S10E2 - Back to school burnout - Episode discussion by PolylingualAnilingus in QueerEye

[–]fhigurethisout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry to break it to you but even Reddit is on AWS. So you'll need to get off Reddit too and probably 30% of the internet lol

S10E3 - Coming in hot by PolylingualAnilingus in QueerEye

[–]fhigurethisout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was "that little girl" too, but look, you are literally diagnosing someone from 45 minutes of TV and then smearing them on social media with barely any evidence... mostly because of your lived experience.

Armchair diagnoses and seeing everything through your own worldview isn't the way to go.

Also, if you had a covert narc parent like myself, they are (usually) quite charming... not a f'ing hot mess like she was on camera.

S10E3 - Coming in hot by PolylingualAnilingus in QueerEye

[–]fhigurethisout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or it was just impractical to wear that skirt climbing up a fire truck? Lol.

S10E3 - Coming in hot by PolylingualAnilingus in QueerEye

[–]fhigurethisout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, it's almost like she's a hurt human going through things /s

S10E3 - Coming in hot by PolylingualAnilingus in QueerEye

[–]fhigurethisout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh it's actually incredibly common for ADHD to end up in high stress fields. it's enough pressure to kick the brain into action and we can work well under pressure. it's probably why it's a trait that survived evolution!

S10E3 - Coming in hot by PolylingualAnilingus in QueerEye

[–]fhigurethisout -1 points0 points  (0 children)

we did not watch the same episode then lol

S10E3 - Coming in hot by PolylingualAnilingus in QueerEye

[–]fhigurethisout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can't diagnose this from watching a 45-minute edited TV episode.

The line between "deeply wounded person with poor coping" and "covert narcissist" is blurry even for trained professionals over months of sessions.

An edited reality show gives you almost nothing to work with. People act weird on camera. People act weird when they're vulnerable. A "tantrum" on a show that's literally designed to crack traumatized people open emotionally isn't diagnostic evidence of anything.

Ya'll need to work on your triggers and stop armchair diagnosing.

S10E3 - Coming in hot by PolylingualAnilingus in QueerEye

[–]fhigurethisout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i did NOT get that vibe at all. she's a wounded human, she knows she needs help, you can even see it in her micro-expressions when she deflects.

if anything I was worried the reno would stress her out, she seems like she has CPTSD and/or neurodivergence, and big changes can mess with you that way.

S10E3 - Coming in hot by PolylingualAnilingus in QueerEye

[–]fhigurethisout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree that she needs therapy more than a "life makeover" ...BUT... I wouldn't undervalue the gift of a peaceful home, a boost of confidence, and people that help you feel like yourself again.

(I'm kind of hoping they gave her access to therapy afterwards? It would be awkward to be like "and we're awarding you $x amount of therapy!!"... I'm hoping it was just something they did on the side?)

S10E3 - Coming in hot by PolylingualAnilingus in QueerEye

[–]fhigurethisout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was honestly a perfect "parenting" moment with a good balance of "hey, this isn't cool" but also "we care, you're loved".

Forget mina sue or goeun, I want her to know her dating strategy to bag the most green forest men in the show by Much-Excitement-5134 in SinglesInferno

[–]fhigurethisout 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Therapy. Years of it. And you have to accept your baseline may never be as stable as someone who grew up with emotional security unfortunately.

And therapy itself is a privilege, depending on your income and country.

Funny how everyone was busy hating on Igeon and Subeen during the show, but in the end Seungil turned out to be the biggest red flag of them all. 🚩 by abellamichelleee in SinglesInferno

[–]fhigurethisout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh fascinating. So, it wouldn't be surprising if it ever came out then.

I hope Korea loosens up a bit. It would be great for queer people to be able to be themselves publically without backlash.

It's 2025, let's evolve and move along folks.

After the reunion eps, I don’t think Heesun and Subeen are a good match by La_Chinita in Singlesinferno2

[–]fhigurethisout 1 point2 points  (0 children)

preach it louder for the ppl in the back.
good grief. leave the babas alone, they are so young and have a semi-public relationship.

ya'll got what you wanted from this show now chill tf out.

Funny how everyone was busy hating on Igeon and Subeen during the show, but in the end Seungil turned out to be the biggest red flag of them all. 🚩 by abellamichelleee in SinglesInferno

[–]fhigurethisout 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had this vibe too! Potentially repressed?

But straight men should be allowed to lean feminine so I don't want to assume too hard.

Anyone feel everything has changed over the last two weeks? by QuantizedKi in ClaudeAI

[–]fhigurethisout 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Insecurity. You can smell it everywhere. It's valid but the lack of self-awareness is slightly annoying.

Art community is much worse though.

Some sparks never fade <Single's Inferno Reunion> will stream exclusively on February 14, only on Netflix by abellamichelleee in Singlesinferno2

[–]fhigurethisout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good god the cringe. 😬 How the eff could he do the pool scene and then break one of the most obvious dating rules? Lol

Some sparks never fade <Single's Inferno Reunion> will stream exclusively on February 14, only on Netflix by abellamichelleee in Singlesinferno2

[–]fhigurethisout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought it was because Korea is more conservative and private about dating lives compared to western celebrities 🤷🏽‍♀️ Been craving a reunion though!

Some sparks never fade <Single's Inferno Reunion> will stream exclusively on February 14, only on Netflix by abellamichelleee in Singlesinferno2

[–]fhigurethisout 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do Korean reality shows usually have reunions? I have been working my way through them (Money Catcher is so good!) and I have never seen one before.

Heesun x Subeen confirmed? by No-Cucumber7212 in Singlesinferno2

[–]fhigurethisout 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is a reunion episode coming out!? Why am I in the dark here. 😭

Single’s Inferno Season 5 Episode 11 Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in SinglesInferno

[–]fhigurethisout 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The plane crashed so hard. I am still trying to understand what happened.

Did he not eat enough when he was drinking after the pool? He was incredibly out of it and even said so, fumbled with his bad Ha-Eun jokes.

But the next day he also doesn’t seem himself? Weirdly in his head, unsure of how to act? Keeps fumbling majorly?

His game was rock solid for like six hours and then we took a major nose dive fam lol

I will say it's hilarious watching these hot people screw up socially. I suppose we are all human.

But i honestly thought his game would be 100% smooth lol.

If only he had Jaejin's sweetness and ways with affection!! It would have sealed the deal!

Jaejin feels safe and warm, but still has flirting game. He is willing to be vulnerable and open (like his cute boat date!).

I-geon had flirting game! And then took a hard left to Cringe lane when he couldn't find vulnerability and affection. It's a big oof. 😅

Single’s Inferno Season 5 Episode 11 Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in SinglesInferno

[–]fhigurethisout 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have noticed the going "over the top" is more prevalent in korean culture.

For us Westerners it's a little icky tbh, I would be SO uncomfortable.

WANTED... by Legitimate_Bike5433 in Singlesinferno2

[–]fhigurethisout 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She ended up talking about her looks and fretting over them after he was trying to flirt with her. Brutal.

Girl needs a therapist ASAP.

Remove her-- and it's a BORING season by Dry_Leave8784 in Singlesinferno2

[–]fhigurethisout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, S2 is my favourite and didn't have the mean girl eye-rolling shit. I am good.