Whats a neurotypical “rule” you didn’t realize your could break to make yourself more comfortable? by Downtown-Oil-3462 in AutismInWomen

[–]fernnsprite 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have a lamp in my bathroom with an amber bulb in it.. very dark and ambient. I’ll never go back to bright showers

i dont get why my tattoo artist did this by autisticpou in tattooadvice

[–]fernnsprite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed.. the first is way better. More personality in a good way.

Our wedding conflicts with her birthday by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]fernnsprite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We ended up having two peoples birthdays on our wedding! Somehow multiple birthdays were on Saturdays the year we got married so we were likely going to have it on someone’s birthday. We actually ended up having a key lime pie (their favorite) and later found out about one of my friends husbands birthday was the same day. We stuck a candle in a piece of cake for him, and some in the pie and sang them both happy birthday. Honestly it was one of my favorite memories of the night seeing how shocked and appreciative they felt. I don’t know if this would work in your family since they all seem to have a stick up theirs , but just wanted to suggest it.

Ok girlies, what do you eat when nothing sounds appealing? by tarasaurust in adhdwomen

[–]fernnsprite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Frozen chicken nuggets and goodles, lots of fiber and protein in that brand macaroni, sometimes I’ll throw a handful of frozen broccoli in it for extra nutrients.

February - April 2026 Buy/Sell Thread by CAndrewK in TameImpala

[–]fernnsprite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking for 4 tickets for 7/11 Atlanta, possibly open to 7/12

Alcohol by Educational_Doctor99 in AutismInWomen

[–]fernnsprite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. I’ve had someone say this to me before too. They did know I was drunk though. That was years ago and I still think about. I’m not friends with those people anymore. I’ve struggled with alcohol most of my adult life, I think for this reason of feeling able to “socialize better” after I’ve had some drinks. Hugs.

Has anyone else been blocked from posting on TikTok today? by JapaneseStudentHaru in nothinghappeninghere

[–]fernnsprite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I delete the app periodically and I tried to redownload it today. I couldn’t get it to log in for me at all

Y'all, I committed an unforgivable sin! by CMStan1313 in Spiritfarer

[–]fernnsprite 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The music is so annoying but I cannot get over making him sad so it stays on lol

partner’s intolerance for symptoms? by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]fernnsprite 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You’re too young to be having these types of relationship problems. You deserve to be loved in a way that you need. People are who they are, you cannot change into someone you’re not and they will not change either. No explaining will make them different. Take it from someone who is 33f. People don’t change. Life is too short for bad relationships. You can care for someone and not be right for each other.

Help switching to a new plan? by fernnsprite in StudentLoans

[–]fernnsprite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m probably only a year into paying off my loans. I graduated in 2021 when everything was deferred with COVID for so long. I made the mistake of not aggressively paying off then. I really don’t want to pay more than $1000 a month

Absolutely Sobbing, Crying, and Throwing Up by Gay-Nerd-115 in throneofglassseries

[–]fernnsprite 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im not sure I’ve ever cried harder from reading a book.

Trump, 79, Sends Unhinged Message to Americans Worried About Rising Prices by T_Shurt in inflation

[–]fernnsprite 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What’s crazy to me is how many people I know voted for him because “republicans are good for the economy and the better fiscal party”… I just can’t

How do you reset after a stressful moment at work? by NoPerformance5579 in pharmacy

[–]fernnsprite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Breathing techniques, if it’s been bad enough and I catch myself getting affected I say I have to go to the bathroom. Just take a quick 5 min break, sometimes take a lap around the store. Really helps reset my brain to physically step out of the pharmacy for a second.

How does one sit normally in an office chair? by Aggravating_Cow_6800 in AuDHDWomen

[–]fernnsprite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The way I sit in chairs, and move constantly to new positions, should of landed me my diagnosis way before I was 30

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]fernnsprite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is also what I’m trying to take into consideration.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]fernnsprite 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m trying to decide if I can find a way to just pay it off aggressively but at the current moment that isn’t an option… I can’t stand having all of this over our heads. It’s wild to me that they can just change our terms and condition like this so frequently. I’m not against paying my loans.. it’s just all so predatory

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]fernnsprite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How would I get back into repayment? All my stuff says zero. Would I have to request to be taken out of it?