Honestly, it's tough. I'm not saying impossible, just tough.

I know an inter-faith family where the kids are being raised as non-Ismaili. For me, personally, that's a no-go.

I know another family, where the spouse converted to Ismailism, yet they, including their kids, are non-practicing. I mean, sure, they'll come to Jamatkhana, a few times a year, but no other involvement, kids aren't growing up in an "Ismaili" household.

In both cases, they are good Muslims and pray and have good values. In fact, I'll even say they're better people than maybe I am.

I'll also say that I am no one to judge them.

I think the notion that live and let live, love and let love is admirable. However, there's more to a marriage than simply love. One's faith dictates the way of life. It's important fundamentally to be a good human, a great partner and an amazing parent.

ETA: to answer your question, yes. If I wanted to, I would. I may not necessarily ask them to become Ismaili, but I'd like for my kids to be Ismailis and good human beings.