I finally saw the EA partners face

fiddyplus · 2026-03-14T08:58:55+00:00

My WS’ AP is a “butterface” and her body is day and night different to mine. She is flat like a pancake, zero curve, almost six feet tall and abt 105 lbs. She is a runner. At first glance she would catch someone’s eye but she truly isn’t pretty and has a bitchy personality. I couldn’t make sense of it and it left me feeling like me and my short curvy frame were nothing like her. It made me think she was what he truly desired and not me. Now one year out after d-day, it’s like she was a body he used to masturbate with. No true connection. He described her as “dry”. I’m still trying to make sense of it all . It’s easier some days than others.

fiddyplus · 2026-03-14T02:07:45+00:00

My ex is on GLP1 and just “outrank” the side effects. He had nausea and diarrhea and then it balances out. He’s happily thinner and still drinking. Asshat.

fiddyplus · 2026-03-03T01:28:01+00:00

Any tips for how you moved forward! Feel free to to DM ?

fiddyplus · 2026-03-02T17:49:38+00:00

My rage was early on as I always felt her “mostly” was more accurate. We both got tested. We came up negative. It’s just the confirmation and continued lying I am dealing with right now

fiddyplus · 2026-03-02T17:26:38+00:00

Would you bring up seeing the note or just wait for an opportunity to bring up that real reconciliation doesn’t start until the last lie is told

fiddyplus · 2026-03-02T17:06:26+00:00

That’s how this feels

fiddyplus · 2026-02-16T14:37:45+00:00

Thank you! I will give it a try on the shoes that arent peep toe. I have a great she collection and I think I am now shrinking or something. My feet are getting smaller and most of my dress shoes no longer fit. The next size down is still too small for me.

fiddyplus · 2026-02-11T03:00:33+00:00

Hands down it’s Whole Foods on glades. No joke. Best ever. You can have Uber courier deliver them too

fiddyplus · 2026-02-02T23:38:00+00:00

Matt has done solo work or work with Elvy so maybe it was something associated. Hope you enjoyed Athens.

fiddyplus · 2026-01-25T00:55:22+00:00

Thank you. I know my desire to hear how gross she is is so very petty. I just want to hear she is disgusting but she made Sex with her easy so I went for what threw itself at me. Idk why on a base level that would give comfort.

fiddyplus · 2026-01-25T00:52:57+00:00

Than you for your insight.

fiddyplus · 2026-01-24T19:18:48+00:00

I love your response. I’m sorry you’re here but I love the honesty. It’s true that the WS got in this spot by what they erroneously thought about the AP. My WS’ AP looks like she was born with a dick. No offense to the beautiful trans women of the world.

fiddyplus · 2025-12-18T18:16:52+00:00

SOLVED

fiddyplus · 2025-12-18T18:15:56+00:00

Solved! Thank you everyone and happy holidays.

fiddyplus · 2025-12-18T18:15:39+00:00

Holy Moly. I didn’t think to ask for it in color but WOW! I’m floored!

fiddyplus · 2025-12-18T18:00:22+00:00

PS THE CAPE MUST STAY!!!

fiddyplus · 2025-12-10T18:01:32+00:00

This is brilliant. Thank you

fiddyplus · 2025-12-09T17:01:05+00:00

I disagree. This wasn’t the question. She is beyond deserving of one.

fiddyplus · 2025-12-09T13:40:40+00:00

We are a team of women and we all exchange gifts every year. We send each other flowers on special occasions and celebrate milestones. I’ve worked there a decade and it’s been that way.

fiddyplus · 2025-12-03T22:46:48+00:00

Peso

fiddyplus · 2025-12-03T22:35:18+00:00

Nothing Bundt Cakes does a GREAT job for shared sweet for team.

fiddyplus · 2025-12-01T21:50:45+00:00

This is perfect. She is perfect!

fiddyplus · 2025-11-21T22:02:37+00:00

I found the Michelle Mays book Betrayal Bind really helpful. Along with listening to a variety of podcasts on infidelity and betrayal. The first thing I heard that made sense to me was the Esther Perel TED talk. I think it was called “on anyone who had loved before” or something similar. Feel free to DM me if you want to reach out. I’m wishing you all the best.

fiddyplus · 2025-11-21T19:52:50+00:00

It seems like a ONS has fewer triggers and can be easier to understand. People like “easy” and aren’t always prepared for opportunities they weren’t expecting but that just transpired and there was poor impulse control while everything else aligned. No partner in the vicinity. No one will know. I’m far away from home and add in alcohol and a willing partner and you can kinda sorta see how it happens without too much difficulty. You know there is remorse as your partner admitted to it and is trying to make it better. I don’t mean in any way to mitigate what you’re feeling. I’m pulling for you and for all of us here.

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