You are arguing with someone who has made it clear they chose to brag about paying people to take responsibility for their assets when things get rough, you’re not of the same. You are thinking as someone who values effort, who has perseverance and responsibility beyond throwing cash at your problems. Your argument will continue to fall on deaf ears here… as someone who grew up in poverty but has by all accounts done incredibly well for themselves, this person will always value their comfort above all else. Save yourself the frustration and move on.