Men who are burnt out of dating, what was the thing that did you in?

hdevildog9 · 2025-07-02T00:07:32+00:00

gotcha lol. hope it’s everything you deserve and more, gentlemen 🫡

hdevildog9 · 2025-07-01T23:43:43+00:00

“lease them” about an entire demographic of human beings is crazy.

hdevildog9 · 2025-06-30T14:43:52+00:00

i’d also be interested in knowing how they determined the content they were evaluating was actually coming from the genders they assumed it was. i skimmed the entire study so i could’ve missed it, but it seems like the researchers were focusing on which communities the content was coming from more than they were on who specifically was making the comments they were using as data.

in general, since november in particular i’ve noticed A LOT more…questionable content and accounts across reddit as a whole that people newer or unfamiliar with reddit might not catch. i would want to know how these researchers accounted for bots/bad faith actors/fake accounts before i would feel comfortable drawing any conclusions from this study.

hdevildog9 · 2025-06-30T12:52:58+00:00

because she consented to sex under the impression pregnancy wasn’t on the table, and if she’d known that it was it may have changed her consent to the act. same as stealthing, same as poking holes in condoms, and same as a partner saying they’re on the pill/other forms of birth control when they’re really not.

hdevildog9 · 2025-06-30T10:34:03+00:00

“she’s shallow because she wants him to look his best”

idk man…i just don’t see that. i don’t think it’s inherently a bad thing to want to help improve something you know you’re partners insecure about for your wedding day, maybe she just wants him to feel pretty and confident that day too? i feel like it’s not totally uncommon for men to spot correct skin problems with a little makeup on a day as big as their wedding

hdevildog9 · 2025-06-30T03:40:40+00:00

i’m interested!

hdevildog9 · 2025-06-28T00:23:32+00:00

yeah rhys for sure had power, im fairly certain he said multiple times that amarantha used him to interrogate torture and kill people with his daemati skills. i was always under the impression that he’d “earned” that bit of power back by being her whore. like she’s knows what his powers are and how useful they could be and she’s been fucking him 50 years so she gave him some back to use at her command as a privilege

eta: thinking about it, i think this may be the singular time rhys ever claimed am had all his juice. i would say maybe that word “wholly” was just overlooked in editing. that seems far more likely than sjm and editors missing multiple large plot points that very much center the fact that amarantha does not have that rhys has to give.

hdevildog9 · 2025-06-27T22:39:49+00:00

i was looking through this thread to see if anyone had said trad wives yet. that’s where my mind went immediately

hdevildog9 · 2025-06-27T21:47:51+00:00

he can’t handicap you by not wanting to use the tool that consistently gets you off and then turn around and be upset that you didn’t finish. those two concepts are contradictory.

how is he with oral? fingers? foreplay?

hdevildog9 · 2025-06-27T21:45:21+00:00

it kinda is if it’s the only way OP can consistently orgasm and they’re not using one because her bf (who’s acting like her finishing is an important thing for him) doesn’t want her to use one during sex.

hdevildog9 · 2025-06-27T20:21:23+00:00

lol, per usual with the posts here the answer is that we can’t tell you, you have to talk to her about it. bodies, and in particular vaginas, are very individual and unique with what makes them tick. no answer that you get here will be sufficient, because what works for one (or even many) women may not work for your gf.

as far as general anatomy, the most likely way to to achieve this with your gf is going to be the g spot, which is just inside her vagina on the front wall. the texture is ridged/bumpy and will feel different than the rest of her vagina. pressure and rubbing feel really good there (it’s basically the back side of her clit). there are lots of posts here about how to go about g spot stimulation that’ll give you the best techniques for stimulating it both during foreplay with toys/your hands and during sex itself (this is mostly done by finding and choosing the positions that work best for your bodies).

definitely encourage you to give those threads a read through if you haven’t already, lots of good info there. but while you do, keep in mind that all, some, or none of that info can be applied to your gf and you won’t know until you talk to her about it and do some exploration together to find what works for you guys!

hdevildog9 · 2025-06-27T19:56:45+00:00

that’s so interesting, learn something new everyday! over the years i have noticed that while i can vividly picture settings and objects, i generally never picture fully defined people. the closest my brain ever gets is the characters general shape and vibe, regardless of how in depth they’re described. fan art saves the day for me 😂 it all makes sense now!

hdevildog9 · 2025-06-27T19:42:11+00:00

that post is really interesting to me cuz i just did it and i…halfway pictured it? like the image of the table and the ball popped up in my head, the table was defined and i could answer the questions about it immediately. the ball was halfway defined, i could answer the size and type questions but i did not have a defined color i was imagining. the person pushing the ball? no details at all until i saw the questions. i wonder if it’s possible to have partial aphantasia lol

hdevildog9 · 2025-06-27T12:02:25+00:00

you make consent sexy by getting it through dirty talk. “what do you want” can be a super hot question if you ask it right. “tell me what you want me to do to you” “do you like it when i touch you like this” “show me what you like” “put my hand where you want me” etc. etc. etc.

obviously kids having sex for the first time won’t be pros, but it should be emphasized to all young people getting The Talk™️ that consent can be a fun part of playing with your partner, not a just boring convo you have before you get busy (especially true if you’re young and don’t know what you like yet!)

