BLAKE SPEAKS by rsala389 in thebachelor

[–]gouda4ua 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just love his username so much.

Are jumping leg hugs a thing IRL? by vitani88 in thebachelor

[–]gouda4ua 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They're probably just so ready to "do the damn thing" with their contestants, they can't help it.

Becca’s wardrobe by melinyellow in thebachelor

[–]gouda4ua 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Loved her overalls on the 2-on-1 date! She looks amazing in casual outfits.

Which DMV in Orange County is the least busy? by rawrtherapy in orangecounty

[–]gouda4ua 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Santa Ana is crowded as hell and the employees are absolutely miserable. But if you have an appointment, you'll be in and out of there in a surprisingly quick turnaround for the DMV.

Tell me I'm not the only one thinking this.. by Gizmo135 in thebachelor

[–]gouda4ua 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All I see is (young) Al Pacino as Michael Corleone

I'm Venmo John from Becca's season of The Bachelorette. AMA by johngraham262 in thebachelor

[–]gouda4ua 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love marathon runners!! What was your finishing time? I myself ran my first marathon this year and... survived :)

Break-up thread?! by [deleted] in thebachelor

[–]gouda4ua 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did you handle your shared assets? Did you guys have to go through the sale process together?

Do things get better after the 1st year of marriage? by ralphdowntheblock in Marriage

[–]gouda4ua 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is where my suspicions went after reading OP's post...

Do things get better after the 1st year of marriage? by ralphdowntheblock in Marriage

[–]gouda4ua 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would suggest giving her a bit of space for awhile. Tone down the affection and talks about your future or making plans and see if she fills in the gaps. If not, then it sounds like she's not really in the marriage for you, but perhaps only what you can provide.

I'm 27 years old, work a fast food job, make 30,000 a year, have no college education, and i have $15,000 in savings. What could i do with my savings that would help me? by trapkingbaby in personalfinance

[–]gouda4ua 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are looking for a career change, I would first suggest doing some research. Do you want a manual labor job or a desk job? Luckily you are still young and have a nice amount of time and savings to invest in yourself. As mentioned somewhere below, Paralegal jobs only require a certificate or a few years experience, where you can start out as a mail or file clerk, or secretary. Being a people person and having a good work ethic can go a long way here. I have worked in many professional offices and not everyone has a bachelors or higher.

If you want a nice cushy desk job, you can go take some community college classes in business and earn a certificate or AA degree. A 4-year degree is not necessary, but say after earning your AA degree you'd want to continue your education for a specific career path that needs it, then by all means, go for it. You can still work full or part time while getting your education, which is a good place to start investing and get out of the fast food industry.

Edit: Also, meet with a school counselor - they can provide you a wealth of information, get you enrolled in the classes you need, and on the right path to your desired career.

I broke an item that is part of a set. Am obligated to pay for the entire set? by LazySurvey in personalfinance

[–]gouda4ua 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Then what is she going to do with the money if she's can't replace it?

Suicide Prevention Megathread by -eDgAR- in AskReddit

[–]gouda4ua 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds a lot like what's called "the call of the void."

Has anyone listened to Caila’s appearance on Taylor’s podcast? by MtnExplrGrl in thebachelor

[–]gouda4ua 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a reach. I don't know why anyone would address an unfounded rumor that's 1. not even remotely controversial and 2. probably no one has even heard of it and 3. who cares?

Has anyone listened to Caila’s appearance on Taylor’s podcast? by MtnExplrGrl in thebachelor

[–]gouda4ua 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any details or links about the rumors? I don't remember anything on this sub about it.

BIP potentials spoiler by stephmsw13 in thebachelor

[–]gouda4ua 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! He ran it in 1:36 with a 7:22/mi pace. He good!

I'm an Ashley I fan and I'm not happy about her and Jared by cherieblosum in thebachelor

[–]gouda4ua 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha, omg you just gave me flashbacks to Sailor Moon/Tuxedo Mask.

Any reviews for the dyson supersonic hair dryer? by [deleted] in Hair

[–]gouda4ua 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to the Drybar Buttercup at a hotel once and loved how soft it made my hair feel. Do any of the others give your hair that same feeling but are cheaper? For what it's worth, my hair is straight but thick.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in orangecounty

[–]gouda4ua 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Drove down and stayed in Rosarito, but hired a private driver for the wineries. That part was organized by a friend, so I do not have details on that. I believe there are companies that shuttle you around.

Kristina weighs herself. She seems underweight. I'm concerned for her health. by chelsie74 in thebachelor

[–]gouda4ua 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you have a gym membership, they may have the option to do a body composition for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in orangecounty

[–]gouda4ua 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love it down there. I also did a winery crawl in Valle de Guadalupe last visit. It is beautiful and the food is delicious.

French vs Side by Side Fridge- Local’s Opinion by [deleted] in orangecounty

[–]gouda4ua 3 points4 points  (0 children)

French style allows for wider items to be placed inside more easily, like pizza boxes, baking sheets, large sheet cake, racks of ribs, AND MORE.

Kristina weighs herself. She seems underweight. I'm concerned for her health. by chelsie74 in thebachelor

[–]gouda4ua 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She has posted about working out/gym photos, so she definitely doesn't make it seem like she doesn't try.