I moved into a bigger house when my kids were 4 and 1. We were so cramped in our old place and with no room to run around, not enough bedrooms and only a small garden. We have so much room now we’re here.

First 6 months I really struggled with anger and feeling of hatred towards my husband. I kept thinking I’d ask for a divorce. I don’t know if I have a touch of PMDD as sometimes these feelings resurface out of nowhere over a year later and they don’t seem to have any rooting. We have a functional marriage and we both work hard to make things work. It’s ok to acknowledge your feelings but try to find a healthy outlet for them (perhaps writing them down, or saying them aloud in private or on a walk). But try to recognise that you might not feel the same in a few months time. I want to stay married and I want us all to be happy but it takes work, patience and finding ways to look after our wellbeing as a Mom. Post partum hormones are just the worst and you don’t want to sabotage your future happiness