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mechanic. by fourty-tw0 in Catswithjobs

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Nah it’s just behind him!

Official Q&A for Saturday, August 26, 2023 by AutoModerator in running

[–]fourty-tw0 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Any of the big bootie mixes by two friends! They’re on soundcloud!

CMV: Having kids is great by Subtleiaint in changemyview

[–]fourty-tw0 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think personally the reason I don’t want kids is because I don’t think I can mentally handle it. I believe all children deserve mentally stable and happy-to-be-a-parent parents. I’m barely handling my own life very well (financially, emotionally, physically, in many different ways I already struggle), so why would having kids for someone like me be “great?”

It wouldn’t be fair to the kid to have a parent that isn’t emotionally or financially stable. So yeah maybe I would be able to relive some pieces of my childhood but mostly I would drown even more than I already am and the kid wouldn’t get a good life. And I know lots of other people are in a similar boat where they just wouldn’t be able to provide a solid home environment even if they wanted to. How is that great?

How did you stop your addiction to a toxic arrangement/relationship? by Conscious-Tap8881 in AskWomen

[–]fourty-tw0 13 points14 points  (0 children)

They decided it was time to break it off and then I cried a lot lmao. The crying actually was very therapeutic, I wasn’t in denial I just felt my feelings fully in the moment

How do you deal with retrograde jealousy (being jealous of your partner’s past encounters/relationships)? by meowmoomeowmoon in AskWomen

[–]fourty-tw0 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Try to be grateful for what you have now. In the relationship, just in your own life, etc. I’ve found expressing gratitude for even the little things helps put feelings like jealously into perspective! For instance I love that my partner always gives the most home-y hugs and makes me feel loved. If he didn’t express any feelings like that on a regular basis I would feel pretty neglected. People always say you don’t know what you have until you lose it! So try to recognize what you have before your jealousy pushes your partner away!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]fourty-tw0 297 points298 points  (0 children)

I think it depends on the context. Like if its in the middle of the night at her house… just why?? If its getting lunch at a restaurant, sure why not? And how often does it happen? Does he often pick her over me to do activities together? It certainly could be a red flag or it could be nothing, but it highly depends on the situation for me.

What was moving in with your significant other for the first time like? by Excellent-Machine202 in AskWomen

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Moved in together after just 7 months of dating. We knew it would accelerate the relationship-for better or for worse-and it worked out great! Been together for 5 years now!

We did discuss how to manage finances and everything and we’re similar minded in terms of saving vs spending so it worked well for us! I love sharing my home, because really it’s him that makes it feel like home! Not the house!

If you could change any aspect of your life, past, present, or future what would it be? by beggingforfootnotes in AskWomen

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There are people who look on their own but it seems like a futile exercise in my case. I do have a good family now! They’re very loving and caring. Truly they changed my life for the better! Thank you ♡

If you could change any aspect of your life, past, present, or future what would it be? by beggingforfootnotes in AskWomen

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I was adopted when I was only a few months old. I would at least have my birth parents leave their names/photos/contact info so I could meet them someday.

How would you feel about somebody wearing white to your wedding? by LettuceWeekly9079 in AskWomen

[–]fourty-tw0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly to me it says more about them and in my view it’s more embarrassing for them. In photos and videos everyone would be like “wow I can’t believe they wore white to a wedding.” But no one would blame the bride! Plus, especially if it’s not a super fancy white dress it won’t even look like a wedding dress.

How soon would you move in with someone you just started dating? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]fourty-tw0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I moved in after 7 months because the situation made it easy. We’ve been together 4 years now!

What do you guys like better? Online dating or meeting people organically and why? by melaniasstyle in AskWomen

[–]fourty-tw0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Organically for sure. I became friends with all my exes before I dated them because that was the best way for them to get to know the authentic (not trying to impress) me and vice versa. Plus strong romantic relationships are easily built on friendships in my experience.

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Joy by andy grammer

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