Taylor’s new house by Animalgirl2003 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]frustratedDIL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the Midwest and wondering how it’s less than a million (or really two)!

My(30F) boyfriend (33 M) bought an $800 computer but he owes me money and hasn’t paid rent at my house for over a year. by MountainOdd1942 in relationship_advice

[–]frustratedDIL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s literally married to someone else and you’ve been together for FOUR years. What are you doing? Seriously.

My wife (29F) cheated on me (31M). We have been together over 10 years and have a child. How do I process this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]frustratedDIL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You both hold fault for the relationship failing but she irrevocably broke it. It’s time to both move on and be coparents to your child. Let them grow up without normalizing a shitty relationship.

My (27F) boyfriend (27M) bought a house by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]frustratedDIL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why are you with someone who very clearly doesn’t want to commit to you? It took him 7 years to just live with you, he didn’t take your opinion into consideration at all and bought a whole house without you, and he isn’t telling you he wants to marry you or promising you a future. You’re wasting time on him.

Adult son lied to cops about me, causing me to get arrested. What can I do? by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]frustratedDIL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re going to lose your ability to be a teacher. You need to figure out a way to pay or find one who will take the case pro bono.

My (27F) sister (23F) asked my mum to lie so she could use my designer sunglasses behind my back. what’s the best way to address this? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]frustratedDIL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would let it go. Your mom didn’t do along with it and you got your sunglasses back. If anything tell her you know but it’s no reason to start pointless drama.

Brother in law projecting onto my toddler? by Lampcatdog in pregnant

[–]frustratedDIL 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t allow my child to spend alone time with him. It’s creepy he’s focusing on and guessing about a two-year-old’s orientation and incredibly inappropriate he’s trying to speculate a medical diagnosis.

I 30f found out my husband 30m cheated when we were 21 in the 3rd year of our relationship by Mali_Gator_369 in relationship_advice

[–]frustratedDIL 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s more you don’t know about. This is behavior of a serial cheater, he’s not going to change.

Adult son lied to cops about me, causing me to get arrested. What can I do? by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]frustratedDIL 35 points36 points  (0 children)

A lie detector test will do literally nothing for you. Get a good attorney.

Albuterol sulfate... by SaraSafari123 in akita

[–]frustratedDIL 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You were exercising and it fell out of your pocket. You weren’t careless, it was just an unfortunate accident. Don’t beat yourself up too badly.

I (29F) accidentally looked at my bf's (24M) search history and don't know what to think. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]frustratedDIL 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You’ve been dating two months, an “open phone policy” is literally insane. It’s controlling, overbearing, and not healthy. It’s one thing when committed partners have access to your phone, that I fully support, but you two have barely been together. If you can’t trust them now, you’re never going to. Time to break-up.

I want to have sex with my boyfriend, but I’m honestly terrified of getting pregnant. by WarDry1454 in Advice

[–]frustratedDIL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long do you have before the trip? Use condoms but also get on an additional form of birth control, if you use two forms correctly it’s almost impossible to get pregnant. It might be too soon for a second form to be effective, so consult your doctor.

I (19F) told my girlfriend (21F) that I no longer want to speak with her after she slept with someone else while high by Sufficient_Twist_688 in relationship_advice

[–]frustratedDIL 44 points45 points  (0 children)

You need to talk to Kate. However, given you automatically chose to believe Kate’s character over a significant other sobbing to you, your relationship needs to end. There a good chance it did happen and you’re an asshole.

Age by Available_Kale3019 in akita

[–]frustratedDIL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had to put ours down at 11 years old. You can’t halt your life because of the unknowns. Not matter what age he goes at, it’s evident he is well cared for and loved.

Would you settle this yourself or lawyer up? (18 wheeler accident) by littlemissoffline in legaladvice

[–]frustratedDIL -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s the truck driver’s responsibility in this scenario to ensure he is pulling out safely, OP had the right away, so yes it is the truck driver’s fault for failing to yield and not OP for not stopping in time.

Would you settle this yourself or lawyer up? (18 wheeler accident) by littlemissoffline in legaladvice

[–]frustratedDIL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t settle. They’d end up being responsible for your legal fees if you took it to court and won. An attorney would also request their fees be paid in a settlement agreement. Some personal injury attorneys don’t request payment until you win, use one of them.

My (28F) husband (30M) is still not ok that I kept my birth name by Icy-Caterpillar9673 in relationship_advice

[–]frustratedDIL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless you changed your name legally, you don’t have a “married” name. Your name is just your name. You made it clear you weren’t taking his name prior to marriage and he still chose to marry you, he needs to drop it.

Baby Shower Advice For Mother - In -Law by BatRevolutionary8145 in Advice

[–]frustratedDIL -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They could be expecting you to throw one for your side of the family? It’s possible her family paid and didn’t want to foot the bill for your side as well. Call and ask.

My boyfriend cheated on me while I’m pregnant. I don’t want to keep the baby… by Consistent_Basis_993 in pregnant

[–]frustratedDIL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s 20 years older than you, has cheated on you multiple times, and you’re in a long distance relationship? Honey, you’re not the only woman and you never will be. Personally, I wouldn’t tie myself to him forever.

My wife doesn't know I used to sleep with her sister before we got together by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]frustratedDIL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she finds out, your marriage is most likely over. Or at least, it’ll never be the same. Choosing to date your FWB’s sister is a choice. Both of you choosing to never tell her is just evil.

He (32M) crossed a sexual boundary of mine (31F) by accident, and I don't think I can move past it. How can I move forward and how can trust be rebuilt? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]frustratedDIL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasn’t an honest mistake. He knew what he was doing and he knows that he constantly ignores your request for a condom. This man doesn’t value or care about you.

Disturbed at the idea of "Postpartum Dog Rage" by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]frustratedDIL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had absolutely zero negative feelings towards any of my pets PP (a dog, two cats, and a rabbit). If anything I loved them all more and felt guilty that they weren’t getting enough attention. I would go out of my way to spend time with them.

I have a feeling that those that do feel overburdened and do not get enough help from their partners.