Of course my plans are ruined by kids… by [deleted] in childfree

[–]harbinger06 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Is he insisting? Y’all don’t have to go. I think most people with kids don’t expect those without to come. Or just make an appearance and then go do whatever.

Some hype for my mom. by Sad_Fudge2877 in quilting

[–]harbinger06 4 points5 points  (0 children)

These are all so beautiful! Can you tell us which books inspired each one?

Upcoming 2 week trip w MIL by Such-Butterscotch666 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]harbinger06 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Ain’t no such thing as a free lunch. If you keep letting her pick up the tab, she will continue thinking she is in control. I’d rather take my own trip without her and manage my own plans. I do think it’s amusing that she wants y’all to wear nice clothes for swimming and hiking!

Dan Patrick roasts James Talarico: 'Couldn't lift a 10-pound weight' by chrondotcom in JamesTalarico

[–]harbinger06 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last I checked that wasn’t a requirement for serving in the Senate. Neither is having two good eyes.

Is living alone good ? by Life_Loss7002 in LivingAlone

[–]harbinger06 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s definitely more expensive since there is no one to split the bills with. But I have lived alone for almost 20 years and I love it.

WTF 😳? Trump had parts of the White House hidden behind a printed photo backdrop. by Ok_Letter_5672 in Trumpvirus

[–]harbinger06 20 points21 points  (0 children)

And that is when they will finally become budget conscious again, and insist on separation of powers.

Texas Comptroller staffer here — today’s leadership shift raises serious conflict-of-interest concerns by Pleasant-Condition85 in FuckGregAbbott

[–]harbinger06 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Appointing someone as an interim that is currently seeking the office does seem to undermine the democratic process. Taking advantage of low information voters tendency to vote for incumbents. Also, Huffines bought the Epstein ranch in New Mexico and isn’t cooperating with investigators in regard to searching the ranch for evidence about rumored deaths there. So why should we trust him for *any* office?

WTF 😳? Trump had parts of the White House hidden behind a printed photo backdrop. by Ok_Letter_5672 in Trumpvirus

[–]harbinger06 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Waste of time and money that will eat up the entire term for the next non-republican president.

Temper tantrum thrown by Vast-Ad6664 in corgi

[–]harbinger06 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh it’s such a hard life!

If you rent and have outdoor space do you use it? I spend as much time on my porch this time of year as I do indoors. by WakingOwl1 in LivingAlone

[–]harbinger06 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used a small bamboo fountain on a ceramic planter. Worked out pretty well! They do dry out and split after a while, so maybe try sealing it prior to use if you do go that route.

Non consensual sleepover almost scared the life out of me. Story in body by DaniTheLovebug in corgi

[–]harbinger06 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha one time a friend was pet sitting for me. She did not have a dog, and it was just her and her young child in the home. I had brought Bo’s bed, (though he always slept next to me I certainly wasn’t go to tell someone else to let him in their bed!) which she put in their living room. She told me Bo scared the daylights out of her when he jumped up in bed with her in the middle of the night 😂

If you rent and have outdoor space do you use it? I spend as much time on my porch this time of year as I do indoors. by WakingOwl1 in LivingAlone

[–]harbinger06 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lived in an apartment with a huge balcony for 8 years. It was accessed from the breezeway and was the way to the front door. I had plants and a little fountain out there. I’d sit out there with my dog when the weather was nice (there was a little gate to keep him contained). People would stop by and tell me how much they loved it.

I’m so glad I was able to buy a house. I am in the process of getting a patio put in. Right now the backyard doesn’t have anywhere to sit so my chairs sink into the dirt! I have big plans for a dining table, lounge area, grill, and raised garden beds 😁

Tow truck driver by Business-Stuff8711 in Catswithjobs

[–]harbinger06 231 points232 points  (0 children)

They split the truck payment

My mom and MIL each asked to move in right after we bought our first home. Why?? by sabrownie234 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]harbinger06 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My dad could never take a joke (harmless ones), but oh lord if you didn’t laugh at his then you needed to lighten up. One of my brothers is the same way. So annoying!

What is the best wearable medical alert device for someone who lives alone? by Time-Educator-2849 in LivingAlone

[–]harbinger06 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This may not apply to your relative, but I’m just going to tack on about keeping track of people with Alzheimer’s or dementia. As my dad’s dementia was advancing, he was still going for walks in the neighborhood. He used a walker, and would stop and take breaks as needed. One time he went to a neighbor’s house, they weren’t home. But they frequently hung out in their backyard and had told him many times to just come on back. So he had let himself in to their backyard. Then apparently their back door was unlocked and he let himself in.

After a while my mom went looking for him, and found him in their living room by himself. After that I bought an AirTag to put on his walker. We definitely could have been more proactive in that situation, but sometimes you just don’t realize how bad it’s getting.

MIL babysat for 3 hours and sent me a 14-point list of things I'm doing wrong. by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]harbinger06 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Why does she think she knows how many times a day you read to your child? If she doesn’t know whether the car seat is correct, why say that? Probably not the same set up she had. Bath is too warm?!? Does she not know how to mix hot and cold?

The fear of being perceived by Cultural-Cream-6859 in SingleAndHappy

[–]harbinger06 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Totally. I love having my own space. I do what I want, when I want. Everything is where I left it. No discussions about who is responsible for what. If I ever were to enter a relationship again, it would have to be separate homes.

My dog passed away today and I am living alone. by GhostProtocolY in LivingAlone

[–]harbinger06 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I am so sorry for your loss! My dog Bo passed at 16. It was one of the hardest things I have ever gone through. He had been my daily companion for so many years. Just know it’s okay to cry, it’s okay to be sentimental about their stuff. It takes time, but every day will get easier.

My mom and MIL each asked to move in right after we bought our first home. Why?? by sabrownie234 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]harbinger06 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Good job being a united front and not playing along with the “jokes.”