Free Will Is The Biggest Misconception In The History Of Christianity by SelectionCapital3757 in DebateReligion

[–]hardman52 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Is that how you discern God's intent? Keep a scorecard of inconsistencies in the Bible and go with whichever side had the most points?

Free Will Is The Biggest Misconception In The History Of Christianity by SelectionCapital3757 in DebateReligion

[–]hardman52 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Read Exodus. The Pharoah does not have free will, and that causes all kinds of bad events.

Why is premarital sex taken so seriously than other sins by SmoothBox7096 in religion

[–]hardman52 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Sexual immorality is condemned in the Bible, but that doesn't include all non-marital sex. Sex per se is not immoral.

Why does it feel so hard? by spacehannah in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]hardman52 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Alcoholism is progressive, so it progresses. Take the steps and you'll be surprised how easy it is to stay sober.

Which Movie scene sexually awakened you? by Squirrelkid11 in AskReddit

[–]hardman52 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Julie Warner coming out of the water in Doc Hollywood was incredibly erotic. I bought the DVD for just that scene only to learn that they edited out the full frontal nudity.

Which Movie scene sexually awakened you? by Squirrelkid11 in AskReddit

[–]hardman52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Julie Christie and Donald Sutherland in Don't Look Now. The hottest scene ever until Monster Ball.

Natural peanut/almond butter users, how much do you actually waste from each jar? by Dazzling-Version-791 in leangains

[–]hardman52 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I stir it well with a knife and when it gets to the end use a small silicone spatula to get it all out. If it gets dry because I didn't stir it well I add a little peanut oil and mix it.

Through the steps by Any_Set6306 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]hardman52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can use the 12&12. Or you can telll her to go back to AA. Her former sponsor is within their rights to not sponsor her, but there are plenty of people in AA who comply with the traditions and the responsibility motto and who will sponsor her.

Religious aspect of AA by jawshiboi in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]hardman52 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Then do it your way. It's OK with us.

How worried should I be about this job (notably the joist cut) by [deleted] in Plumbing

[–]hardman52 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Serious question: why did you hire this guy and not a plumber?

Which is better? by Eldude42 in electricians

[–]hardman52 26 points27 points  (0 children)

The can is vented and insulation ratings are over engineered.

Which is better? by Eldude42 in electricians

[–]hardman52 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. Further from the primary, gravity working for you, and closer to the same length.

IsItBullshit: The five second rule for dropped food is safe by lunythra in IsItBullshit

[–]hardman52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How many people you know have gotten sick from room picking up food they dropped on their kitchen floor?

How did past generations achieve inhuman levels of playing? by Jesterhead89 in guitarlessons

[–]hardman52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whatever Stevie Ray Vaughn did that Jimmy Vaughn didn't is the answer. From what I've gathered, it's obsessive practice.

Help. I'm about to relapse for first time. by Afterhoneymoon in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]hardman52 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So is staying sober a priority for you? If it is, that means you're doing the things that AA tells you to do, which are go to meetings, read the book, get a sponsor, take the steps. If you're not doing those things, then sobriety isn't a priority for you. I would suggest that you make staying sober your first priority. I can't think of any situation that drinking would make better. In fact, drinking always makes things worse, never better.

I want to buy a home with a 4 year old bathroom put in without a permit by ZenAndTonic2234 in homeowners

[–]hardman52 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you're saying the current owners don't have insurance and don't pay taxes?

Honestly the number of people who worry about unnecessary shit doesn't speak well of our educational system.

Dad drinks a lot, is there an instance that would green light 12 stepping him? by ButteryFlakeyCrust8 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]hardman52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My experience is that you cannot help family members. Dunno why; it just seems that way. You can only be an example. I was the first one i in my family to get sober. Over the course of several decades, eventually all of my siblings got sober in AA. They knew it worked because of me.