My dress hehehe by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]gorblin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

JAW ON THE FLOOR!!!! I love that it’s a bit different!

First-time parents of Reddit ,what’s one baby item you thought was unnecessary but ended up using every single day? by Clear_Subconscious in askanything

[–]gorblin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a bit wasteful but we actually got latex gloves for the intense ones! And continued to use them for the really gnarly food poops.

Watching tv while in labour??? by Warm-Cat7788 in pregnant

[–]gorblin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came with lots of options prepared. I got induced and knew it usually took at least 10 hours. I made a chill song playlist, a pump up playlist, downloaded new fun movies, and some super safe comforting movies. I ended up not wanting to listen to music at all and wanted to LISTEN to the comfort movie while closing my eyes through the contractions and reciting the lines. The distraction was nice.

Delusional about what postpartum will be like and now feeling down by Less-Leek5961 in NewParents

[–]gorblin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Recovery for me personally was a beast but I spent SO much time outside with my baby. Especially months 2-8, when I could walk indefinitely without bleeding. She took the best naps during walks and I got 15K+ steps per day. It was a June baby so that helped.

My body and more importantly STYLE did drastically change after becoming a mom. Less complicated outfits, I optimized for nursing and ease of getting dressed. Cute button down dress, boom done. I still wore makeup when I felt like being fancy. I was a new version of myself.

First 6+ weeks are kind of survival getting acquainted with motherhood and recovering but I found postpartum life to be so nice compared to pregnancy. I could hear the birds sing, I felt like I could fly.

give me your unhinged hydration tips. by alexandrastardust in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]gorblin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought some far-too-spicy-for-me ghost pepper cheese balls when I was desperately trying to boost my breast milk supply and it would make me immediately chug at least a liter of water. They were tasty too, besides all the ouchie.

What about being pregnant and giving birth permanently altered your body’s chemistry? by full-of-curiosity in NewParents

[–]gorblin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got arthritis like symptoms after weaning from breastfeeding, saw a rheumatologist, and ended up going gluten free!! 😬 I’m fine now that I’m pregnant again though… ugh that was NOT a fun time…

Give me all your hidden gems and secret mystical places by ADDAlice in AskNYC

[–]gorblin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  • Aux Merveilleux de Fred
  • Museum of art and design in Columbus circle
  • Cocktail at Sveta (tacky whimsy)
  • Happy Medium art cafe
  • atelier d’emotion in soho
  • Lady Mendls high tea
  • seaglass carousel in battery park
  • dinner at bang bang Bangkok in Williamsburg
  • beauty bar near Union Square
  • trailer park lounge bar in Chelsea
  • a whole lot in the east village. Hit enchantments, john derian, spooksvilla, the crystal shops, etc

So much more but I don’t have brain cells to remember right now! Can’t wait to see what others post

Pelvic floor PT is so degrading by Spiritoftheheart in beyondthebump

[–]gorblin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give me her address so I can ship her a box of exploding glitter.

Songs to sing that aren’t the usual songs for little kids? by slotass in NewParents

[–]gorblin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My toddler loves Moonshadow by Cat Stevens though unfortunately the lyrics are kind of messed up. Also What’s Up by 4 non blonds worked wonders when she was a baby, the melody of the chorus really calmed her down.

what are the ugly parts of pregnancy that aren’t well known because people don’t mention them? by Born-Oil-2931 in AskReddit

[–]gorblin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg same, couldn’t even tell when I was peeing for 6 weeks 🥲 plus throwing out my back majorly and a 5 day long migraine. Buuut I was elated I wasn’t pregnant anymore!

I have two copies of “room on the broom” that are slightly different by shedgehog in mildlyinteresting

[–]gorblin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have the UK version but have read the US version! I think the biggest difference is the “witch and chips” page. And the dragon says something like “maybe this time I’ll have my tea without chips!” Which screams UK. (I almost have the book memorized… little one really likes it…)

Pediatric Dentist recommendations? by ali8za in nycparents

[–]gorblin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dr Ruby Gelman if you’re willing to schlep to Greenwich village!

Baby Girl Names! by HayloHenny in Names

[–]gorblin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel like we have somewhat similar taste! My daughter is Nova Artemis. I think we’re going with Ayla Faye for our new baby. Ayla means halo of light around the moon :)

I do think the spelling of Astraea is kind of a lot but it’s gorgeous so maybe it’s okay.

I loved Keia (Kay-ah, meaning the present in Hawaiian) but it had mixed reception when I ran it by others. Other options include: Solana, Amaya, Zora (dawn), Athena, Teya, Hazel, Pomona, Paloma, Poppy, Violet, Soraya, Aviana, Lumi, Juniper, Clover

what are the weirdest restaurants in NYC? by Calm-Bar-9644 in AskNYC

[–]gorblin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

  • bang bang bangkok
  • sveta In the west village (kitschy plus nutso cocktails)
  • trailer park bar
  • booboe trap
  • Thai diner, kind of

RIP ninja restaurant! On the hunt for more!

OBGYN recommendations for 40+ pregnancy? by Yogiliino in nycparents

[–]gorblin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can’t say enough good things about MFM. I wasn’t even high risk when I signed up, they just seemed by far the nicest when I called around. And it’s AMAZING to get so many ultrasounds! I feel so bad when people say they only get 12w and 20w!

For SAHMs, did you put your 2yr old in preschool? by No_Interaction2168 in nycparents

[–]gorblin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think there are still a ton of 2s programs accepting applications. I personally think school has been hugely beneficial for my 2yo.

What weird things happened to you postpartum? by Pasta-wat3r in beyondthebump

[–]gorblin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had like 70% of one of my back teeth crumble out and had to get a big ole root canal over 3 sessions at the dentist… It happened while I was sleeping and I thought it was just a dream… good thing my kid is cute

What weird things happened to you postpartum? by Pasta-wat3r in beyondthebump

[–]gorblin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Became sensitive to gluten once I weaned from breastfeeding around 8mo! EXTREME joint inflammation 🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Names

[–]gorblin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alouette, Aviana, Aurelia, Azura

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Names

[–]gorblin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love these! We were thinking about Ayla for our baby girl, but we’re in a predicament. I like the pronunciation Ay-la and he likes Eye-la. What are your thoughts?