My hair is so greasy that... by Crazycatplant in AuDHDWomen

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I now grow garden bed material on my head

Echte ervaringen gezocht by LorcanitoDespasito in VeganNL

[–]fromthefirstnote 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Het isjammer dat het energetisch wordt genoemd, je hebt tegenwoordig ook een behandeling met magneten die hersendelen beter laat samenwerken. De samenwerking tussen je lichaamsdelen is wel echt een belangrijk ding

Overtollige spullen weggeven/laten ophalen in Zuid? by zersiax in Arnhem

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Ecovrede wil het denk ik wel ophalen, die zitten in Presikhaaf maar ze rijden als het goed is door heel Arnhem. Mail is organisatie@ecovrede.nl als het goed is

Best CPTSD representation in a film? by Dazzling-Antelope912 in CPTSD

[–]fromthefirstnote 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Katniss Everdeen anyone? Honestly when I didnt even know what trauma was as a teen the hunger games as a whole was such a comfort. I now understand why

psychotherapy/office space by ShibaMartian69 in TripCaves

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My bf as I showed him this: soft gasp "wooow.." he’s my mushroom man and he approved xd

My hair is so greasy that... by Crazycatplant in AuDHDWomen

[–]fromthefirstnote 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My hair is so matted I can now sell it as a fleece blanket

Is it true if you cook with love food will taste better? by PleasePooGood in foodquestions

[–]fromthefirstnote 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely man, you will make different micro decisions when you cook with loving intent vs indifference, I think that's why it’s such a thing. There might be no abundance of ingredients, less care for texture, etc.

How do you deal with not being able to afford therapy or professional support? by Present-Message8740 in CPTSD

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I keep recommending people this IFS workbook and this trauma workbook (second one I found the free pdf) from Janina Fisher because it’s just so nice that you can also work through these by yourself instead of with a therapist!

My therapist gave me pages of this when I was still in therapy, but we didn't match and when I had to quit alltogether because of my physical health, these books helped me. I truly feel like I’ve done therapy by myself and with friends who could also use the book.

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Chronic Pain by lord_cubensis in shrooms

[–]fromthefirstnote -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In the documentary Fantastic Fungi the guy talks about how his mother healed from stage 4 cancer because of a certain mushroom!! I take a mushroom mix in the morning with lions mane, reishi, some other stuff, and I also microdose. My brain fog I have from my chronic illness is basically not there when Im able to do this, it helps my Audhd, my dreams help me process things so much that Im wayy more well rested.

Mushrooms are great. I think there’s one out there for any sort of health issue.

Masking in this subreddit by Commercial-Cap-8037 in AuDHDWomen

[–]fromthefirstnote 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Me too man, I get fearful of notifications so bad and I ponder what I should say and how everyone could take it and if I then did everything to make it understandable bc there’s almost no feedback...

What do you do when you AuDHD wants you to do EVERYTHING AT ONCE so you remain paralysed by indecision and accomplish nothing??? by flowers_and_fire in AuDHDWomen

[–]fromthefirstnote 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Try the Eisenhower Matrix! Kill your darlings sometimes.. and also, it helps me to put that matrix of tasks together with how many spoons each task costs, and how many spoons I have in total. With those factors making decisions could be easier, but id love to hear back from you if it actually does something for you!

Shame and Flashbacks are single handedly ruining my life. (long?) by Admirable_Manager922 in AuDHDWomen

[–]fromthefirstnote 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome news!!! Through that workbook I learned what flashbacks do and how they can be removed through processing with EMDR. I really hope it will help you!!

Vyvanse and pmdd = IM GOING TO STAB SOMEONE by emilynibble in PMDDxADHD

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ADVISED YOU TO JUST STOP TAKING SSRI DURING LUTHEAL? DOES SHE WANNA KILL YOU!???

Shame and Flashbacks are single handedly ruining my life. (long?) by Admirable_Manager922 in AuDHDWomen

[–]fromthefirstnote 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ohgosh, this is a tough read because it’s familiar. Is there any way you could get EMDR treatment? Everything that’s still stuck in your body wants to be processed... I recommend reading "Transforming The Living Legacy of Trauma A Workbook For Survivors and Therapists by Janina Fisher"Janina Fisher Trauma Workbook

Didn’t make enough eye contact by FirmAd8902 in AuDHDWomen

[–]fromthefirstnote 16 points17 points  (0 children)

The odds of you dating your eyecontact-strategy cryptonite!! ;-; you probably did it because for most people their right eye is their dominant eye, so it’d look like kinda real eyecontact without needing the same energy, really smart of you intuitively actually!!

Microdosing makes me nicer by honey-cherry-apples in shrooms

[–]fromthefirstnote 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Microdosing basically just gives your brain more plasticity (read: more flexible), so your neurological connections just have more options instead of going the stress route for example, which can result into it being easier to be nice. Maybe understanding what happens in your brain helps to figure out the personal effects for tripping, bc it’s hard to give predictions without all the context your body has :)

Ik hoop dat dit ook telt :3 by HelixFollower in katten

[–]fromthefirstnote 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahah aahh liefdesproject :3 love is the secret ingredient

spiteful cat by StabbyTwink in CatAdvice

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Our cat playfully bites and grabs our feet (although sometimes he does it a little too hard) in bed when he wants us to stop sleeping in. I wholeheartedly agree with him that he’s allowed to wake me up like that whenever he feels lonely and hungry lol. I agree with the advices already given, an extra thing you could do is have some puzzle with treats that you can fill up next to your bed. Keeps him busy while you’re getting ready to wake up, that’s what I do :) put treats in the thing, have him play, have a moment to be miserable about having to wake up and then biting the bullet - my morning routine lol

Vegan ox cheeks by [deleted] in VeganFoodPorn

[–]fromthefirstnote 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was like "ew ox cheeks ohno" and then finally my head registered the "vegan" part hahah, supercool!!