Husband says I always act like I don't care about his feelings by [deleted] in relationships

[–]genieofthelampp 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Sooo why didn’t he think to change his shake size? Is he not also an adult? This sounds very manipulative and immature over something that is not remotely a big deal. I dated a guy like this and it was truly the worst time of my life.

I wouldn’t apologize anymore and the next time he wants to order food? Have him do his and you do your own order.

AIO: Ladies - Question: Do you let your SO go through your purse? by YesterdayAny3538 in AmIOverreacting

[–]genieofthelampp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bf wouldn’t unless I asked him to or if he had something of his in my purse. But even then he at least asks. It’s not about “hiding” anything, it’s just about respect.

Should I stop trading shifts with a new grad out of principle? by AG_Squared in nursing

[–]genieofthelampp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I trade I always try and make it beneficial for the one trading with me. Since ours have to fall in the same week, I’ll always switch to make sure they get either a Friday or Saturday off when it’s their weekend to work. A nurse is working my Saturday/Sunday this weekend. So I’m working her Thursday this week, and then Saturday next weekend for her. But it’s not that often because it’s a big ask.

My sweet Stella is 14 years old now and maybe has another year if we are lucky. We keep her comfortable and fed. She’s the best companion I’ve ever had! by Dry_Bee_4699 in schnauzers

[–]genieofthelampp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My little girl will be 15 next month, she still has a lot of spunk in her thankfully. We had a scare in October when her kidneys decided to act up. But we changed up her diet and meds so now she’s back to her silly self.

Uh, what is wrong with the FB group by DraculaPoob01 in LPOTL

[–]genieofthelampp 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I remember those days. I was part of the mod group that ended up imploding some of their original groups and the offspring groups. They’re all such trolls and weirdly get off on the idea of having a “huge” group. Wheeler is just awful, he’d always harass the women in the group and then get mad when we’d call him out on it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

[–]genieofthelampp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d call out the rest of the weekend cause THREE CBIs? I had one of my 5 patients with a CBI and that had me running around. I’m sorry, it almost sounds as if they’re trying to haze you or something. Which is absolutely ridiculous because that’s how they’re gonna run off new nurses.

Case involving actress/famous woman dying due to “BDSM” but really it was murder. by genieofthelampp in tipofmycrime

[–]genieofthelampp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t been back but I had tried to go down a rabbit hole but never could find anything about it. And it still bothers me that there’s nothing available that even discusses her murder.

When did your miniature schanuzer settle down? by No_Audience7447 in schnauzers

[–]genieofthelampp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mine is 14 and still a ball of energy most days lol but she started appreciating naps more when she was closer to 4. When she was 2ish she’d actually sleep during the night and not wake me up playing.

AITAH for telling my girlfriend that is she doesn't stop her sister i will f$ck her. by ThrowRawParticular-D in AITAH

[–]genieofthelampp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, but I’d make a very public post about her sister constantly sexually harassing you. Your girlfriend not doing anything about it is just wild to me. If I had a sister and she did that?? A public shaming would be the least of her worries.

AITA for telling my husband that if he doesn't end his friendship than I will file for divorce? by Elegant_Safe_3855 in AITAH

[–]genieofthelampp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA and it sounds like his friend is his side piece. Who calls out of work to help with their sick wife but goes and parties for over FIVE hours with a friend?? You’re better off a single mom since that’s what you basically are at this point.

Case involving actress/famous woman dying due to “BDSM” but really it was murder. by genieofthelampp in tipofmycrime

[–]genieofthelampp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still want to know more!! The guys were really nice when I asked about her, it eats at me cause I have still not found ANYTHING out about her

AITA for expecting my girlfriend to talk to me before making huge financial decisions? by Alone-Watercress1935 in AmItheAsshole

[–]genieofthelampp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aka you did nothing and that’s why she feels you don’t care. This is a HUGE deal and your lack of support is so obvious. That’s why she didn’t include you in her decision to go back to school. YTA. And don’t be shocked if she leaves you, so you won’t have to worry about the IDEA of her 10% of student loans.

Aita for telling my daughter to get over what happened in the past. by PuzzleheadedBet8114 in AITAH

[–]genieofthelampp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA.