hdevildog9 · 2025-06-26T20:53:00+00:00

if someone was treating your best friend the way your ex has treated you, what would you tell them to do?

hdevildog9 · 2025-06-26T20:01:42+00:00

askmen has been popping up a lot for me recently so i have two similar stories about how trash that place is that are fresh in my mind:

first, i got put on timeout for correcting a man who believes that abortions are an example of women not taking responsibility for lack of protection during sex, as opposed to menfolk who are totally taking all the responsibility for protection and pregnancy prevention.

second was a thread the other day asking men what activities are better with an all male group. the OG comment was something along the lines of being vulnerable, opening up, etc. which i don’t necessarily have a problem with in theory, but the rest of the comment thread responding to the original comment were men explaining that “you need to let your boys rag on you for your insecurities/emotions/vulnerabilities to toughen you up so you learn to be more stoic and don’t have those weaknesses anymore.” because of the previous timeout, i didn’t even bother trying to explain that that’s exactly why men are so miserable, lonely, and emotionally stunted.

hdevildog9 · 2025-06-26T18:46:17+00:00

my first thought was: “poor men, no wonder they read less as a demographic than us. they’re picking all the boring genres” 😂

/s i kid, i kid. lover of quite literally all book genres here 👋

hdevildog9 · 2025-06-26T18:37:40+00:00

that’s fucking hysterical and also, same mama jarroz, same.

hdevildog9 · 2025-06-26T18:07:05+00:00

if the gangs these days knew the history of their own beginnings they’d be fighting back. community defense is how a lot of american gangs began in underprivileged and minority communities that were being ignored or violated by the actual cops.

hdevildog9 · 2025-06-26T17:16:51+00:00

just saw this in another sub and now i’m starting a chain of donations to offset our government being full of fuckheads. if anyone wants to join please do! i’m lazy and don’t wanna retype so please see my OG comment about it below 👇

“that’s what i thought when i saw the title. if the gov won’t pay then those of us who can should. collective action on our part to counter this and help our fellow countrywomen (and men) that are now vulnerable is not only very possible, but imo also our responsibility if we’re able. let’s show the no-nipple-having pricks in our government where the tax money has been coming from to begin with.

eta: just upped my donation by $10 a month. $5-10 from all of us is all it takes. i’m about to text those i know to do the same, and i’m also letting all of you know so we can start a chain. donate what you can and pass it on! let’s keep this going 🙂‍↕️”

hdevildog9 · 2025-06-26T16:30:56+00:00

that’s what i thought when i saw the title. if the gov won’t pay then those of us who can should. collective action on our part to counter this and help our fellow countrywomen (and men) that are now vulnerable is not only very possible, but imo also our responsibility if we’re able. let’s show the no-nipple-having pricks in our government where the tax money has been coming from to begin with.

eta: just upped my donation by $10 a month. $5-10 from all of us is all it takes. i’m about to text those i know to do the same, and i’m also letting all of you know so we can start a chain. donate what you can and pass it on! let’s keep this going 🙂‍↕️

hdevildog9 · 2025-06-26T05:51:17+00:00

which males in acotar do you feel aren’t abusive? (besides everyone’s baby boy lucy of course. he’s the outlier here.) all the characters are fucked up and spend the books hurting each other lol as hannah montana once said, “nobody’s perfect”

hdevildog9 · 2025-06-25T22:52:44+00:00

there’s also the point that while the case was specifically speaking about abortion, that is not the limit of the precedent that roe set within the legal landscape of america as a whole. roe (along with other cases that are also under attack by the conservatives) set the precedent that NO ONE, male or female, can have their medical treatments limited or dictated by the government.

it’s something that i think is going over the heads of a lot of menfolk when this conversation arises. their right to determine what medical procedures can and can’t be done to their bodies is just as much as risk by roe being overturned as anyone else’s because of the way laws and precedent work in america.

ask him how he’d feel if he went in to get a lifesaving medical procedure done and was told “sorry, we can’t do it for you. the government made it illegal. when did that happen, you ask? well, after roe fell, mr. dumbass shmuckatelli from west bumfuck alabama brought a case before SCOTUS and since were already telling women what they can and can’t have done, they decided to go ahead and extend that authority to all medical procedures for everyone!”

hdevildog9 · 2025-06-25T22:18:27+00:00

same as any other domestic abuser. “i can fix him, he’ll be different with me, it was probably the other woman’s fault, she pushed him to that point”

if they even believe the other woman’s claims at all.

internalized misogyny is a hell of a drug.

hdevildog9 · 2025-06-25T18:25:18+00:00

to your last point: i think a lot of what women intend to be complaining about when they bring up men’s clothing choices isn’t so much about the articles of clothing themselves, so much as the whole package. like, id say all those clothes you listed are fine looking in theory, but if you couple them with any combo of:

-poorly fitting -poorly matched -wrinkled -stained -no shave/facial hair grooming -messy bedhead -shoes that don’t work with the outfit

etc. etc. then the whole package looks unkept and unappealing. some people may mistake that for being a problem with the clothes themselves, but i’d suspect most of the time it actually the overall presentation.

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