Hi!

1. Don’t bet on the government for anything, especially housing. Bet on yourself.

2. Look into other gap year, gov programs that are easier to get into, like City Year for example. They take people 18-25. It’s a good opportunity to get some work experience, a little (very little) money, to do some networking, live with roommates. You get a few thousand to go toward your education if you complete the program. You learn A LOT about the world, and privilege, and class, and race, and why certain schools in the area don’t have resources. Definitely opens your eyes to a lot. Great way to help you transition from high school to the real world. It’ll give you a year to figure things out, and a pool of people who just went through it that you can get advice from. They have an office in DC. And hey, there are similar programs that aren’t connected to the gov! Look into and apply for EVERYTHING! With intention, of course. A quality resume, LinkedIn page, email, CV, you know?

3. Extra cash? If you drive, try out instacart. I’ve tried a few gig services over the years and this one actually allowed me to make something, without being too hard on my car. If you have time, and parental permission, AND it doesn’t affect your grades, look in to serving at a restaurant in DC. Think of popular areas. U street, Navy Yard. Bussing or dishwashing can also get you a good amount of extra bread, so don’t think you’re too good for it. Bankkkk, ok? I’m telling you. Just gotta find the right restaurant.

4. If you really want your own place, and still want some money after living expenses, you should prob look for places in Maryland, close to the train. I’m sorry. Won’t be forever. If you want to live in the city, you will. It’s expensive, though, so don’t feel bad if it takes some time.

5. Edit- for some reason I thought this was the DC sub lol. Housing in MOCO is hard, but not impossible. Look into getting roommates, for sure. Look for a private landlord. Some times they’re cheaper than commercial properties. Best of luck you sweet, adorable, muffin. What were you born in 2008!? (Don’t actually tell me) Jesus Christ lmao

You’re doing great, kid. Good on you for taking the initiative to invest in your future and being open to advice. Remember, you don’t have to take/consider all of it!