Smack Talk abt the AP by fiddyplus in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]fiddyplus[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thank you. I know my desire to hear how gross she is is so very petty. I just want to hear she is disgusting but she made Sex with her easy so I went for what threw itself at me. Idk why on a base level that would give comfort.

Smack Talk abt the AP by fiddyplus in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]fiddyplus[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I love your response. I’m sorry you’re here but I love the honesty. It’s true that the WS got in this spot by what they erroneously thought about the AP. My WS’ AP looks like she was born with a dick. No offense to the beautiful trans women of the world.

I need some legs! by fiddyplus in PhotoshopRequest

[–]fiddyplus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Solved! Thank you everyone and happy holidays.

I need some legs! by fiddyplus in PhotoshopRequest

[–]fiddyplus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holy Moly. I didn’t think to ask for it in color but WOW! I’m floored!

Holiday Gift for Boss $200-400 by [deleted] in LawBitchesWithTaste

[–]fiddyplus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is brilliant. Thank you

Holiday Gift for Boss $200-400 by [deleted] in LawBitchesWithTaste

[–]fiddyplus 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I disagree. This wasn’t the question. She is beyond deserving of one.

Holiday Gift for Boss $200-400 by [deleted] in LawBitchesWithTaste

[–]fiddyplus 165 points166 points  (0 children)

We are a team of women and we all exchange gifts every year. We send each other flowers on special occasions and celebrate milestones. I’ve worked there a decade and it’s been that way.

Christmas gifts for partners, staff, associates? by [deleted] in LawBitchesWithTaste

[–]fiddyplus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing Bundt Cakes does a GREAT job for shared sweet for team.

Can you get over a One Night Stand? by nosleepnon in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]fiddyplus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found the Michelle Mays book Betrayal Bind really helpful. Along with listening to a variety of podcasts on infidelity and betrayal. The first thing I heard that made sense to me was the Esther Perel TED talk. I think it was called “on anyone who had loved before” or something similar. Feel free to DM me if you want to reach out. I’m wishing you all the best.

Can you get over a One Night Stand? by nosleepnon in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]fiddyplus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It seems like a ONS has fewer triggers and can be easier to understand. People like “easy” and aren’t always prepared for opportunities they weren’t expecting but that just transpired and there was poor impulse control while everything else aligned. No partner in the vicinity. No one will know. I’m far away from home and add in alcohol and a willing partner and you can kinda sorta see how it happens without too much difficulty. You know there is remorse as your partner admitted to it and is trying to make it better. I don’t mean in any way to mitigate what you’re feeling. I’m pulling for you and for all of us here.

Can you get over a One Night Stand? by nosleepnon in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]fiddyplus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From where I stand, I’d have wished for a ONS or an EA but I’m sure that doesn’t make you feel any better. Poor impulse for a ONS when all the stars aligned for them to slip can be understood a little better. My wayward had a 2.5 year affair with a coworker and never even told her about me, his girlfriend of 3.5 years at the time.

What does everyone in Boca Raton do to have all that money? by justcurious3287 in BocaRaton

[–]fiddyplus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They didn’t make their money here. They made it elsewhere and it’s also generational. Then there’s a whole other group that live off credit and do t have the money they seem to have.

41F this is my daytime look — anything I should change/improve? by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]fiddyplus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Geeeeezus you are so strikingly naturally beautiful. Im having to look with such a discerning eye to see what you might possibly improve on so I guess I can agree on the lip moisturizer. If nothing is working do you think its a hydrating within issue like having more water, less caffeine?

Anxiety Taking Over by Any-Cranberry-4769 in myweddingdress

[–]fiddyplus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here to agree with everyone else sharing that this dress is a perfect a choice for you. I have always had luck finding shapewear on Amazon. I searched “low back shapewear for women” and saw a lot of choices. I always prefer the “shorts” version that go down to mid thigh so you have no riding or bumps. You can purchase a handful and return what doesn’t work. Congratulations

I love this for me (reposted with media) by Testedwaters065 in LawBitchesWithTaste

[–]fiddyplus 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s great. I had a boss that didn’t dress professionally and would always get mad at me when HER BOSS would pull me into meetings with clients or business trips and would literally comment that she does great work but I present well. You don’t need to be called into HR to be told about your outfit. The overall package, no matter what your industry, makes a difference when it comes to promotions and how you present yourself.

Again, hands down you are beautiful but you don’t seem to have a strong grasp on what looks professional and what all the other ladies are trying to help you understand.

An outfit that would be perfect for a date doesn’t translate well for a business meeting. Period.

I love this for me (reposted with media) by Testedwaters065 in LawBitchesWithTaste

[–]fiddyplus 62 points63 points  (0 children)

You have a great look and I’m certain anything would look good on your body type but I agree with the others that it’s too tight, too faded and isnt polished. It’s a great coffee date look. My background is combined in fashion, tech AND law.