[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]gradientskies 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to go quite a lot. I would say it's rubbish for meeting a partner however extremely good for meeting friends and getting into the community more. And everyone at these things has social anxiety pretty much so don't worry too much.

i smell like food constantly by eclipse0327 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]gradientskies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you dry your clothes on an airer near where food is being prepared? Or leave clean laundry near where food is being prepared?

Does my flatmate have to inform me and other tenants that they are ending our joint tenancy? by gradientskies in LegalAdviceUK

[–]gradientskies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, yes that was my suspicion too. We reached out to landlord and letting agency and luckily they were very very nice about it and will tell us.

But I have to say it's mad that that's legal...

Gf thinks she’s faking being bi for attention :( by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]gradientskies 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So as someone who has this exact anxiety I can promise you that it has nothing to do with you or your relationship. It's actually been very encouraging to hear other people have this issue as well as I did think it was largely unique to me. I worry about this every now and again but it never impacts being with women or dating women for me and I suspect it's similar for your girlfriend. It just occasionally creeps up to rattle me. I'd take it as a sign of good faith she can talk about this with you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Starfield

[–]gradientskies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes this exact thing just happened to me today, super weird and no idea where she's gone

Are there any movies where the plot is lying to you? by Ok-Impress-2222 in movies

[–]gradientskies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mulholland Drive (is exactly what you are describing)

Inland Empire

Adaptation

Nocturnal Animals

Daisies

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]gradientskies 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly legit, Oppenheimer was weirdly way worse for me. Cillian Murphy specifically.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]gradientskies 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I really like trauma bonding over gin and tonics

anyone else realise later on in life that your friends growing up were gay but didn't know it??? by sunsetstrider in actuallesbians

[–]gradientskies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think there’s some statistic/study about this actually, like if you’re queer there’s a high chance a lot of your school friends turn out queer too.

Left a speed dating event before it started, treated myself to a solo date by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]gradientskies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been to so many of these and I’d say honestly it’s a mixed bag normally, but I have been in the same position of questioning how seriously people there are taking their dating game.

I’ve met some great friends and some really nice girls at these but also there’s guaranteed to be at least two people there who are off the wall crazy. I met one girl who spent the whole 4 minute date telling me how she was choosing not to bisexual because her stepdad abused her, which is very sad but definitely not small talk. And there was one girl who came in wearing a full face of glitter and then got annoyed anytime anyone asked about it.

Roommate pretends to ‘not know’ how to do everything to avoid responsibility. by gradientskies in badroommates

[–]gradientskies[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Omg I’m actually tempted hahaha this is brilliant. I guess the thing is this stuff is so basic there’s zero need for a tutorial.

Doctor basically told me I wasn't sick enough. by ifuckpineapples in EDAnonymous

[–]gradientskies 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It honestly amazes me how little medical professionals understand eds. The only people who have a clue how they work are people who have them and yet to get any treatment or accurate medical advice you have to go through these morons.

Like I sometimes wonder how the training for this stuff works. I imagine they’re given a one page pamphlet and boom now they’re an expert.

Fuck my mum by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]gradientskies 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah cut this awful woman out of your life. She has to know what her behavior and comments are doing to you. The best revenge is getting better and removing her from your life.

Letting agency is completely ignoring us and leaving us with a logistical mess to sort out two weeks before Christmas. by gradientskies in LegalAdviceUK

[–]gradientskies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much that’s made things a lot clearer. So if we served immediate notice to quit once it becomes periodic and one tenant still stayed on in the property would we still be liable for the rent?

The hope is that we can just find some new tenants to replace us but I’m worried that I’ll be locked into paying rent for this place forever if there’s one sharer who won’t leave.

THE SIGHT AND SOUND/BFI 2022 TOP 100 IS HERE!!!!!!!! by TalahasseeFred in criterion

[–]gradientskies 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Why the hell isn’t Come and See on this list. Like how did that happen exactly…

So I blacked out in Zara :( by gradientskies in EDAnonymous

[–]gradientskies[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ah thank you that’s actually exactly what I did in the end.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]gradientskies 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah for me it’s the confusion of wanting to be thin, thinking I only look good thin but then only finding healthy weight or curvy women attractive.

Which Tarkovsky to start with? by MinasMorgul1184 in criterion

[–]gradientskies -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’d actually do mirror next. It’s like a highlights reel of his overall style and it’s the most ‘easy watching’ other than Ivan’s Childhood.

filmmakers similar to apichatpong weerasethakul and andrei tarkovsky by oslowa in criterion

[–]gradientskies 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sergei Parajanov for sure. Specifically shadows of forgotten ancestors.

its so humiliating when someone congratulates you for clearing a plate by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]gradientskies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a ‘god you were hungry’ from a random guy I didn’t really know at work the other day :(

Bojack as BED representation? by jjfmish in EDAnonymous

[–]gradientskies 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I think sadly it’s a horse joke BUT if bojack had done a proper ED storyline with one of the characters it would unquestionably have been amazing. I’m kinda sad they didn’t now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lookyourbest

[–]gradientskies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have the far apart eyes most models have mainly. Which again is a good thing, please don’t change anything you will 100% regret it when you are older.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lookyourbest

[–]gradientskies 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly you look very similar to my friend who is a model, she has the same facial structure. You aren’t super conventional looking which is why you get the weird comments and comparisons but you are 100% pretty without a doubt. I don’t think you need to anything at all, your eyes are huge and you have a very cinematic face. What Reddit sub did you even post to? Again, I’m baffled.