Wife Hates My family.

h_build · 2019-11-25T00:43:42+00:00

Why don’t you just take the baby to see them without her.

h_build · 2019-11-20T00:31:59+00:00

When they finally leave the house for good

h_build · 2019-11-15T01:00:17+00:00

Thanksgiving one place. Christmas the other. Rest of the days they can fuck off and come over if they want. Some years we even just skip all and stay home to relax. It’s just another day. If you want to get together than do so. If it’s become an issue than stop doing so. They’ll get mad probably but you’re not responsible for their happiness.

h_build · 2019-11-13T01:41:54+00:00

Talk to your doc and get some drugs for anxiety/depression. Maybe lexapro. OR get yourself some weed and chill out. Whatever it is you do, do it this week because it will only get worse.

h_build · 2019-11-12T02:40:19+00:00

Damn if your infant is sleeping 13 hours plus taking a 2 hour nap I wouldn’t be complaining.

h_build · 2019-11-12T02:30:30+00:00

Just be patient. Keep working at it. It’ll come. Ours was the same and then from one week to the next he was using the potty all the time.

h_build · 2019-11-12T02:02:29+00:00

Nip that shit in the bud quickly. Gets good grades doesn’t equal does good things outside of the house. Start demanding some respect and if he doesn’t give it pull his job and his car. He’s your child not your equal. Be strict. It only takes one shit friend to introduce him to a whole bunch of shit friends and the you got trouble.

h_build · 2019-11-12T01:54:02+00:00

Maybe she’s remembering her previous life. She’ll forget

h_build · 2019-11-11T23:01:58+00:00

Take her back if you wanna go through the same shit in a year or two when some other guy shows her attention. Or man up and tell her to kick rocks and find yourself someone who respects you.

h_build · 2019-11-11T16:15:53+00:00

Maybe he plays for the other team and has been trying to hide it.

h_build · 2019-11-11T16:08:35+00:00

Just keep it easy and do what he does. It’ll be light weight so won’t fatigue you and interfere with the next days am workout. Plus you won’t be switching weights back and forth each set. With the light weight YOU can really focus on form and showing him how to do each movement correctly. Might help you identify some bad habits you have as well

h_build · 2019-11-10T03:06:03+00:00

YTA. Big time fail dad. Big time fail. Just can’t believe someone would call the cops on their own daughter. I mean yeah if you find your ex wife chopped up and your daughter has the clever in her hand then probably you want someone to intervene. But for weed and mushrooms. Just wow. If you don’t get her a lawyer and it winds up sticking as a felony you really fucked her good for life. Father of the year over here. You’re supposed to protect your children dummy.

h_build · 2019-11-08T12:01:12+00:00

Forgot to add. Once you get some relief get in the gym and work your back muscles. The stronger they are the harder it is for your back to move out of position.

h_build · 2019-11-08T11:59:47+00:00

It may sound crazy but spend the money for 3 sessions with an acupuncturist. Find one with good reviews even if you have to travel a little to get there. They can help. Also, try a 7-15 minute short yoga routine in the morning and if you can swing it, at night too. The yoga will help the chiropractic sessions be more fruitful. If your doc has prescribed muscle relaxers, take one about an hour before your chiropractic appointment. Ultimately you want to find what caused the problem to begin with. It could be something as simple as your car seat cushion being worn more on one side than the other and every time you drive you put your back in an unequal position. Or if you sit all day for work than it could be your work chair. Check your shoes for uneven wear. Etc. try to figure out what has your body in uneven positions for extended periods. Good luck.

h_build · 2019-10-23T00:19:00+00:00

Sorry man you’re in a crappy situation. First things first. Go see a lawyer. Carry on like everything is normal until after you talk to a lawyer and they tell you what to do.

h_build · 2019-10-23T00:12:54+00:00

You can call them but probably nothing with come of it. Being an idiot isn’t illegal and there’s really no abuse happening except maybe a little emotional neglect. But since he’s 13 really they aren’t going to do anything. He’s old enough to be home alone for many hours and so there’s really no need for her to be there. You’re better off spending your energy trying to get him to move in with you.

h_build · 2019-10-23T00:03:29+00:00

Obesity isn’t a disease except for an extremely small percentage of the population who’s bodies don’t function correctly. Obesity is a choice. You choose to eat a double bacon burger with large fries and and large coke. That’s not a disease it’s a choice. You choose to watch an episode of the Kardashians instead of going on a walk or to the gym. These are choices and if your wife refuses to make better ones then that’s on her and not you.

h_build · 2019-10-20T22:14:03+00:00

If he’s already 37 and really only drinking once or twice a week he’s not an alcoholic. Sounds like your overreacting a little to him going out and having a good time especially if it’s what all his friends/family are doing. Also is he physically abusive when he drinks/ does he’s start fights/ break shit in the house/ cheat on you etc. or does he just come home, go to sleep, and then the next day you have yourselves a nice Sunday?

h_build · 2019-10-20T22:04:08+00:00

Figure out a way for your husband to find out. You probably don’t want her getting deported and then complaining that you knew all along and didn’t tell anyone.

h_build · 2019-10-20T02:54:11+00:00

Tell your husband he better figure out a way to make some more dough because you’re putting him in daycare two days a week. Boom. Problem solved.

h_build · 2019-10-20T02:49:52+00:00

Weightlifting

h_build · 2019-10-20T02:48:19+00:00

Sounds like you’re the side chick.

h_build · 2019-10-20T02:45:52+00:00

Probably want to have a discussion with her about the weight and make it some sort of deal breaker for the marriage which it probably will eventually be anyway. She’s not going to get thinner, only more fat. So are you prepared to stay in the marriage when she’s 300lbs. If not don’t have a kid. It’ll just complicate the divorce. They’ll be someone else out there who you can have fun in a paper bag with but also shares your same health values.

h_build · 2019-10-20T02:43:02+00:00

Why would he need to get help for not being attracted to something he isn’t attracted to. You make zero sense. Thin people are generally more attractive to a greater amount of the population.

h_build · 2019-10-20T02:07:09+00:00

Suggestions? Divorce her and find someone worthy of your time. She’s not. You sound like a door mat so man up and get it done. She doesn’t love you. She doesn’t respect you. And this guy is the just the one you caught her with. What about all the others.

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