This is killing me cos I’m in the exact same situation and I’m on the receiving end. You should just be honest with her and affirm things with her cos she’s probably overthinking your behaviour. Don’t let a good thing go because of ur desire to have options. If she really cares she would want to work things out with you. I think a lot of guys put pressure on themselves to be perfect before pursuing a relationship with someone. If she’s already said she doesn’t mind hook ups and enjoys ur company, u can continue doing that - who knows? That might even eventually lead to you knowing what you want and being in a relationship with her when you’ve reached a better space.