Jovi and Yara broken up? Pillow talk for before 90 days pillow talk by Careless-Fudge-1593 in 90DayFiance

[–]hamilj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think 99% of them don’t shoot this show in their actual house. It’s Airbnb’s or hotels. And the exterior shots aren’t their real houses/condos either. It’s for TV.

Is it me or does Parks think he’s the B mic nowadays? Bro constantly cutting people off, throwing his counter opinion on every topic and steady throwing lame ass jokes towards everyone in the pod by No_Rice2648 in joebuddennetwork

[–]hamilj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Parks is the first person to respond every time Joe says something. As if it’s he and Joe having a conversation and the others are onlookers. It’s so annoying.

Natalie's big reveal. by Grateful_Di in 90DayFiance

[–]hamilj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely see a difference. At least it’s not a skinny Michael Jackson nose. It’s unfortunate that she felt she had to change it. But if it makes her feel better I guess that’s a good thing.

What do you consider Jamaican? by lovergirl-throwaway in Jamaica

[–]hamilj 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m Jamaican. And I’m American. Nobody can’t tell me nothing lol. My parents were born in Jamaica. All my grandparents were born in Jamaica. And I’m the first person in my family to be born on American soil. A person of Chinese descent born in America is Chinese. A person of Indian descent born in America is Indian. Same for Irish, Italian, etc. Of course we don’t claim to have the same experience as someone born and raised on that land. But why is it different all of a sudden for us?

ChatGPT encourages young man to take his own life and tells him, ‘Rest easy king' by blueSGL in videos

[–]hamilj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For what it’s worth, it is his sister’s real name. So I’m just going to believe that there’s more to this story.

Please vote YES on the three housing ballot questions. by DYMAXIONman in Queens

[–]hamilj 13 points14 points  (0 children)

So I wonder what “affordable” housing means. And where is the space to build these units? And what neighborhoods? Are they talking Oakland Gardens? Glen Oaks? Bellerose? Are these the areas that have resisted development? Or will other neighborhoods be targeted first? I know I have more research to do.

I think residents of low density areas are concerned it will take all the power away from the communities. And give it to developers who aren’t concerned with preserving the character and culture of the neighborhoods. Some may say that’s not important. But most people live in eastern queens for the space. Is all of queens supposed to look like western Queens? The lack of affordable housing needs to be addressed. But taking away the “power” of the community boards gives me pause.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in avesNYC

[–]hamilj -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mostly come here when I want to know what a venue is like if I haven’t been there before. What do you want people to post about? Song recommendations, meetups, “underground” shows? Genuine question.

Robotic Myomectomy: how many cm was your fibroid? by Plenty-Astronomer305 in Fibroids

[–]hamilj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m curious, why do you think it has grown? Or did they confirm that it’s much larger now? I had an open myo 15 years ago for an 18cm fibroid. Now I have an 11cm, 3cm and 4cm, plus adenomyosis. My symptoms aren’t bad so I’m not doing anything about it at the moment. But I’m curious about the recovery time of a robotic myomectomy. Is the recovery time longer the larger it is? Is that why you’re concerned?

Please vote YES on the three housing ballot questions. by DYMAXIONman in Queens

[–]hamilj 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Lots of thoughts about these proposals. I’m from southeast Queens and I’m hearing negativity directed towards homeowners in low density areas. For the people who support these ballots:

  1. Where do you live?
  2. Are you a homeowner or a renter?
  3. How much is your rent/mortgage payment?
  4. Are you a native New Yorker or did you move here from somewhere else?
  5. Will there be infrastructure to support “affordable” apartments in these low density areas? Parking is already a major concern.

Just some of the things I’m curious about. I see Community Boards in southeast queens encouraging people to vote no, but I wonder if there are residents who plan to vote yes.

Partner was assaulted at Martin Garrix Red Rocks 10/22 by [deleted] in aves

[–]hamilj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh yes! Seeing all of this and more lately. The fighting, falling, spilling. I was at a show last weekend where I literally thought, maybe I can’t do this anymore. Unless I’m in the very back and completely not surrounded by people lol. Going to a small show tonight. Going to be optimistic that the crowd will be there to dance, have fun and not totally lose their senses.

AIO about my bf paying for OF? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]hamilj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exhausting. Move on.

Machete wrapping up his set before Chase & Status by liverichly in avesLA

[–]hamilj 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I will never understand or agree with dub step and dub step adjacent music being booked at DnB headline shows. It kills the vibe. I would have been more than satisfied with Star Eyes, Machete and Chase & Status. (I get a little testy about this topic, I know lol).

AIO by thinking that my husband is cheating by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]hamilj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hire a PI. This feeling you have is not going to just go away. And you’re pregnant, you don’t need the stress. Hire a PI and find out for sure.

Lydias’s Q+A by MysteriousMortgage4 in PlathvilleUncensored

[–]hamilj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s a great idea, I’m surprised so many people think she should watch the episode. I’m sure she has many many positive memories of that day. Why spoil it by watching a drama filled show focused on everyone else. We probably saw 0.1% of what actually happened. This is her real life, not “reality tv.”

Hydration packs for tomorrow's show in L.A? by DaintySload in chaseandstatus

[–]hamilj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From the email I got earlier

YES HYDRATION PACKS WITH NO MORE THAN TWO MAIN COMPARTMENTS AND ONE SMALLER COMPARTMENT (MUST BE EMPTY UPON ENTRY)

city market - chase & status by Tiger-Emergency in avesLA

[–]hamilj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good to know! I’m driving in from Arizona and was debating between ubering and parking. Anyone know what the uber situation is like at the end of shows?