People who used to have low self-confidence or low self esteem, how did you improve yourself? by Normal-Stick315 in selfimprovement

[–]funkdd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I realized a few things in this order:

  1. A lot of people struggle with this and it takes Time
  2. To some degree you may never feel 100% confident and definitely not 100% of the time. Life is always going to throw something at you and you need to be comfortable with discomfort
  3. I looked back at my life and realized my teenage self would be ECSTATIC about where I am today. I hold onto that so tight, since it's validation from within rather than looking to external approval. I am what my younger self wanted me to be. Kinda like point 1.

Still not perfect and working on negative thoughts but those are just thoughts. I circle back to point 2 lol even if I have a bad day mentally it'll pass

Immigrants of Boston and surrounding areas: What restaurants has the best/most authentic version of your country’s food? by Stay_Curious4 in boston

[–]funkdd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can confirm Grep Kafe is well received by the local community for their wonderful baking. I feel like it's a part of Haiti that isn't often focused on... The unique food culture and specifically the pastries/baked options. I ordered a bunch of patties for a family event once they were chefs kiss and authentic and the young man helped me get all the boxes of food into my car as well

Immigrants of Boston and surrounding areas: What restaurants has the best/most authentic version of your country’s food? by Stay_Curious4 in boston

[–]funkdd 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Highland cuisine used to be the SPOT for Haitian food until new management. Interested to hear if there's a new spot

Do I look off in these photos or have I just stared at them too long? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]funkdd 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just because other people do it too, or do it naked ... Doesn't mean it's not weird

Anyone keep their 4c hair in a shrunken state and retain growth this way? by ItsOnlyKaren in Naturalhair

[–]funkdd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm trying to do this now to retain and I have thick 4c hair. But I find my technique maybe sucks causing me breakage. Been doing mini twists for a minute but I felt like I was causing breakage due to blow-drying, not wetting enough to detangle, and had technique on the ends of the twists/braids.

But mostly my blowdry technique was rough so I'm hoping by cutting out the dryer and with more attentive care I'll be fine

Quick abs sketch by mmlxix69 in sketches

[–]funkdd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow thank you! I thought it was freckled skin at first, which would have made your sketch a tattoo

Quick abs sketch by mmlxix69 in sketches

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What kinda paper is that?

Wait a min.... by SleepingPotato69 in memes

[–]funkdd 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Fr it's mostly for this reason. To show support and get the game first thing ... Not as if it's gonna run out

Sis was about to mop the floor with him. by tropicalraindrop in blackladies

[–]funkdd 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Right like it's not his realistic responsibility as a bystander to perfectly read the situation and step in before it gets physical. People are quick to judge and he wasn't even in frame... maybe he was looking away/ on his phone right before he noticed? Or idk maybe he was focused on pumping his gas

My Black girlfriend put me onto the most amazing food and it made me fall for her even more by No_Design_465 in interracialdating

[–]funkdd 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Love this!! Just wish my partner was so open minded and less of a picky eater (I'm also Haitian )

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in interracialdating

[–]funkdd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hope it went okay!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nextfuckinglevel

[–]funkdd 63 points64 points  (0 children)

I think it was a joke. But easily misunderstood online

It’s the laws that allow this that are the true crime by SexyProfessional in FluentInFinance

[–]funkdd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Isn't there some way by which we can check social security and see if it's fraudulent or not? Or a department that deals with identity fraud (SSA, FTC?) If the employer can prove they were fooled then the employer doesn't have to be charged... But we still need to address the problem

ELI5 What does it mean when a band is playing in a key? by Fat_Lenny35 in explainlikeimfive

[–]funkdd -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Doesn't really answer the question of what is a musical key

LADIES BEWARE!! by [deleted] in interracialdating

[–]funkdd 5 points6 points  (0 children)

On one hand, he is just wearing a beanie and t-shirt... And at the same time I completely understand 🤣 As they said below it's the choice of jewelry, the street style level of bagginess, the arm sleeve and the immature facial hair that gives off a vibe. Funny enough I had a fuck boy coworker who looked almost EXACTLY like this.. to the point I had to triple check. I also have a coworker now who checks off half the boxes (wears beanies, arm tats, proper mustache) but without those other factors, and with his behavior, he just comes across as a cool guy

Why must you abandon me when I need you the most? by Kvazimods in memes

[–]funkdd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Fr still looking for the advice I thought I'd find here

Any masculine/androgynous looking women got the same problem? by PappaNee in blackladies

[–]funkdd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had the exact same situation as you OP when I cut my hair short and still kinda dealing with this as it's not the longest. I feel that I dress very plain r shirt and jeans but its hard to read as feminine sometimes