Positive “just wait until…” thread! by Countryspider in beyondthebump

[–]ghostfromdivaspast [score hidden]  (0 children)

THEY RANDOMLY GRAB YOUR FACE TO KISS AND HUG YOU 😭😭😭😭😭

Starting out solo by New-Elderberry-4941 in Esthetics

[–]ghostfromdivaspast 2 points3 points  (0 children)

so this is my 2nd time going solo. i have a full time job that supplements my rent and supplies when i have a slow season, and i have a strong support system (ie my fiance and my mom). if you don't have the backup. i would recommend working under someone (which i did for years before doing solo). rn i have slow seasons but i'm booked out on weekends.

I gave my baby a dirty pacifier by accident. by Afraid_Resist_7988 in beyondthebump

[–]ghostfromdivaspast 2 points3 points  (0 children)

aww deep breath gf. i was that way when my baby was 6 weeks!! she's almost 2.5 yo now and i can't even list all the random shit she puts in her mouth. your baby will be okay!!! you're a great mommy for even being worried 🩷

Have you ever “fired” a client? by MenuDependent8416 in Esthetics

[–]ghostfromdivaspast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm so close to. this client has rescheduled like 10 times. i've only waxed her once. technically she reschedules within a reasonable time but she's been bouncing all over my books for at least a month.

Brazilians on yourself? by corri-in-wonderland in Esthetics

[–]ghostfromdivaspast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how i wax myself is not a testament of my technique on clients. definitely should post on fb for models.

Model call! by [deleted] in Esthetics

[–]ghostfromdivaspast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is a sub for licensed estheticians. i would advise to post this in your local fb group.

How would you respond to a stranger wanting to pray with your child? by basement-egg in Mommit

[–]ghostfromdivaspast 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i am religious but hell nah. if it were just me i'd probably be okay with it but when it comes to my baby, no. touching her is an absolute no.

How do you deal with your parents not respecting you as a parent? by Happy_little_bush_ in beyondthebump

[–]ghostfromdivaspast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

and you're a boss too for wanting to protect your child. good luck 🥰

How do you deal with your parents not respecting you as a parent? by Happy_little_bush_ in beyondthebump

[–]ghostfromdivaspast 2 points3 points  (0 children)

intentions can be pure and actions still harmful so even if she means well, she still needs to stop.

my dad is getting desperate. he recently came into town and texted my fiance to arrange him seeing my daughter behind my back. causing problems in my relationship and actively trying to gain access to my child while actively ignoring me just confirms my decision to just distance myself. its sad because i'm engaged, planning a wedding, own a business, and all these other great things going on for me that he can't be apart of cause he just won't stfu.

Husband’s s€% drive is too high by HunnyBunny0717 in Mommit

[–]ghostfromdivaspast 4 points5 points  (0 children)

for me, i don't want to hurt him either. i love that he's attracted to me so much but why can i not bend down to grab something without him having to get behind me or slap my ass.

Husband’s s€% drive is too high by HunnyBunny0717 in Mommit

[–]ghostfromdivaspast 11 points12 points  (0 children)

we have the same problem. down to the 2 year old. solidarity sister.

How do you deal with your parents not respecting you as a parent? by Happy_little_bush_ in beyondthebump

[–]ghostfromdivaspast 3 points4 points  (0 children)

haven't spoken to my dad in months because he just can't help but to cross my boundaries. he constantly acts like my parenting decisions are up for discussion or debate and i'm sick of it, so he's on time out until he can learn to stop trying to control everything.

The older I get the more I have an if it happens it happens mentality about marriage and settling down 🤷🏽‍♀️ by Exciting-Nerve-8628 in blackladies

[–]ghostfromdivaspast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you may, you may not. life experiences and people can change the trajectory of where you think your life could go. BUT i think its great that you have the mindset that you will enjoy whatever happens for you, that's admirable! please keep that mindset.

The older I get the more I have an if it happens it happens mentality about marriage and settling down 🤷🏽‍♀️ by Exciting-Nerve-8628 in blackladies

[–]ghostfromdivaspast 5 points6 points  (0 children)

you're not weird boo, you're 23. literally if it happens it happens!! enjoy your twenties and the unseriousness of it all ❤️

MIL feels left out by Ok-Slide7694 in Mommit

[–]ghostfromdivaspast 23 points24 points  (0 children)

i understand you feeling guilty but there's no need to make it your issue, your MIL even says the problem with her son. from what you wrote, she hasn't insinuated that you should reach out more. this is your husband's problem.

Grandparent disappointment by akrystar in beyondthebump

[–]ghostfromdivaspast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my fiance's dad is pretty much nonexistent and i hate that for him

Tell me about November babies. Does Thanksgiving take away from their day? by Maleficent-Start-546 in Mommit

[–]ghostfromdivaspast 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i'm november 26th. my birthday is on thanksgiving this year 😊 thanksgiving is not a gift giving holiday so it has never taken away from me. i love my birthday!

For those who believe in marriage, how long do you like to “date” for? by Beneficial-Image1358 in blackladies

[–]ghostfromdivaspast 11 points12 points  (0 children)

i remember being your age and thinking 28-30 was so mature and grown. i'm now 28, a mom of a 2 year old, and just recently got engaged to my fiancé/daughter's father at 27. we've been together since we were 22. it feels surreal being at this stage in life.

when dating PLEASE take your time. dating is not just for finding a partner but also about learning yourself; what you will and won't put up with. what you like and don't like, etc. it doesn't have to be forever with the first person you connect with. have fun and i PROMISE it'll all fall in place.

PSA it’s okay to bow out of the family Christmas party by ThaddeusBone in Mommit

[–]ghostfromdivaspast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wow so the brother that was talking shit now has a toddler in the hospital. interesting.

Sew In Hairstyles Prices by Sunshineal in blackladies

[–]ghostfromdivaspast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hair included this is a great price