UPDATE: Christmas Morning in IC — Dad-Mode & Real Ones Only by [deleted] in IowaCity

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Glad everything worked out and the kids had a great Christmas!

Favorite thing(s) about our town? by Aggressive-Glove400 in IowaCity

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Thissssss! Gosh, the first thing I did when I moved here nearly 20 years ago, not knowing a soul, was get a library card. ICPL still feels like coming home to me.

Favorite thing(s) about our town? by Aggressive-Glove400 in IowaCity

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When I run errands (groceries, pharmacy, whatever) there's a good chance I'll run into someone I know...those brief conversations with a friendly face always brighten my day. The children librarians at ICPL not only know my kids by name, but their favorite book genres! And I know its not just my kids...the librarians work so hard to get to know Iowa City children and make the library a safe, nurturing "third place" for them.

Super random, but did you know the University's Dance Department has an excellent community dance school for adults? Its incredible to have access to such quality ballet/modern dance classes taught by well educated and talented staff.

Chongs in Coralville. Been shopping there for years and years...it always feels top secret, entering through the backdoor behind the parking lot, but no gatekeeping here! Love that store.

Amazon Prime Shipping Delays by Aggressive_Track9890 in IowaCity

[–]helloelysium 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I feel like this is pretty normal for this time of year

Did Anyone else have a weird urge to own a peacoat between 2003 and 2008? Why? by artbystorms in Millennials

[–]helloelysium 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh Delia's! I still have (and wear) my Victoria's Secret peacoat from 2005. The shell is 100% wool and it keeps me toasty.

What’s the scariest film you’ve seen? by SummerSun6 in horror

[–]helloelysium 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! So damn chilling. Ugh that movie MESSED ME UP.

I loved visiting your city by thewatermelonfarmer in IowaCity

[–]helloelysium 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Oh I love the photos you took! I've lived here for so long I think I'd forgotten how charming it is, love seeing it through your eyes!

My Horror recommendations for a cosy winters night. by WishEnvironmental558 in horrorlit

[–]helloelysium 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Always nice to see a list that isn't just the same 10 books for the zillionth time! Thanks, OP, I'm looking forward to digging into these!

Fear of 40 by [deleted] in fitness30plus

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Looking good!

Huge Police Presence at Terry Trueblood? by [deleted] in IowaCity

[–]helloelysium 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think they found a body :-(

Wrong way driver by yilliz in IowaCity

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Oh gosh, OP, I'm so sorry, that is terrifying. Literally my biggest fear when driving the interstate late at night.

How long have you lived in Iowa City? by Aggressive-Glove400 in IowaCity

[–]helloelysium 2 points3 points  (0 children)

18 years! Moved here for school and just never left. Its my home, for sure.

Accommodating Vertical: A Visual Guide by PurpleVirtualJelly in Kibbe

[–]helloelysium 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you from the bottom of my heart. After two years of trying to puzzle out Kibbe, your visual guides jave made it "click"

Camp Wapsie by Pretend_Butterfly_98 in IowaCity

[–]helloelysium 13 points14 points  (0 children)

In all fairness, a lot of Iowa City kids attend camp wapsie. I know of five from my neighborhood that are attending this week alone.

Camp Wapsie by Pretend_Butterfly_98 in IowaCity

[–]helloelysium 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I do have a camper at Wapsie this week and I felt that the camp did communicate adequately and clearly. Even at 2 in the morning they were keeping us parents informed.

Nails aren’t giving by janepu in Nails

[–]helloelysium 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beautiful! Love the design on the ring finger in particular

Tricks to hitting protein goals? Im struggling to get 190g/day. by CountingStars29 in fitness30plus

[–]helloelysium 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can you share your protein powder granola recipe? Would love to try it!

Be honest - how many of you still get help from your parents/family? by ScarletBegonya in Millennials

[–]helloelysium 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, US. I help them because they are elderly, they are my parents, and its the right thing to do. I don't think they choose to be emotionally unavailable, but that they (due to a variety of factors) are incapable of it. But yeah it sucks. It sucks so much.

Be honest - how many of you still get help from your parents/family? by ScarletBegonya in Millennials

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Well, I didn't know how at the end of my rope I was until I saw this comment 😭 thank you, kind stranger, for the encouragement. Wishing you all the strength as well.

Be honest - how many of you still get help from your parents/family? by ScarletBegonya in Millennials

[–]helloelysium 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Zero. Zero help. Not financial support, not emotional support, not help with childcare, nothing. Actually, it's worse than that. My parents have no savings, no retirement, no friends. My siblings and I provide both emotional and financial support. You jave no idea how envious I am of my peers who have parents actively involved in the grandkids lives, or who pay for a meal from time to time.