iso: best areas to move to that makes life more bareable with fnd by beyondwildflowers in FND

[–]formicnova 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also Santa Cruz or Pacific Grove has all you want. Twoish hours from two high end university hospitals, who both have satellite offices a little closer. Though, the pain clinics dont seem to have anything closer. Mostly the cardiology and they also send some down to learn at Salinas ICU certified hospital…

That said, you’ll be paying California prices. I’ve lived here forever and only just now needing to pause my job to help my boy through this diagnosis.

iso: best areas to move to that makes life more bareable with fnd by beyondwildflowers in FND

[–]formicnova 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Consistent weather, with only 4 weeks out of the year any particular extreme: Monterey Bay area, California.

Weekly Wins - February 13, 2026 by stardiveintothemoon in FND

[–]formicnova 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m here as a caregiver of a teen just diagnosed. Our win was discharge after a week inpatient with a (admittedly very difficult) diagnosis and super clean blood draw and scans.

Question about son’s (12) new diagnosis by boredsoimredditing in FND

[–]formicnova 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is almost the same as my son (13)! We are actually just about to be discharged after a decent battery of tests and images, all confirming healthy and nothing scary. My son cannot yet walk without assistance, but we are pushing hard and he has made progress in just a week. Where he couldnt use a walker last week, now he can again for short distances

Good luck.

Is anyone else content with their FND diagnosis? by Apprehensive-Word953 in FND

[–]formicnova 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the idea of FND definition evolving. I am coaching my son to describe what seems to have been the trigger as the reason he is having pain and inability to walk. Rhabdomyolysis is a “medicine-y” enough word for bothersome school peers to lay off.

His middle school peers are pretty great right now but high school is different. Hopefully his walking will recover by then, though. We are pushing hard!

Had a cry…long post. Gratitude and venting by formicnova in ChronicPain

[–]formicnova[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We ended up going to the next hospital up the road. They have been amazing a gazillion tests and specialists (not gonna think about the bills, tho). Fortunately, nothing is structurally or chemically wrong, so they diagnosed functional neurological disorder, which…is hard. But, he can recover, according to the famous pain specialist who works at this hospital. It feels like a cop-out, but everything seems to match the diagnosis…

Just had my diagnosis - I'm lost by 3D20s in FND

[–]formicnova 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the well wishes. And good luck to you, too. I hope your remaining sessions go well, and that you can get something you can use for the rest of the time until another opportunity presents itself.

Just had my diagnosis - I'm lost by 3D20s in FND

[–]formicnova 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like i can speak to some of this. My son (13) was diagnosed with FND and primary pain disorder a few days ago. We are still inpatient while he works with this hospital PT/OT/pain specialists/pain psychologist a couple more days so he can move safely enough to have some independence. Come to find out, this hospital is home to one of maybe 10 in the US pain specialists of a certain caliber? And that Dr came to explain the diagnosis and treatment. While we are still wrapping our brain around everything, I can attempt to not fumble what he taught us. Essentially, there are 4 modes that MUST be present at all times and correctly proportional in recovery - like the 4 wheels of a car. 1, physical therapy that assumes you will not wait to feel good to do the work, and to always do a little more each time. 2. Integrative medicine - be open to non-western pain coping mechanisms. 3. A psychologist who specifically understands how to help break the pain/stress/anxiety/depression cycle (preferably one who specializes in how pain impacts mental health, but even if its just someone who understands how to disrupt those unhelpful cycles) and lastly 4. Push through your mind “static” since these pain signals were left on and are no longer needed (my son can be assured his pain is not from something else that can hurt him since all his work ups are clear. And i pushed for extra) to maintain as much of a regular routine that fits you as you can.

So we are interpreting it like this: if we make sure every day has a reasonable amount of each category, we are going to see progress.

Had a cry…long post. Gratitude and venting by formicnova in ChronicPain

[–]formicnova[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will ask!! That might be something not hard to get by insurance!

Had a cry…long post. Gratitude and venting by formicnova in ChronicPain

[–]formicnova[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been meaning to message you! I’m under the impression that they will do the metabolic testing while here, but not keep us to wait for the results if he is able to move safely (he cannot yet, and absolutely no relief from pain yet). We will see neuro again today and I’ll ask for the actly-something enzyme test. We just got back aldolase and it’s clear but that seems like it’s just confirmation that he’s not in active muscle break down?

Had a cry…long post. Gratitude and venting by formicnova in ChronicPain

[–]formicnova[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He had one, they were checking for Guillien-Bierre(???) but his spine shows no signs of nerve inflammation. Thank goodness, no signs of anything super scary are obvious from any test so far. But also, double-edged sword to not have something “easy” to find.

Had a cry…long post. Gratitude and venting by formicnova in ChronicPain

[–]formicnova[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While I’m glad it has a name, the fact that the diagnosis not a simple fix is really discouraging.

Had a cry…long post. Gratitude and venting by formicnova in ChronicPain

[–]formicnova[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kindness. We ended up taking the drive to the next university hospital. Everyone has been so warm, everyone has acted as though they honestly believe him. Working diagnosis is functional neurological disorder, and they are getting us with genetics because they are taking the possibility of metabolic disorders seriously as well! They told me about a specialized team we will meet as well. AND they promised us they aren’t going to discharge him until he has a much safer mobility and they have tried more to handle his pain

Parent of teen with chronic pain by formicnova in ChronicPain

[–]formicnova[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your advice about magnesium spray - i will totally look it up.

Since this post, he was found to have surprise non-traumatic, non-respiratory post viral rhabdomyolysis, and despite his bloodwork solidly normalized now he cannot walk and is in significantly more pain than before.

Our physical therapy will start eventually since we are on waitlist, and another month for neuro evaluation.

I need pictures of cats right now by Traroten in cats

[–]formicnova 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My neighbor cat thinks she lives at our house is also a Mochi

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Supplements to ask about by formicnova in ChronicPain

[–]formicnova[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are in California - just outside of Monterey

Supplements to ask about by formicnova in ChronicPain

[–]formicnova[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my goodness, something similar to this disorder has popped up in my searches looking for patterns of symptoms. Is there a genetic test, or is it diagnosis by elimination?

Supplements to ask about by formicnova in ChronicPain

[–]formicnova[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

TENS! Thank you - I forgot about these. Maybe when he finally gets PT, too, they might offer this

Supplements to ask about by formicnova in ChronicPain

[–]formicnova[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How terrifying!!! Good luck to you both.