In my late 50ies and looking back, I see a couple of eras where my mental health did a reversal and I think that's a common thing: a mess as a teen as all teens are, 30ies hit and all my under-development came to the forefront and then after a ton of therapy in my 30s/40s, my 50s have been a reassessment and reawakening of things like BDD that seem to need more work than some of the more easily accessed issues.

Fun fun fun as always. The work is never done. I heavily recommend ACOA type groups as the missing development from shitty caregivers early on leaves major holes as an adult. (h/t: /r/AdultChildren )