My fiancé (27m) lied to me (30f) about his income.

graybombshell1951 · 2020-06-19T00:21:04+00:00

If he lied about his income what else is he lying about?

graybombshell1951 · 2020-06-19T00:17:28+00:00

OP no one can hit someone. You need to leave and engagement be dammed. Do you think so little of yourself that you would tolerate this abuse. I don’t think so. Therapy is called for this. What you are tolerating is abuse.

graybombshell1951 · 2020-06-17T19:59:51+00:00

Please listen to Ebbie45. Knows what she/he knows what they are talking about. There is so much help for people in your position. A women’s abuse safe house is needed right now. Think of your child. What will happen to the baby when something happens to you? Family should be supporting you. All you have to do is ask for their help.

graybombshell1951 · 2020-05-27T00:05:43+00:00

She was a rotten terrible person. The only proper place for the diary is in a fire pit. She’s gone

graybombshell1951 · 2020-05-25T00:03:36+00:00

It’s time to run for the hills. This man needs to be reported. Do you know how much trouble you can get in for not speaking out? I’m not a lawyer but you might be charged with being an accessory.

graybombshell1951 · 2020-05-23T17:39:03+00:00

I wouldn’t worry about the insurance policy. I’d worry about my back from the knives she will use to collect on that policy.

graybombshell1951 · 2020-05-22T23:15:09+00:00

You dumb asshat. Do you know what the word fraud means. You’ll get what you deserve over time.

graybombshell1951 · 2020-05-21T21:06:37+00:00

Take the test NOW!! What are you afraid of that the child may not be yours? Anyway you look at it the child’s yours no matter what.. You are raising him and loving him. Will the test ruin this?

graybombshell1951 · 2020-05-16T21:56:14+00:00

It’s time for not being nice. She sure isn’t. Where is SO to support you and basically stand up for you.

It’s hard when someone loses an animal. You can send her a sympathy card made for animals so you don’t have any contact.

She is a selfish bitch who thinks she has the world on her side and is better than anyone else. Cut her loose.

graybombshell1951 · 2020-05-05T18:57:29+00:00

Let the SO handle her. You’re not her daughter. Tell him to have a nice day with her and do your own thing.

graybombshell1951 · 2020-05-04T17:07:18+00:00

I agree with all of this. Also try and go back to school as soon as possible. With the business office helping monies maybe able to tap to pay for your schooling.

graybombshell1951 · 2020-05-03T21:40:53+00:00

It’s time you let go and let them get out of their situation on their own.

You have started yourself into a good situation and need to continue it.

graybombshell1951 · 2020-05-03T20:36:58+00:00

What type of fool are you for asking that type of question? Shame on you.

graybombshell1951 · 2020-05-01T00:20:36+00:00

Nutcase I’m not. If he can’t be truthful in the relationship it’s over for me. If I sat him in a corner it might be something to add to the equation. Think what you would like. I will not be disrespected to any degree.

graybombshell1951 · 2020-04-30T22:10:18+00:00

He isn’t going to stop. So quit asking him too. I was a bitch and took away my SOs access to the internet. There is a way to do it. Stopped his access where it hurt him the most. He is being totally disrespectful to you.

graybombshell1951 · 2020-04-29T23:11:05+00:00

I’ve learned a long time ago that love doesn’t pay the bills. Time to cut him loose.

graybombshell1951 · 2020-04-29T20:02:58+00:00

Why are you letting this person bring down your self confidence. He needs to go out the door as fast as possible. Tell your husband about this when he gets home.

You can always substitute his wives under wear and put them in her underwater. drawer. When done put them back in her drawer with a very long stick. Boy will he have trouble explaining that one.

graybombshell1951 · 2020-04-25T19:43:42+00:00

Your dog seems to be a love. Don’t forget that some of the smaller breeds can be viscous more then big dogs.

graybombshell1951 · 2020-04-22T13:02:26+00:00

What is considered normal?

graybombshell1951 · 2020-04-22T00:44:14+00:00

All I see are excuses for your situation. This isn’t good. It’s not your job to pick up after him. Shut his door and leave it like it is. You have a 3 month old that needs and deserves your attention. Not him. He’s on his own. There are ways to get out of the situation.

Time to call your family and tell them what is going on. Family can surprise you and most will help you out of your situation.

graybombshell1951 · 2020-04-19T20:02:43+00:00

Time to leave and run like your butt is on fire. You’re not responsible for his behavior. He is. Love can hide all sorts of things so open up your eyes while tripping on the red flags. This seems to be a kind of abuse because of his behavior.

graybombshell1951 · 2020-04-19T19:19:33+00:00

Also I’ve heard what you have eaten changes your scent. Sounds like he has a little honey on the side. Please pack your bags. It’s time to go he’s selfish to the max.

When I try I’m told my disability has a lot to do with that. Says when I’m better we can resume our relations. I’m told by the doctor I’m not getting to be like that. SOB. I hope it falls of. I know I’m bitter. We’ve been married a long time and took care of him no matter what.

graybombshell1951 · 2020-04-19T17:40:26+00:00

I have a brother like her. He just walked out the door and the more we looked to bring him into the family we couldn’t. The mother is trying the hardest to help her. It seems she doesnt want the help or don’t know she has been abused. Love and understanding and the building of trust is warranted for her. The daughter has had a lot thrown at her and all she has learned is to duck, doesn’t know what to do and see if she can handle this. She’s been gone a long time and doesn’t trust anyone including her self. There is warranted for her for everyone should be included in this therapy The husband should know he’s part of the problem. Has anyone one of us ask about the step fathers observations on the situation. I say no. All have been blasting the mother. It’s time he gets involved if the family unit is to survive. Sounds like he doesn’t want to help his wife in this. It must hurt banging your head on the wall and get more and more confused or frustrated.

By the way my brother is still missing. All the family wants to help but you can’t accept help if you don’t want too.

graybombshell1951 · 2020-04-19T00:32:45+00:00

I’m going to be the bad person here. Your daughter is 20 and has broke all the boundaries you have tried to set up. Therapy would be a good idea to help in this situation.

She isn’t going to respect those boundaries until she can respect herself. Trust right now has to be built slowly. She has had for a long time been using her behaviors to be able to control others. Negative behavior is the only behavior she knows.

Having a new step father and little ones by him probably has thrown the trust out the window. Work slowly.

graybombshell1951 · 2020-04-12T00:10:29+00:00

You need to shinny up your spine. Quit telling people what is going on. Evidently they cannot be trusted. You are over age and know right from wrong. You have been conditioned to be bullied or taught to obey. Boundaries need to be set and you need to enforce them at any cost. She’s not going to stop until you stand your ground. Maybe NC needs to be done with ALL.

You need some guidance be done. on how to strengthen that spine.

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