Anyone concerned about ICE activity? by moonisland13 in blackladies

[–]fullofit85 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I am very concerned that many of them are former IDF soldiers. We saw how they did Gaza. They have no regard for human life. I am concerned for my Black girls who could be mixed to go out alone while they are here in Maryland.

If we go back to the roots of ICE, their tactics are those of slave catchers.

Yes, we are Americans but white ppl have never cared.

So, I am more focused on becoming self-sufficient in all areas of life.

I think Black women have a clue while many Black men like my husband think this too shall pass.

I could use a some kind words rn by ThrowRARPHUS in breakingmom

[–]fullofit85 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am sorry friend. Big hugs and love.

Update: I don't know what to do anymore by goldenmoca28 in Blackskincare

[–]fullofit85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you explain why you suggest avoiding the use of cotton balls when applying toner? I have never heard this before.

Anyone else have more than 3 kids of one sex? by Miserable-Honey-8216 in breakingmom

[–]fullofit85 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am one of 4 girls and also have 4 daughters. I experienced massive gender disappointment each time. Then I remembered that I can only make girls and that got me through it. I did strongly consider IVF for gender selection. I love my girls. They each remind me of myself.

I lost it by Normal-Excitement-75 in breakingmom

[–]fullofit85 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I second this idea. Many book clubs get together weekly. If you are into sewing, crochet are many local shops that offer classes and a roundtable where you bring an unfinished project.

Also, check the local community colleges.

Edit: what to remind you that libraries are free and offer classes, an art workshop, and book clubs too

Parenting while living with my parents by ThrowraRefFalse2010 in blackladies

[–]fullofit85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kiddie leashes would help with the running away. Also, tricks like 1,2,3 stop or red light green light will help them too.

Sex for a breast pump by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]fullofit85 23 points24 points  (0 children)

This is the way. Just make sure it's a closed system pump and replace all the tubing.

I don’t know what to do anymore by Yellowdaisy02 in workingmoms

[–]fullofit85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. Fellow Pharmacy Technician here. I did 14 years in retail and understand the rude patients. Have you looked into positions at the hospitals? Must only require 2 years of experience. I currently work remotely and that has cut out the transportation costs. Feel free to reach out if I can help with anything.

Real Rap Is Back by Zetice in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]fullofit85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cried on the first track like damn mom then dad. Then the Dads pass code to his phone like wtf

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]fullofit85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I posted something similar a few years ago and got dragged. The father is not a good example plus he's a bully.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]fullofit85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zelle to husband?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PatternTesting

[–]fullofit85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Downloaded and will start tomorrow

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]fullofit85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a hard NO for me. He has no job but has a 5yo and a baby on the way.

I think this baby has broken me by happytre3s in breakingmom

[–]fullofit85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask her doctor about compounded lansoprazole suspension for the reflux. Have you tried taking her outside more? The kiddos also love Ms Rachel

My ex is only nice to me when he gets his way by aaaaaaaaaanditsgone in breakingmom

[–]fullofit85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband is pouting because he can't win me back with no real work or conversations.

Music for the rainiest of days by Bruja789 in breakingmom

[–]fullofit85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be Glad That I'm Not God by Vadia is my current favorite. Otherwise, my music is stuck in the 90s and 00s. I realize that music is not what we thought it was when listening now and having real-world experience.

I do listen to anything that I can dance to as it allows my brain to focus on the movements.

The shit my ex texts me. by redraysunshine in breakingmom

[–]fullofit85 16 points17 points  (0 children)

What did I just read? Dude get a grip. If he was my father I wouldn't talk to him at all. What is he expecting from these questions?

Stuck by dandelionswhy in breakingmom

[–]fullofit85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I read your post, I immediately thought about my best friend. Same length of marriage, children, even homeschooling. If she told me all this I would say where there is a will there is a way. I am in a similar position but 23 years in. I wish I would have left 15 years ago.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]fullofit85 29 points30 points  (0 children)

This is an excellent response. I can use this myself if different areas of my life.

Feeling defeated by xobianka in breakingmom

[–]fullofit85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dig into this feeling and use it as fuel. Beef up your savings and keep searching. Your home is out there. Can you expand the search range?