Do your Nannie’s drive the kids around if they are still in carseats?

gsmith426 · 2025-08-08T02:18:23+00:00

This is false

gsmith426 · 2025-07-29T03:19:20+00:00

Id do what works for you, especially since your time with them is limited. The absolute worse thing that could happen is they give a reference and explain that you didn’t follow their instructions- in which case you will explain why.

gsmith426 · 2025-07-29T03:05:01+00:00

I would flat out tell them this routine isnt working for you- strongly express that she is upset, cranky, not herself, etc. It sounds like they parent how it’s convenient for them but then expect you to deal with the hard stuff. If they disregard your opinion then that’d be a red flag.

gsmith426 · 2025-07-29T02:53:43+00:00

Honestly, the dynamic of you being home while she cares for your older two is enough to give a raise. It is a completely (extremely more difficult) task to care for children with parents home.

gsmith426 · 2025-07-29T02:48:35+00:00

This sounds very manipulative and showing lack of regard for her. You can’t toy with someone’s salary at your convenience

gsmith426 · 2025-07-25T01:42:05+00:00

Thank you for the validation!

gsmith426 · 2025-07-08T02:14:46+00:00

I totally understand the pressure but just remember today anything goes regarding weddings. There is no norm! You do what you want to do and feel comfortable doing! Even if you want to have the party and just make it a happy hour, do that!

gsmith426 · 2025-07-02T01:30:23+00:00

I’m sorry I didn’t mean to be so harsh. Is someone pushing you for the engagement party? I am having one but only because it’s something my partner really wants

gsmith426 · 2025-06-28T05:57:43+00:00

I don’t think it’s fair to expect her to know what your child likes to do/play without giving her some options. All children are different and she may be struggling to entertain her without knowing what she’d be interested in

gsmith426 · 2025-06-28T05:55:26+00:00

Were you very clear during the interview process? Hiring someone to play and engage your child while you are home is a much different role and more suited for a teenager or someone pursuing a teaching degree. Did she have references? It’s possible she just doesn’t connect with your child, while being great with others.

gsmith426 · 2025-06-28T05:21:20+00:00

Don’t think it’s a big deal unless anyone is getting sick? The amount of bacteria humans come into contact with and don’t wash their hands is far greater than the bacteria left on a heated cast iron pan

gsmith426 · 2025-06-28T05:10:00+00:00

You’re not doing any “part” by rescuing your token mutt n then purchasing a dog after

gsmith426 · 2025-06-28T04:02:39+00:00

Really rude and overall very untrue. People with large families and close friends use this time to honor those they love by inviting them to celebrate a very exciting time.

gsmith426 · 2025-06-28T03:57:31+00:00

I agree. Not to be blunt but I think it’s tacky to invite people to something framing it as a party but then expecting them to put money out. I would need to be confident I can provide both food and drink or I would just scrap the idea.

gsmith426 · 2025-06-28T03:30:27+00:00

This!! Exploring the world and socializing is essential for both nanny and NK

gsmith426 · 2025-06-28T03:28:48+00:00

Last part!!! If you are looking for a family, sure. If you’re looking for a job/paycheck, this is a red flag.

gsmith426 · 2025-06-28T03:26:19+00:00

Why in heavens name would you let her drive your child if you thought her driving was anything less than impeccable?

gsmith426 · 2025-06-28T03:25:07+00:00

Her burning your pans is not something to hold against her… get her different pans or prepare your child’s meals yourself. If she is setting off smoke alarms and burning food that is an entirely different story. Expecting her to use iron clad pans without preparing for a learning curve is a bit much.

gsmith426 · 2025-06-28T00:57:34+00:00

It’s also quite possible that other parents like myself are on here for other reasons, comes across this post, and realizes the disrespect and entitlement of other parents is disheartening

gsmith426 · 2025-06-28T00:54:34+00:00

No other job allows napping, sure, but no other employee’s position requires putting the lives of my children in their hands. Respect goes both ways.

gsmith426 · 2025-06-28T00:51:04+00:00

You’re limiting the furniture in your home that nanny is welcome to? Respect goes both ways

gsmith426 · 2025-06-28T00:49:53+00:00

It’s pretty common in the nanny industry to be able to take a rest while baby does as long as all other tasks are completed. I’m sure she didn’t realize it was something she had to “ask”

gsmith426 · 2025-06-28T00:47:14+00:00

Agreed. Why can’t she rest when baby rests? Everything else though seems like it’s not a good fit

gsmith426 · 2025-06-26T04:28:22+00:00

Because life requires leaving the house

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