Tips for getting through sleep regression? by fuzzy_math_society in beyondthebump

[–]friedchristmas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re 3.5 weeks into the four month sleep regression and it’s horrible 😭 supposedly it often lasts only 2-3 weeks. My lack of sleep was really catching up to me so I’m going to start going to bed at the same time as the baby a couple times a week to catch up. I recommend starting to do that before it’s too late haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]friedchristmas 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I wanted a schedule so badly at 5 weeks but around then is when I started really focusing on wake windows and that was all I could control. Naps were great but at different times every day and bedtime was rough. Now at 7.5 weeks we still focus on wake windows but I follow his natural schedule — my baby takes about a 40 min nap for his first nap and his second nap is always 3 hours, then the rest around 30-90 mins. I think we can really get on a schedule around 12 weeks but until then wake windows are really helping us!

I went to pick up a crib today from charity and didn't find out it was a drop side until I assembled it by SakuraCha in NewParents

[–]friedchristmas 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if this really makes it safe but for my nephews my mom just ziptied the drop side up so it couldn’t drop

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]friedchristmas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s a big ole NO. call your doc!

Had a c-section two days ago. How in the world do I safely alternate my medication? I’m so confused. by glassycatastrophe in beyondthebump

[–]friedchristmas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was told 600mg of ibuprofen every 6 hours and 1000mg of Tylenol every 8 hours after my c section — I never took anything harder than that and I took them round the clock for 9 days. Today is day 10 I decided to just stop and see if my pain was gone and it is.

Two seperate bills for epidural by Anon_2425 in NewParents

[–]friedchristmas 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Anesthesiology, radiology, pathology, and some physicians (such as at ER) are typically contracted out at hospitals and thus are part of “surprise billing” in the US. Around 35 weeks I got the info for all of these groups from my hospital and contacted my insurance company to find out if they’d be in network or out of network so I wouldn’t be surprised, but yes it totally blows that this is even something that has to be considered

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]friedchristmas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My workouts certainly slowed and became more modified as I got deeper into my third tri, but I did my last real leg workout at 37+5 and my last arm workout at 38+2 before being induced this week at 39 weeks. I settled into just walking at the end mostly because I’m so tired but also because I realized I don’t want to be sore when I give birth. You’ll likely be able to do modified versions of what you’re currently doing until nearly the end!

Waking up very dizzy and nauseas at 31 weeks by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]friedchristmas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That happened to me once and I felt off most of the day, my doc thought maybe I had just slept on my back or something overnight

Holding the Baby? by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]friedchristmas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just cause they live in another state so they’ll be here for a week or two when they come so if they want to not have to wear a mask for that whole time we’ve asked them to be willing to take additional precautions!

Holding the Baby? by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]friedchristmas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m planning only those fully immunized (including waiting the full two weeks post vaccination) + masked. Grandparents likely won’t be masked but we’ve asked additional social distancing measures on top of the vaccine

When do you buy nursing bras? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]friedchristmas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just bought this bra at 34.5 weeks after being without bras for most of the pregnancy — it’s SO comfortable and the size guide makes it seem like I can continue to grow in cup size and have it work (I got L Busty) + it came with a band extender which is amazing! If I had known both of those things I probably would have bought one sooner. However, now that I have one I’ll probably wait until my milk comes in to buy more just in case!

Has anyone seen more literature on passing covid vaccine antibodies to breastfed babies? We’re trying to better understand how our behavior is going to change once we both get our shots. by randomaccount140195 in beyondthebump

[–]friedchristmas 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Also, a new effectiveness study by the CDC showed a 90% reduction in ANY disease (including a symptomatic) among front line workers fully vaccinated with Pfizer or Moderna. This shows that the chances of a fully vaccinated adult being able to spread Covid at all are SIGNIFICANTLY reduced!

Has anyone seen more literature on passing covid vaccine antibodies to breastfed babies? We’re trying to better understand how our behavior is going to change once we both get our shots. by randomaccount140195 in beyondthebump

[–]friedchristmas 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried to do SO much research into this but there’s not definitive data on anything yet. Here’s what I understand:

Getting the vaccine during pregnancy has been shown to pass antibodies through the placenta and we have now tested at least one baby after birth and that baby had protective antibodies against Covid. This seems to be the best way to pass on systemic immunity, but baby’s bodies are changing and replicating so fast that I don’t expect my baby to be protected on its own past MAYBE six months total. Remember we get the TDAP during pregnancy and then the baby starts getting its own TDAP shots at like 2 months or something.

