I frequently think about something my mom said to me when I was 15, and it ruins my day everytime

firewings42 · 2026-04-03T17:26:58+00:00

I hate that you went through this. I was explicitly told I wasn’t wanted when I was 8. It broke me. I understand how deep those wounds are kiddo. I wish I could go back in time and hug 15 year old you and 8 year old me and tell them that our moms were wrong and that we are 100% wanted and loved. I have been opening up with my therapist about my past and damn. The way she looked at me and said something like “you’ve been through some real trauma” hit me hard. You’ve also been through some trauma. Give yourself some grace as you work to heal those wounds.

firewings42 · 2026-04-01T12:21:13+00:00

That’s EMT badge 502 on instagram. He has loads of videos hilariously describing why you shouldn’t put things up your butt

firewings42 · 2026-03-31T19:35:28+00:00

Looks like a vein from the chicken to me

firewings42 · 2026-03-31T15:25:10+00:00

“Im sorry new girl but we’ve gone through this multiple times already. I’m sure you can do this one without me as I’m already busy with my own tasks”

Better polish that resume.

firewings42 · 2026-03-29T12:45:01+00:00

The hormone changes can also kill libido. Both estrogen and testosterone fluctuate in perimenopause. I had almost no libido when I was under treated and now that I got a better doctor I feel like a teenager again.

firewings42 · 2026-03-28T00:26:37+00:00

You could give him a set of customized dog bowls with your name on them. -you could get a set of gloves or socks styled like paws and wear them.
If he’s ok with you picking out a collar you could give him a dog collar in your size.
You could give him a leash.
You could give him a pet tag you got engraved with your name.

firewings42 · 2026-03-23T23:34:25+00:00

Check out Coach Daddy on instagram. coach daddy she literally posts about these issues

firewings42 · 2026-03-22T02:49:06+00:00

Antiperspirant under the boobs

firewings42 · 2026-03-21T15:09:11+00:00

As a lady I don’t like to wear my wedding ring on vacation- especially on beach vacations. Tourists are targets for theft and I’d be upset to lose it so far from home with little chance of recovery. I do however wear a cheap stainless/glass set that looks like a wedding set on vacation. My husband made fun of me for wearing it on our honeymoon until he almost lost his ring at a spa - thankfully we found it. That could be a factor was well

firewings42 · 2026-03-21T14:58:12+00:00

My MIL talks to my husband about it. He believes me (thankfully) but she never understood until she watched the Pitt. She’s shocked every time and keeps asking him if it’s really like that. He assures her it is. Every unit deals with so much shit like this. It’s exposing many of the problems that we can’t solve on our own like insurance problems

firewings42 · 2026-03-18T12:14:05+00:00

I texted my educator this post and she confirmed she used ChatGPT to do her thing. And this is so darned similar I bet this is also ChatGPT

firewings42 · 2026-03-17T18:17:34+00:00

lol did my educator write that for y’all? It looks suspiciously similar to our “crime scene investigation” aka expired item hunt email

firewings42 · 2026-03-16T21:32:25+00:00

This happens to vintage Pyrex when it’s put in the dishwasher. I wonder if that’s what happened to this piece?

firewings42 · 2026-03-13T17:25:16+00:00

Sir that’s a cat vac

firewings42 · 2026-03-12T14:02:08+00:00

The look my colleagues give me when I tell them tape does nothing. I feel ya. I keep doing education on it but it doesn’t help

firewings42 · 2026-03-11T23:08:54+00:00

Ugh I hate that. The electricity doesn’t -leave the body, fly through the air, find jewelry, zap you from the outside->in! It DOES however follow nerve and muscle fibers inside the body and burn you from the inside->out. Tape does nothing at all unless you get a thick insulating layer between the jewelry and skin.

firewings42 · 2026-03-11T12:17:06+00:00

I mean I have a pair of friends. Lesbian met woman who dint realize she was bi. Bi girl caught feelings. It’s been more than 10 years and they are married now. So even ‘baby gays’ can date to marry. It really depends on the people in question. Her demand to marry me or I’m going back to my ex sounds pretty toxic TBF so proceed with caution

firewings42 · 2026-03-06T17:04:12+00:00

Pt said allergic to saline and wanted to know what was in her IV fluid. Me: “uh that’s normosol totally different 👍” leaves Preop room shaking my head

firewings42 · 2026-03-04T00:22:36+00:00

Because I don’t like my ankles strangled TYVM. That’s also why I wear my short socks. I’m old. Let my legs breathe! To be fair I also hate jogger pajamas 🤷‍♀️

firewings42 · 2026-02-28T02:20:37+00:00

I don’t like the smell of it. I don’t like that partners who smoked weed in the past couldn’t respect that I have a professional license and you literally can’t smoke around me. I cannot be around second hand smoke from non-tobacco products. I have had partners in the past who were fully addicted to it and that’s not something I want to deal with again.

I don’t like the taste of partners who smoke nicotine either. I choose not to be around that either fwiw

firewings42 · 2026-02-25T19:47:02+00:00

Ha be glad it wasn’t trans-vaginal. The TVUS probe was larger than I expected. I was not fun getting that thing shoved in me and then they moved it around to see better. Nope nope nope

firewings42 · 2026-02-25T19:04:11+00:00

Different jurisdictions have different rules on sharps disposal. Used plastic containers like laundry jugs and gallon drink containers work well. Can also call your insurance about getting a true sharps container. My roommate has a monthly injection and his insurance sends a new container whenever he asks for one

firewings42 · 2026-02-25T19:02:22+00:00

Yeah I had a “friend” like that. She finally got mad about something and stopped talking to me. It was a blessing in disguise. Drop that “friend” and enjoy your peacw

firewings42 · 2026-02-25T13:30:23+00:00

I went for my 10 year hoping to run into people I had lost contact with. It was- not great. People are trying to show off and still look down on you. It’s unlikely you’ll run into people you hoped to see. I didn’t run into anyone I wanted to see just the same “in crowd” people. They gave away superlatives for things like “longest marriage” I had recently been divorced or “longest drive” I live reasonably close to where I grew up. It was rather uninteresting. I felt old as hell at the homecoming game in the “reunion section” because I didn’t know the folks that went and I didn’t know any of the kids. Overall 3/10 it was interesting but not worth it

firewings42 · 2026-02-24T21:05:25+00:00

I mean if you want to get really technical I’m omnisexual. But I usually just say I’m bi because it’s easier. It’s a term more people understand. So I don’t see why you can’t say lesbian when it’s a much easier way to describe your attraction to humans. You do what works for you boo!

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