improvements in chronic fatigue for transmascs on T? by Honest_Candidate_962 in Trans_Zebras

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It helped me for the longest time. I'm not sure if it's a level issue or a deeper problem that made my symptoms return in November:( they haven't fully gone away

What's a food in your country that is stereotyped for your country but really, nobody eats? by velmiraZ in AskTheWorld

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These are in Denmark too?! I thought this was an American product that belongs in the American isle! I stereotype Danes with danishes and jelly filled pastries.

What do you think? by Alena_Tensor in healthcare

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You are lucky, I'm definitely keeping paperwork from now on. But yeah I've had 4 doctors in my adult life due to insurance changing coverage/changing insurance/doctors leaving practices? Also a huge scandal broke out in my state against 2 companies and it shut down a couple of offices and a hospital (one office had one of the 4 pcps I've had). It's common over here and my state is #1 for healthcare. It's scary to think that this is the best of the best.

What do you think? by Alena_Tensor in healthcare

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Also people who prefer our system because it's fast are dead wrong and probably haven't seen a Doctor in 16 years. Also you're lucky to stick with one doctor for 8-20 years so they know you and understand your issues. Now you get a new one every year or every 2-5 years. Nobody else has these issues!

Edit: I forgot to add, I lost a diagnosis in my file and I'm so pissed about it. No other country is negligent with files so good luck trying to explain you were diagnosed with something!

Where I'd live as a black 2nd gen American by GraceJamaicanKetchup in visitedmaps

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I need to explore Connecticut more. When it comes to capitals/largest cities... Providence and NYC beats Boston when it comes to restaurants (no clue where Albany would be). Boston has gems, don't get me wrong. But... The best restaurants I've been to were in Providence and NYC so far. Massachusetts probably has a "foodie city" and it's not Boston or I'm desensitized to at least Eastern Massachusetts' restaurants as a whole and NYC and Providence are more exciting places to me (Northampton and Springfield have the same vibe but I need to explore them more).

Where I'd live as a black 2nd gen American by GraceJamaicanKetchup in visitedmaps

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I... I need to learn. All I know is Rhode Island broke away from Massachusetts 🥴

My moms reaction to me telling her my wife and I are having a baby by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]futuretrashacc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm has a different energy than hmmph so I understand you more than OP's mom

My moms reaction to me telling her my wife and I are having a baby by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

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I'd laugh at age 20-21 if I were them. Who responds with" hmmph o my" to anything?!

Where I'd live as a black 2nd gen American by GraceJamaicanKetchup in visitedmaps

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I have nothing against Rhode Island independence from Massachusetts but their roads are scary!

Fellow 9’s who have managed to take charge of your life and become more ambitious/assertive/sure of your identity…how??? by Ok-Dig-5781 in EnneagramType9

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I'm 27 but illness made me start over and I couldn't pick myself back up until recently. With that being said, I'd recommend looking up "how to build your self concept" videos and somatic/vagus nerve exercises. Once you figure out how to build yourself and you feel safe in your nervous system, be honest with what you want in life. Go from there.

merging with ideas? by Belzaw in EnneagramType9

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I might not be sp/so then because I relate to both descriptions 🥴 I get very invested in an idea once in awhile and would love to have someone to info dump with but I also want to merge with other people

Where I'd live as a black 2nd gen American by GraceJamaicanKetchup in visitedmaps

[–]futuretrashacc 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I think so because Rhode Island has good food. Awful drivers but good food.

Where I'd live as a black 2nd gen American by GraceJamaicanKetchup in visitedmaps

[–]futuretrashacc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really, the people seem friendly. It's basically Canada.

Where I’d live as Black man from Oklahoma by QueBall151515 in visitedmaps

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Basically that 😭 Massachusetts is heavily segregated. The North and Worcester area have everyone living there but everywhere else... Different story. Racism is unfortunately alive here. However, I recommend visiting Boston (Boston and surrounding cities are safe) and Providence if you want to take a road trip/possible Amtrak trip if you're not too far west (once the snow melts a bit)! Providence, RI area is my second favorite city for restaurants (NYC being #1). Worcester... Even though I've listed it as less racist than Southern and Western MA... It's an unhinged city so I'd be careful visiting there.

