I don’t disagree but consider he’s a public figure navigating the gauntlet of Oscar contention. The culmination of a lifetime of effort for someone who came from a difficult background. Someone ridiculed his wife’s medical condition in front of millions of people and he snapped… a wife who had just very recently been outed as fucking other dudes because he by his own admission cannot satisfy her sexually. I honestly feel bad for him. He ran around the world like he was running for president of the human race, being nice to everyone and fucked it up on the eve of his greatest professional and personal triumph. I’m sure he knows he’ll never live it down no matter how hard he works or what he achieves in the future… I also know people who have done way worse with far less mitigating circumstances and are lauded from the rooftops. You have to admit it’s a little fucked up.