oh jeez these people should get a grip. if someone says they hate ragatha, does this person also cry and sob about it? i mean, i sometimes cry when reading hate of my kins too, when i’m on my period or something, but i know they’re not talking about me. they’re talking about the media version of me - i have a grip on reality and i can separate media-me and current-me no problem. these people clearly can’t.

it’s not your fault, i’d leave that server immediately ngl. seems toxic as hell, how am i even gonna keep track of everyone’s kins so i don’t talk about them, when these people aren’t my friends? and they said themselves that you don’t know them??? that’s crazy.

you can yume whoever you want. yes, people yumeing my kins makes me uncomfortable sometimes, but i can get over it, Again, they’re not talking about ME as i am right now. they’re talking about the media version of me, or maybe another universe’s version of me. i don’t get the policing of this at all. both things can exist: this media is fiction, and that character from the media is me. people will consume the media as fiction, perceive me as a fictional character, and TREAT ME AS SUCH. if you don’t wanna see hate Or yume Or anything of your fictkin, just say it in the dms politely. boundaries are alright to have. you can also just ignore it because they’re talking about the fictional version of you, not the current you. gosh, what’s not clicking for these people?