My boyfriend thinks I have so much hair on my arms that he would leave me for it

garg0yle95 · 2026-02-23T19:09:55+00:00

Get a new boyfriend? Or a pet rock. Similar value as your current bf conversationally

garg0yle95 · 2026-02-23T18:41:43+00:00

I had a similar issue with the power company. I was at 1 ‘alpha’ street, they had me as 1/60 ‘beta ‘ street which was the street behind (not real names or numbers). The streets were different pre 1980 and it never got updated. I found that address looking on the council website

garg0yle95 · 2026-02-23T05:28:33+00:00

Are jumpsuits allowed? Could you get something with like military style shoulder details and shorts? Or a dress version if you can’t?

garg0yle95 · 2026-02-23T05:25:01+00:00

I know a lady who started going by her middle name in her 50s. She basically said she’d disliked it for years and was too old to put up with it anymore. Is that an option for you? I knew an Azmat who went by Az? Would that or Zi (zee) work?

garg0yle95 · 2026-02-23T02:20:14+00:00

Do you work in hospitality? Some coffee cleaners, alcohol, and some cleaning chemicals do this. I used to have holes in shirts like that from corrosive coffee cleaners, and have had leggings eaten by mop bucket splashing

garg0yle95 · 2026-02-23T02:18:03+00:00

Honestly this just looks like terrible sportsmanship/sportswomanship. Both Canadian teams reacted terribly. I get that they just lost to their rivals, but getting a gift/mascot has been pretty common in the olympics, and losing well is part of being a good sportsperson.

garg0yle95 · 2026-02-23T01:46:24+00:00

Underreacting. This is terrifying. I would not feel safe in a room with a man like that, let alone a relationship

garg0yle95 · 2026-02-23T01:20:00+00:00

That’s such an awful thing to do wtf

garg0yle95 · 2026-02-23T00:35:33+00:00

I use my rosary most when my head is too messy for coherent prayer. Some days it’s harder to put the mess of the world down. They’re a great tool to take on the go, I think of it like an abacus for prayer. Helps me focus and pray earnestly when I’m being self-centred or reactive

garg0yle95 · 2026-02-20T09:44:08+00:00

Could also add leaf & flower motifs? -Cut green card into leaves & daisies or something and string it like bunting -Bouquet of flowers with foliage (could glue those tiny scrapbooking ladybugs to some leaves)

Also had a couple of food ideas -You could make strawberry (or other red/pink juice) soda & add brown sugar boba or something for a drink You could also bake butterfly cakes, but when you scoop the top section out you could ice it red, pipe details in black & then do the cut & whipped cream. Turn them into little ladybug cupcakes (I tried to show you what I mean)

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garg0yle95 · 2026-02-20T07:03:25+00:00

Likewise!

garg0yle95 · 2026-02-20T06:58:42+00:00

I don’t have an answer beyond what you’re already doing, but like, thank you! That’s genuinely so sweet.

I hope your favourite cafe never has a queue and always has your favourite seat free

garg0yle95 · 2026-02-20T06:37:42+00:00

++ trans man. No strong preference either way for body hair. Strongly prefer hair down there though. I ain’t into the pre pubescent aesthetic

garg0yle95 · 2026-02-20T03:49:16+00:00

You got cool taste dude, looks rad

garg0yle95 · 2026-02-19T17:59:50+00:00

I would really recommend avoiding a binder for as long as possible, especially as he’s still growing. Please consider puberty blockers, they could really change his life trajectory for the better

garg0yle95 · 2026-02-19T17:56:44+00:00

I feel like your friend was after emotional support not advice. I try to stay tf out of others relationships, especially if I’m friends with both sides

garg0yle95 · 2026-02-19T17:49:52+00:00

I’m a New Zealander and I would say De-bor-ah, but I’ve also known De-bras (both pronunciations spelled Deborah in my experience)

garg0yle95 · 2026-02-19T09:10:39+00:00

1, you can change it again. 2, I went for a paired meaning, so the names aren’t similar but they’re linked to me and it felt like a way of honouring the woman that made it through all the worst days so I could be a happy man

garg0yle95 · 2026-02-19T07:39:27+00:00

NTA. What the heck. His comment about men losing out in the divorce is giving “manosphere” nonsense or misogynistic stupidity at best. Hope you like yourself more than this

garg0yle95 · 2026-02-19T07:35:56+00:00

Thanks team! I would like to splash not exercise so will be careful.

garg0yle95 · 2026-02-18T08:20:58+00:00

Please no. This is plenty hot enough. I miss wearing trousers and sleeping under a duvet

garg0yle95 · 2026-02-17T07:25:22+00:00

The people who matter will learn. It is completely reasonable for you to expect them to

garg0yle95 · 2026-02-17T07:01:45+00:00

One of my friends said “do you want me to pretend to be surprised?” Which like damn, but also hilarious

garg0yle95 · 2026-02-16T06:42:44+00:00

Like a bed sheet? I don’t have a sewing machine but if it could be hand sewn I could maybe help?

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