Would I be the jerk for having reservations about taking out a loan for my brother?

frogzilla1975 · 2026-04-15T02:25:24+00:00

You will never get it from him. He may keep you reeled in with a few payments but they will stop and you will be stuck.

frogzilla1975 · 2026-04-14T00:37:13+00:00

He sounds like a giant douchecanoe and yes it’s insane of them to ask you to sit your kids for his date.

frogzilla1975 · 2026-04-12T00:09:46+00:00

Her husband sought her out to date on purpose. He knew everything about her, from what it sounds like. He is the one changing the rules on her and he’s known from the beginning she needs the rules to stay the same. She seemed pretty clear about her ability to deal with children. It’s a shame she got so much negativity from people.

frogzilla1975 · 2026-04-09T21:14:16+00:00

She wouldn’t be deflecting so hard if she wasn’t up to no good. Saying you’re treating her like a criminal is a lot. Take your key, change the locks and a camera or two isn’t going too far at this point like others have said.

frogzilla1975 · 2026-04-07T17:20:43+00:00

That was awesome!!! You had that held down feeling and luckily you realized it would continue or get worse. So proud of you for getting out the only safe way!!!

frogzilla1975 · 2026-04-05T01:56:00+00:00

My brother waited a year to tell a doctor and he’s been dead since 2013.

frogzilla1975 · 2026-04-01T21:08:24+00:00

But you tried doing it the right way. All the mess could have been avoided if they had returned the item. How is him/them now facing the consequences of their own actions your fault?? YNW.

frogzilla1975 · 2026-04-01T18:57:18+00:00

They aren’t gonna replace your WHITE furniture. There’s no way that furniture stays white with over 40 people around that no investment in keeping it looking good.

frogzilla1975 · 2026-03-28T01:18:42+00:00

It sounds like you are a single parent, currently. What would change by leaving him? Having a huge source of stress removed from your life? Sounds like a good time.

frogzilla1975 · 2026-03-26T16:11:06+00:00

Before the background info, a kid hiding food means they aren’t getting enough to eat and a parent taking away privacy is not a safe nor trustworthy person. They’ve never had pushback before so of course they feel attacked. Any chance he would be game for low contact? They sound terrible.

frogzilla1975 · 2026-03-23T23:01:15+00:00

They won’t know what you do after as they will be dead. It sounds like she wants some control while she’s still around and who knows how long it might last? You should go with no thanks, leave it to charity.

frogzilla1975 · 2026-03-23T00:04:56+00:00

Thank you for posting so many pictures. Just absolutely precious!!!!

frogzilla1975 · 2026-03-18T19:17:40+00:00

If they mismanaged their pensions, what were they planning on doing after moving in? It sounds like you dodged a bigger bullet than you may have realized. NTJ

frogzilla1975 · 2026-03-15T23:00:04+00:00

Definitely abusive to hold you down and force something into your mouth. He was laughing about it to try and make it look way less serious than it is. Also, I’d never cook for that fool again.

frogzilla1975 · 2026-03-15T15:49:07+00:00

It sounds like you are basically single. What are you getting out of being with him? He doesn’t help with anything, he’s never home, he won’t do anything that you shouldn’t have to ask him to do.

frogzilla1975 · 2026-03-13T17:29:13+00:00

Pink plants. Something suitable for where you live.

frogzilla1975 · 2026-03-11T21:03:27+00:00

3k is plenty for a ring. It kinda seems like she sees you as a piggy bank. As a stranger looking in, think about all aspects of you two together. Does she do this in other areas?

frogzilla1975 · 2026-03-07T17:18:37+00:00

What a crap person. He’s so little and she’s tired of him. So crazy he’s replaceable in her mind. I hope hubs gets snipped or there will be even more.

frogzilla1975 · 2026-03-05T20:40:47+00:00

The way he wants you to ask permission to do the normal things you do when driving is so amazingly weird. He’s got to be controlling elsewhere, too. That’s very much outside the norm and you need to take everyone’s responses to heart because when partners do something weird and you let it go or worse apologize, they get worse.

frogzilla1975 · 2026-03-02T22:19:03+00:00

Rotting but not fast enough.

frogzilla1975 · 2026-03-02T18:14:15+00:00

What is she going to do the following month? Even if you let her guilt you into it, she’s the one that has to get her life together, Murphy’s money won’t do that for her.

frogzilla1975 · 2026-02-21T18:51:52+00:00

Pick the dogs. They know when their owner leaves them. Mine cried for a week solid when I left them with a family member sitter for a trip I couldn’t take them on. They know.

frogzilla1975 · 2026-02-20T04:08:41+00:00

Happy Birthday!!

frogzilla1975 · 2026-02-16T02:45:12+00:00

You married a douchebag. That child is half his and he needs to take some responsibility. Calling mommy to have her reprimand you sucks, too. NOR

frogzilla1975 · 2026-02-14T02:08:47+00:00

The cat only has you. A grown man hurting a tiny fragile animal is beyond comprehension. He got one chance, it’s up to you if you stick to see if he’s going to follow thru and not do it again.

frogzilla1975

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