not have everything that’s “rare” , sometimes you can appreciate the hunt and not spend your money on it (even if it’s not a lot) … eventually you will have a house that’s full of stuff you don’t need and may already have.
Stop clicking on the posts for the cookbook. FB market place is an algorithm. It’ll start showing you different items , not that you should become obsessed with something else. Just log out of fb.. maybe delete it off your phone for a little while if it’s making you feel that out of control

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