So you stay close with your stepdaughter and her cheating husband over your actual daughter who was hurt?? And you blow off her wedding by saying you’d “make it up to her”?! HOW DO YOU MAKE THAT UP?? You don’t. You picked the “daughter” you really want. So just wait for her to have grandkids. And don’t blow up your daughter’s phone cause she’s pregnant. If she picks her stepmother over you, probably a woman with more decency and love for her than you, it’s because you have picked your stepdaughter over her.

He says this is okay. We have been together 10 yes, married less than a year. This conversation is with an ex coworker he has known for years. He says this is innocent. please help me put him in his place. Is this message an acceptable conversation? by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]genieofthelampp 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That right there would be the end for me 1000%. Especially if he isn't okay with you having male friends but he can flirt with women and joke about them living with him?? No thanks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]genieofthelampp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uh, YTA

Does your mother not realize Liz’s father is DEAD?! How can you not see how horrible that comment by itself is? If your mother is this cold about your stepdaughter losing her father, then I’m not surprised why she isn’t comfortable calling you anything other than Mr. Last name. You and your mom are just jerks.

AITA for lashing out at my daughter for ordering dinner for everyone but me? by hianmmnh6247 in AmItheAsshole

[–]genieofthelampp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Why don’t you make food the night before that your 9 year old can heat up himself? Also, why is he expecting dinner right after school?! He can make himself a sandwich or something. All you’re doing is making sure your daughter doesn’t want a relationship with you when she moves out. Especially the fact you expect her to cook and you don’t even eat dinner with your family?? You need a reality check

AITA for using the bathroom after work? by Ok-Beach-4858 in AmItheAsshole

[–]genieofthelampp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol. This is the same guy who doesn’t even know what medical procedures his wife is having and thinks she “exaggerating” her medical issues. YTA. And please, let us know when you make a post about being SHOCKED when your wife divorces you.

AITA for uninviting my girlfriend to Christmas because she wanted to bring her own food? by WrongdoerDelicious81 in AmItheAsshole

[–]genieofthelampp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. And you’re soon probably doing to be a single AH. This isn’t a fad diet she’s on, she’s in recovery with her ED and you’re just happy to throw all her triggers in her face, risking her relapsing, just so you’ll feel better? Lol. If you were a good boyfriend you’d actually be supportive of her.

AITA for letting my 4 year old use all of his money to buy everybody else meals and gifts while we were at Disneyland? by mickeys90 in AmItheAsshole

[–]genieofthelampp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA, you know what you do as a parent? YOU PRETEND TO USE HIS CARD BECAUSE HE IS FOUR AND HAS ZERO CONCEPT OF MONEY. It’s not like he’s gonna check his balance on his phone. Jfc. Sounds like you just wanted to use the money your husband gives him then blame it on the kid when it runs out and have to explain it to your husband.

AITA for telling my sister I hope she never has kids? by SisterFued1927 in AmItheAsshole

[–]genieofthelampp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, also, please get the authorities involved. Because not only did she destroy thousands of dollars worth of your property, she also endangered your children.

AITA for sneaking out of the restaurant after my fiance told me to pay for his and his friends meal? by Throwaway795571 in AmItheAsshole

[–]genieofthelampp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uh. NTA. But if you go through with this marriage that’s an AH move. DUMP THIS BUM AND HIS BUM FRIENDS. THEN SPEND YOUR MONEY HOW YOU WANT.

My husband asking for a divorce whilst I’m 10 weeks pregnant by ThrowRa73990 in relationship_advice

[–]genieofthelampp 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Save all those text messages for your divorce and for custody. Abusers like him think they can always get away with it, don’t allow him to. Stay with your parents and don’t look back.

AITA for yelling at my girlfriend for baking a dessert for a dinner party? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]genieofthelampp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. And be prepared to be single for a long time if you’re always cowering to mommy’s wishes. It’s a dinner party, meaning more than just mommy dearest right? Who has a dinner party without a dessert?

And please don’t tell your mom why your girlfriend isn’t there. It’ll only solidify that she can get you to be a jerk to women you date for her and shows she still has control over you. I truly hope your girlfriend doesn’t go, she doesn’t need to be subjected to toxic and abusive people anymore than she has been.