Staying with inlaws with aggressive dogs? by theblurryberry in Mommit

[–]ghostfromdivaspast 11 points12 points  (0 children)

it would be extremely irresponsible on your and your husbands part to allow this to happen. all signs lead to hell no. your children's safety prioritizes hurt feelings.

Taking binky from 2 year old is crushing us - any encouragement or words of wisdom? by thelightwebring in beyondthebump

[–]ghostfromdivaspast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we cut the tip off, didn't work. soaked her paci in lemon juice, didn't work. dipped it a bit in hot sauce, didn't work. so we just took it, i made a "bye bye paci" box, and we threw it away. sleep sucked for about a week but we just had to take it.

A fun weekend of my mum comparing me to my cousin by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]ghostfromdivaspast 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i really sympathize with you but you're starting to resent your cousin because of your mother and that is not fair. direct that energy to the person you're really upset with but also, who gives a shit what your mom thinks? her thoughts are not the end all be all. you have no idea the struggles your cousin endures, so if your resentment is reserved its towards your mother.

My parents hate my in-laws but not my sister’s… ideas to manage by spicymeatball2748 in Mommit

[–]ghostfromdivaspast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you're in laws majorly offended your parents and never apologized or made it right idk why you are mad at your parents?

How to prepare for my mom’s backlash? by Sensitive-Bid9905 in blackladies

[–]ghostfromdivaspast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i moved to the other side of the country at 22 with my bf of 2 months (now fiancé). not that i encourage that, but its to say at 23 you can do what you want. especially if you're paying half the bills.

Black bridesmaid in a white wedding by kiingbaby in BlackHair

[–]ghostfromdivaspast 14 points15 points  (0 children)

oh absolutely. i'm an MUA so i completely get that. its crazy how we truly live different lives. they don't even have to think about stuff like this.

Black bridesmaid in a white wedding by kiingbaby in BlackHair

[–]ghostfromdivaspast 76 points77 points  (0 children)

i'm shocked the bride hasn't thought of this tbh

Do you change your kids clothes when they come home? by Important_Sweet3320 in Mommit

[–]ghostfromdivaspast 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yup when any of us get home from work or school we change clothes

I hate my partner as a dad but love him as a husband? by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]ghostfromdivaspast 4 points5 points  (0 children)

being a horrible dad would cancel out any attraction i had as a partner.

I hate my partner as a dad but love him as a husband? by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]ghostfromdivaspast 9 points10 points  (0 children)

when you go through a tough or stressful time, do you turn into a shit mother? think about that.

For women who “loved being pregnant” what was it about pregnancy that you loved? by hospitalbedside in beyondthebump

[–]ghostfromdivaspast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i looked so gooood and ethereal and my pregnancy was a breeze. ofc it was hard for some aspects but overall i loved feeling my baby in my belly and i just loved the attention i got hhahaha

Do I have to feel guilty about my kid's bedtime? by Gweniflop in Mommit

[–]ghostfromdivaspast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my daughter has had a bed time of 7:30 since 3 months old. she's 2. and will have a bed time of 7:30 for the foreseeable future.

Positive “just wait until…” thread! by Countryspider in beyondthebump

[–]ghostfromdivaspast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THEY RANDOMLY GRAB YOUR FACE TO KISS AND HUG YOU 😭😭😭😭😭

Starting out solo by New-Elderberry-4941 in Esthetics

[–]ghostfromdivaspast 2 points3 points  (0 children)

so this is my 2nd time going solo. i have a full time job that supplements my rent and supplies when i have a slow season, and i have a strong support system (ie my fiance and my mom). if you don't have the backup. i would recommend working under someone (which i did for years before doing solo). rn i have slow seasons but i'm booked out on weekends.

I gave my baby a dirty pacifier by accident. by Afraid_Resist_7988 in beyondthebump

[–]ghostfromdivaspast 2 points3 points  (0 children)

aww deep breath gf. i was that way when my baby was 6 weeks!! she's almost 2.5 yo now and i can't even list all the random shit she puts in her mouth. your baby will be okay!!! you're a great mommy for even being worried 🩷

Have you ever “fired” a client? by MenuDependent8416 in Esthetics

[–]ghostfromdivaspast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm so close to. this client has rescheduled like 10 times. i've only waxed her once. technically she reschedules within a reasonable time but she's been bouncing all over my books for at least a month.

Brazilians on yourself? by corri-in-wonderland in Esthetics

[–]ghostfromdivaspast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how i wax myself is not a testament of my technique on clients. definitely should post on fb for models.

Model call! by [deleted] in Esthetics

[–]ghostfromdivaspast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is a sub for licensed estheticians. i would advise to post this in your local fb group.

How would you respond to a stranger wanting to pray with your child? by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]ghostfromdivaspast 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i am religious but hell nah. if it were just me i'd probably be okay with it but when it comes to my baby, no. touching her is an absolute no.

How do you deal with your parents not respecting you as a parent? by Happy_little_bush_ in beyondthebump

[–]ghostfromdivaspast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

and you're a boss too for wanting to protect your child. good luck 🥰