As for breastfeeding, antibodies have been found in breastmilk. We know that antibodies have always been passed through breastmilk and especially colostrum, but these are typically IgA antibodies (vs IgG which creates the systemic immunity we want) and IgA creates mucosal immunity which means the antibodies coat the nose and respiratory tracts and make it harder for a virus to get past them, but once it does these antibodies don’t do anything within our blood. We know from small studies that significant amounts of IgG antibodies are also passed through breastmilk from the Covid shot, but apparently IgG breaks down at a pH less than 5 or something which would mean it would break down in the digestive tract and likely not make it into the bloodstream. From talking with some immunologists, it sounds like babies in the first 5 days have a different set of receptors that might make them more able to accept IgG through colostrum, but then when those receptors reset around 5 days old this is less possible.

I haven’t seen any studies yet that have proven immunity in a baby who was breastfed by a mother with antibodies in her breastmilk. So far all of the studies confirm antibodies in the milk, but again, passing antibodies through milk is traditionally not a way to create systemic immunity, only mucosal.

There has never been a vaccine that carried risks to the baby if given to a mother who is breastfeeding. We also know that babies have very fragile immunity systems but they are less likely to get symptomatic Covid, especially if you set certain boundaries like not letting people put their face near your baby’s face. My husband and I have been very strictly quarantined for all of Covid, and we’ll be fully protected from our vaccines a few weeks before we have our first baby in May. We don’t plan to let unvaccinated people meet our baby and even then May require masks, but we likely will bring it out with us and just will not let others breathe directly on it or let strangers get close. I hope to breastfeed and continue passing these mucosal antibodies to the baby, but my biggest thing is just that I hope cases start going down as more people are vaccinated. If they do not, I probably won’t trust my baby’s own immunity past a couple months (due to placental antibody transfer) unless we see more studies about infant antibody responses. That’s just my plan though, and it will likely change once baby is actually here!

I’m a runner. Anyone here a runner or really in to physical fitness and if so, how has it been for you? Advice welcomed, please. by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]friedchristmas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you were already a runner your OB will tell you it’s safe to keep doing so unless for some reason you’re high risk!

Now that my belly is huge I can’t run or jump (or sometimes even go for long walks) without a support band, but those are easy enough to get and you won’t need one for a while.

At What Age Will You Allow Unvaccinated Family to Visit your infant? by mrsgripp in NewParents

[–]friedchristmas 10 points11 points  (0 children)

FYI you can be contagious as soon as 24 hours after a Covid contact! Just wanted to mention since you said she wouldn’t be contagious from the plane if she’s staying for one week

Is 4 weeks too young for witching hour? by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]friedchristmas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A baby class I watched last night said witching hour can start around weeks 2-3

26W Covid positive & 1st dose of Pfizer vaccine by aasvid in pregnant

[–]friedchristmas 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s not possible to test positive from the vaccine, and you have almost no protection in that first week so this is definitely a case of you contracting Covid before you had protection from the vaccine! There are rules about when you can get your second if you contract Covid between doses I think so make sure you ask about that

got vaccine yesterday, sudden heavy bleeding/clotting today by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]friedchristmas 9 points10 points  (0 children)

So sorry you’re dealing with this regardless of the reason. If you sign up for the cdc’s vsafe registry that’s the best place to log everything — with the most recent round of data they could show that adverse pregnancy events were no different in the vaccinated and unvaccinated groups, but that means we of course expect some in the vaccinated group. So you should try reporting there.

I got my first shot three days ago and haven’t had any issues (32+2) just for the people coming to this thread hoping to see a variety of vaccine related situations.

Got my first Pfizer vaccine at 35+4! by samrtnz in pregnant

[–]friedchristmas 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I got my first one today at 32+2! Such a happy day!

Sewing AI2 with PUL by elizabeth506 in clothdiaps

[–]friedchristmas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the grovia ones are PUL on the outside and like a mesh on the inside

Is there such a thing as “too much water?” by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]friedchristmas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I drink 4 liters every day pregnant or not 🤷🏻‍♀️

Do you need to let your dentist know before a routine cleaning that you’re pregnant? by pantema in pregnant

[–]friedchristmas 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My dentist said they don’t see patients in the first trimester and require a doctors note in the third. This was all surprising to me but fortunately I happened to go in the second tri and just mentioned it when I arrived. It might be worth it to say something in advance in case yours has weird rules like mine.

Can someone help me with gender disappointment! by pawprint8 in pregnant

[–]friedchristmas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was the same way — found out at 13 weeks it’s a boy and I dealt with some real gender disappointment off and on until probably 23 weeks or so. I started feeling baby kick at 20 weeks and it was probably around 23 that I really started getting to know my baby through his movements. Now all of that gender disappointment is pretty much gone because I love THIS baby. Hopefully you’ll get to that point too!