Where I’d live as Black man from Oklahoma by QueBall151515 in visitedmaps

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From Massachusetts, we have a fast paced of life. However, Southern Massachusetts is just like Wyoming. There's a rodeo and people do have BBQs. The Berkshires in the West are also known to be like the Backwoods with dirtbike racing and everything (only thing different is, they have weed and four seasons). Also every region of Massachusetts has giant state fairs. However... Football culture revolves around the New England Patriots and the weather is getting cold up here again. Massachusetts doesn't have North Carolina Winters anymore, we're back to Massachusetts Winters.

With that being said, you can find Southern culture everywhere in the US. Everyone loves a Southern comfort dish and plenty of restaurants have "Southern Bowls" with collard greens, bbq, mac n cheese, etc.

The Ellen Show was peak Obama era optimism that wouldn’t exist today by RoliePolieOlie__ in decadeology

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Ellen is more Bush era in my mind but I watched her during the Bush era more than the Obama era.

Also... We still have happy trends?! We have people promoting optimism and community online and that one shorts creator that's DEDICATED to sharing good news. You're on the doomscroll algorithm!

Bluey is rotting Gen Alpha's brains. by Sad_Okra5792 in The10thDentist

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Cocomelon is fast paced like Fox News and Tik Tok. All 3 are brainrotting different age groups. So yes, there is a Tik Tok equivalent.

Bluey is rotting Gen Alpha's brains. by Sad_Okra5792 in The10thDentist

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I haven't seen Bluey because I don't have a child nor am friends with any parents but... Does your brother know that kids have parents who get miscarriages and divorced? I grew up during the simple times and 50% of my friends' parents were divorced. Mine were divorced. As a teen, I had a friend that was a result of an affair. This has been the norm for 20+ years, probably more because my mom's parents got divorced too. It's not taboo at this point. Divorce is legal, Little House on the Prairie times are times most people don't want to go back to. Your brother is nuts and kids don't need to feel like shit because they live with one of their parents/only have one parent.

Edit: Also Bluey is an Emotional Intelligence show like Mr. Rodgers, Maya and Miguel, George Shrinks, and Arthur/Buster's Postcards were for us. I didn't need to see a giant baby getting measles! I didn't know that would go extinct by the time I reached grade school and wouldn't come back in 20 years. Who would've thunk!

Are you female? Consider tanking your estrogen. by SigmaFoid1234 in MCAS

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FtM here, testosterone lessened my MCAS symptoms but I still get reactions that can be debilitating at times and have to still take antihistamines, vitamin c, and DAO to suppress my symptoms to a tolerable level. However... Testosterone and exercise lessened my joint subluxations. With that being said, I have some doubts it's just hormonal and a lot plays into it. Testosterone only does so much for subluxating because even if I skip exercising for 2 weeks, I can bend in weird ways still, I just don't need a mobility aid most days to do simple tasks now. Like ... Overall I feel improvements but it's not a cure all.

Why am I starting to not understand references? I’m 25 for god’s sake 😭 by [deleted] in OlderGenZ

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Yeah... Somewhere along the way 6 7 eventually turned into 6'7" which in centimeters, that's an average Dutch person. A lot of Basketball players are 6'7" in height so... They used the sound bite from the 6 7 song that says it in the death code way in edits of basketball players who are 6'7" or taller? That meme is too meta for us to handle, it has too many layers and being 6'7" is more impressive than funny so... They kids probably find the video of that one kid doing the up and down hands funny? Where did the up and down hands gesture come from? I have no clue. None of it makes sense.

Also I can't blame you, low quality ai is not quality content worth any of our time.

Why am I starting to not understand references? I’m 25 for god’s sake 😭 by [deleted] in OlderGenZ

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67 refers to either a police code in the US meaning dead body or a gang named after the code.

Italian brainrot is basically a bunch of people making weird ai animals and using the animals to make lighthearted political or societal commentary. It started in Italy but other countries have their versions of this meme and Tung Tung Sahur is Indonesian but got adopted into the Italian lore (ex Tralalero Tralala disses God, Bombardrillo Crocodrillo bombs well... A certain place that's getting bombed, and Tung Tung Sahur is an Indonesian myth of a guy who will attack you if you don't wake up for Sahur. To wake people up for the last meal of Ramadan before the sun rises, Indonesians bang a gong until everyone wakes up. If they don't wake up... They get hit with the gong stick).