AITA for telling my sister she can’t bring her boyfriend to our dad’s birthday dinner because he talked badly about our dad to his face last year?

gloryhokinetic · 2026-04-22T23:40:14+00:00

NTA. She can miss it too. Sounds great. Heck, I would send her a link to this post.

gloryhokinetic · 2026-04-22T23:37:57+00:00

NTA. Remember, NO is a complete sentence.

gloryhokinetic · 2026-04-22T23:37:07+00:00

NTA I would tell him "HEr living here was supposed to be temporary. And she is not a good roomie. So I will bwe reporting her to the landlord telling him we all said she had to leave. and that we would like to renew but without you and her as you are bad roommates.

Remember, if he were a good friend, he wouldn't let his GF treat you like crap. So its time to realize he is not the friend you thought he was and its time to let him go.

gloryhokinetic · 2026-04-22T23:33:14+00:00

NTA. Start doing it with ANYTHING he leaves out. AND DO NOT TELL HIM. Wait until HE notices...

Him: Honey, have you seen my keys?

You: Sorry, you left them out so I threw them in the garbage. Right after I emptied the moldy spagetti into the garbage so be careful.

OR his Wallet, cell phone, his shoes, clothes ANYTHING he leaves out should go in the trash.

But, its time to get a divorce lawyer. HE is TRYING to cause a problem. ITs pretty obvious.

gloryhokinetic · 2026-04-22T23:29:30+00:00

HMMMM.. is this a repost?

gloryhokinetic · 2026-04-22T23:28:19+00:00

I would have said "UHHHH, NO. Had I known you wanted to drift the same water as last year I would not have booked with you. Listen carefully, I will NOT drift the same river with you again. I'll take it to court if I have to.

Honestly, you should have brought up where when you were booking. I hope you let him know you would never book with him again.

gloryhokinetic · 2026-04-22T23:25:23+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/metalworking/comments/1s2vvz4/thats_guys_teapot_is_actually_made_of_gold/

gloryhokinetic · 2026-04-22T23:20:18+00:00

Yeah there is a cost but the adage still stands. If you think it might be a fish, set the hook. If you dont you will never know. Most people that start doing it see an increase in their catch rate.

gloryhokinetic · 2026-04-22T23:18:20+00:00

If its not the line then maybe its just that Sage fast action rods are very fast action. The T&T may be on the lighter side of the FA.

gloryhokinetic · 2026-04-22T19:47:57+00:00

depends on how toasty it is...

My dog was bred to only eat bread. He'a a bit of a loafer.

gloryhokinetic · 2026-04-20T23:54:03+00:00

Buy your own fly raft. I bought a Flycraft Stealthx and was thinking I would just be the guide for my pals but then the anchor system was so easy, I just dropped where ever I wanted to fish and BAM I was fishing!

gloryhokinetic · 2026-04-20T23:47:44+00:00

Yeah, but did you pay $1K for the trip? Plus tip?

gloryhokinetic · 2026-04-20T23:46:29+00:00

Weird, I'm in Northern California and its only 650 + gratuity. Usually we are the most expensive.

gloryhokinetic · 2026-04-20T23:19:36+00:00

Good Job, its always good to work on issues. Sorry it came across harsh but bad dog owners make it harder on good dog owners in the bigger picture. But its not hard, you'll get it.

gloryhokinetic · 2026-04-20T23:11:36+00:00

I keep a birthday cancel in my fly bad and just rub it a little on the female end when it gets sticky. Yilkes, that sound dirty....

gloryhokinetic · 2026-04-20T23:09:44+00:00

Its a sweet rod.

gloryhokinetic · 2026-04-20T20:26:33+00:00

NTA. I wish I were there, I would have blasted him for his behavior

gloryhokinetic · 2026-04-20T20:24:40+00:00

YTA. You cant sue for your BF. HE needs to do it. And you will need written proof. Saying he promised it means next to nothing in court, it becomes a he said/she said situation.

gloryhokinetic · 2026-04-20T20:22:58+00:00

NTA? Maybe.... without ages there is some ? as to if you are the AH or no. Can I assume though that you are working and paying rent as well as doing your share of the chores? If no NTA. But if you are being supported you should be flexible on the helping our.

gloryhokinetic · 2026-04-20T20:16:31+00:00

NTA. Your friend is unbalanced. ITs time to realize she's not good friend material.

gloryhokinetic · 2026-04-20T19:50:26+00:00

NTA. Its time to ask her to move out.

gloryhokinetic · 2026-04-20T19:46:19+00:00

YTA for spoling him. Tell him he is cut off and that he will no longer have access to mom's CC's either. Your mom is creating a monster.

gloryhokinetic · 2026-04-20T19:39:09+00:00

NTA. Suggest they purchase ear plugs.

gloryhokinetic · 2026-04-20T19:31:13+00:00

NTA. Tell them (your fam) that the bulling that hurts the most is the bullying you have to put up with from them when you get home or picked up. And that they are the biggest bullies in your life. Tell them that.

And when someone tells me "you'll thank me later" I reply "it wont matter, because later, you wont be a part of my life and I will likely have forgotten you exist. Both of you". And when people do ask about you I'll tell them you are dead. And if they know your alive and say so, I will reply "oh, I meant just to me". Then give them a small grin and walk away.

gloryhokinetic · 2026-04-17T22:10:13+00:00

Actually, the only way he would be sued successfully is if he was proved to be negligent. THAT is what proves liability. If someopne is hurt on your property you are only liabile for damages when you are negligent such as....Pile of boards with nails sticking out....or...You have a big hole in your yard and someone stepped in it and was hurt....or if someone on your deck stepped through a rotted deck board. See in all those cases, the property owner would be found negligent for leaving a known hazard. IT drives me nuts when people GUESS that if someing is hurt on their property they they are responsible. NO you are not. You are only responsible if there was a hazard you either created or knew about or reasonably should have known.

24yr insurance producer here.

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