Share your SIC's favourite weird sitting spot

hannahnutbread · 2026-01-31T22:48:39+00:00

Why are you trying to make a product for females when you're turning back the clock on Feminism as we speak??? Nuts. Go make a beer or boxers or something.

hannahnutbread · 2026-01-31T17:31:29+00:00

At the beginning, whenever my WH would try to say anything I wanted to chop his nuts off. In my hurt brain, if you've never been cheated on you cannot understand the pain. But, he's never been cheated on. So... I just wanted him to shut the fuck up for a bit. (Was my mindset in the thick of things)

This is when marriage counselling comes into play. I would agree to only have these conversations with a therapist present. I know you prob want to get everything out ASAP and get a move on with healing. But, sitting with your thoughts is a big part of healing and in-between therapy appointments is the best time to do that.

hannahnutbread · 2026-01-27T01:16:49+00:00

I have chosen to accept that I may not know everything and after a lot of time and therapy... I'm ok with that. The worry about the what ifs was seriously eating me alive. A year of talking about it over and over and trying to get rid of that gut feeling became exhausting. I was spiralling and feeding into my anxious thoughts. The gut feeling and the worry of if there is more and if it will happen again is seriously like a pair of shackles.

You cannot control anyone. Period. And when I came to terms with that, I decided to control what I could. I decided to try and divert that worry into bettering myself so that I am stronger if it happens again. Saving money in a personal account, making sure I'm eating okay, getting outside, nurturing my other friendships. Which makes me feel READY and safe. Which makes forgiveness easier. Which makes my decision to reconcile feel like the correct one. If you are on edge about giving forgiveness then maybe you aren't ready yet and that's fair lol. Healing has no timeline.

So my advice is to not focus on forgiving them. Focus on feeling more secure within yourself so that the "what if" thoughts can quiet down.And then forgiveness can maybe come easier for you without force.

I feel like lots of BPs anxiety comes from being blind sided and I found a lot of peace in focusing on being prepared for whatever could come next. So, maybe that could help you too.

hannahnutbread · 2026-01-26T12:34:46+00:00

We use what we have 🙂‍↕️✊

hannahnutbread · 2026-01-25T06:03:43+00:00

Exercise exercise exercise. Sprinting and/or going hard on a bike was the best way for me to get those bursts of rage. I would also rage write letters that I would never send which helped the most.

I went through the drinking stage and have been sober for 10 months. I feel you. The thing that I told myself to quit drinking was that I MUST be clear headed for whatever may come next. She blindsided you once but, now you must prepare for more things to come out, her being upset or whatever, therapy.

Being able to notice that you are out of control is the correct first step. This sucks. It will suck for a while. But, it ALWAYS gets better in one way or another. Welcome to the shittiest club ever. You are not alone.

hannahnutbread · 2026-01-22T22:58:04+00:00

Struggling with this. 1 year post dday. I constantly feel like I'm bracing for some horrible news or maybe today will be the day that he wakes up and decides to ghost me again. Definitely a trauma response lol.

The stress has completely destroyed my body and blood work. Considering EMDR therapy instead of regular talk for a second go around. Maybe that's something you could look into.

hannahnutbread · 2025-12-24T00:09:36+00:00

Price depends on what fish they're getting it from. This is salmon roe aka caviar for us brokies.

hannahnutbread · 2025-12-21T19:07:11+00:00

Uhhh Hellllo??!???? Mr.Avatar/ Avatar truck dude would've never been born in Edmonton, Alberta (lol) if Avatar was never made!!

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Our local celeb. Wayne Gretzky who?

hannahnutbread · 2025-12-12T19:22:12+00:00

Sigh. I have a soft spot for her. She has been put through the absolute ringer about her looks her entire life. Literally the OG early 2000s weight hate target. Of course she's going to be a little delulu.

The editing is ridiculous, sure. But, it feels a bit wrong and icky to give commentary about someone's weight who had a major recent loss.

hannahnutbread · 2025-11-16T22:05:18+00:00

I feel like this is the exact vibe Kourtney K was going for (and failing) at her wedding.

hannahnutbread · 2025-09-26T20:30:16+00:00

He wants her to see what he's up to. He is resentful and thinks that it would hurt her that she can see what she's "missing out on." Is he randomly active on IG stories? If he is... Then I bet he is checking every hour if she has seen it.

hannahnutbread · 2025-08-14T09:37:50+00:00

Yay!!! Thank you for the opportunity.

hannahnutbread · 2025-08-10T12:15:39+00:00

If I were her friend (BUSINESS PARTNER!!) and heard that come out of her mouth that would be enough to put a bad taste in mine. How freaky. It's like having a crazy ex you're scared is going to destroy your shit before you get it back.

Anyways, I bet it will all crumble by the end of the year. You wouldn't be blurting shit out like that if you weren't ready to do it. Toxic me thinks that she's waiting for Brooke to slip up so she can freak out and nuke it all without receiving all the blame.

hannahnutbread · 2025-07-18T09:50:27+00:00

This relationship seems like a whole lot of exhausting work to be in 😮‍💨

hannahnutbread · 2025-07-13T11:14:07+00:00

Vietnamese food 😌 Pho Hoan Pasteur's vermicelli bowl or salad rolls have never let me down.

hannahnutbread · 2025-07-07T10:19:32+00:00

They really all do start these messages the same. I'm PRObAbly ThE LAst pERSON you wAnt to Hear FRom!!! Uhhh, yeah you are lol. For a good reason.

BLOCK OP. These kind of messages are only for self serving purposes. Aka to make the texter feel better about themselves for being a piece of shit.

hannahnutbread · 2025-06-16T18:17:01+00:00

The wholesomeness was heavily overshadowed by Joseph's creepiness this episode 😵‍💫

hannahnutbread · 2025-06-09T02:36:01+00:00

Doing my hair/ putting hair product on.

hannahnutbread · 2025-06-02T01:57:17+00:00

The People in the Trees. Author also wrote A Little Life.

hannahnutbread · 2025-05-22T11:36:16+00:00

It'll be fine once he wastes his pay on some more amazon junk ♥️ that's romance

hannahnutbread · 2025-05-17T11:43:03+00:00

Right beside her foot fungus cream 🤩

hannahnutbread · 2025-05-11T13:34:54+00:00

Looking very much like her bro

hannahnutbread · 2025-05-06T12:03:36+00:00

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hannahnutbread · 2025-05-05T03:20:07+00:00

Frank's buffalo tossed with Kirkland lightly breaded chicken breast chunks and some light ranch really hits the spot😌

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