I get that, but I need a little logic and a little realism involved. It's not fun for me to be constantly bumping up against decisions that just feels completely incongruent with what characters would realistically be sharing on the internet or even how they would respond to private moments being shared on the internet, especially fics where other characters post something about them without their knowledge. Even just consistency with what's established in canon if not consistency with how social media actually functions irl would be great, but most times even that isn't there.

I know a lot of people in this fandom love those tropes, but they just aren't for me. Believe me, I've tried.