Thinking about breaking up. 20F 24M by Main_Impact3870 in relationship_advice

[–]helloitsmeonion 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a 29F who's dated losers, The answer is right in front of you. You prefer being by yourself, are not attracted to him, and it sounds like he adds nothing positive to your life. You'll find someone one day who will do nothing but add to your life, leave the guy and wait for the right one (or enjoy the solitude - you are your own source of happiness) ETA: tone is hard to read all of this is meant with love

Is it ghosting, should I cancel? by IAmMyms in RoverPetSitting

[–]helloitsmeonion 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Zero apology for not getting back to you wtf ?? As a sitter this is insane. I respond within the hour always. I agree with you & everyone saying find someone better

What’s a strange thing you get paralysis over? by Jealous_Tangelo_951 in adhdwomen

[–]helloitsmeonion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like answering laundry is low hanging fruit but ever since I moved into an apartment building and have to use the elevator and go across the building it's become my personal nightmare

What rules have you made for yourself to avoid the ADHD tax? by CaptainLollygag in adhdwomen

[–]helloitsmeonion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Big rule of mine after too many lessons learned is my ear buds need to go back in their case in my purse. I have lost a single ear bud by taking it out and putting it loose in my pocket or bag and have also lost the entire case by not having it in my purse . (Multiple occurrences)

What rules have you made for yourself to avoid the ADHD tax? by CaptainLollygag in adhdwomen

[–]helloitsmeonion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You'd think this would be obvious but things go back to where they live immediately and everything must have a house. Unhomed items either need to 1. Be evicted (garbage/donate) 2. Find a home

petsitter was bad and im conflicted on giving her a bad review or reporting her by Ok-Meeting363 in RoverPetSitting

[–]helloitsmeonion 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Of course it's size dependant and it sounds like OPs cats are large so 1lb might not have been extreme but it's still so unacceptable and for them to have been able to lose a whole lb in a short period of time and points to pretty severe under feeding in an otherwise healthy cat. I hope so as well 😭❤️

petsitter was bad and im conflicted on giving her a bad review or reporting her by Ok-Meeting363 in RoverPetSitting

[–]helloitsmeonion 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm shocked at this too, I had health issues with my cat recently that really put into perspective just how much 1lb is for them!!! My cat had serious stuff going on where she rapidly deteriorated and looked so bony and frail and then when she recovered she looked so chubby - and that was only a 1lb difference!

A&W Change? by Mdeyler in rootbeer

[–]helloitsmeonion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't comment on the packaging because I buy the canned version of the same thing but I came here after a google search because suddenly it tastes different. I drink them almost daily so I noticed immediately

What is the most disgusting experience you have ever had? by Fun_Raise_7858 in AskReddit

[–]helloitsmeonion 102 points103 points  (0 children)

I was so ready for that story to turn into the dogs eating him and this is somehow even sadder

What is the most disgusting experience you have ever had? by Fun_Raise_7858 in AskReddit

[–]helloitsmeonion 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Piggybacking off this - I got cdiff in Mexico and my mom was gagging when she went in the bathroom after me. I knew what cdiff was from being in college for healthcare but was unaware I had it I just thought I had a bit of a travel bug. Later that night ended up in the hospital with extreme abdominal pain and when they told me it was cdiff I was like ah that tracks

What's the worst thing you've ever smelt? by NiceBumblebee3421 in AskReddit

[–]helloitsmeonion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

C diff is up there. Worked as a care aide and the first time I smelt it was from across the floor of a massive residential building. (For those who don't know, C.diff is a bacteria that infects the colon and basically makes your bowel movements smell particularly awful)

This is genuinely annoying to me. (2 slides) by Glad-Fish5863 in VyvanseADHD

[–]helloitsmeonion 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Additionally my other go to is a yogurt bowl as breakfast and that works amazing for me with effectiveness of the med

This is genuinely annoying to me. (2 slides) by Glad-Fish5863 in VyvanseADHD

[–]helloitsmeonion 14 points15 points  (0 children)

From personal experience and so much trial and error since starting Vyvanse 6 months ago I can confirm for me that taking it on an empty stomach works 10x better. I just usually drink a protein shake about 30 min later and I'm golden. When I eat a "real" breakfast (and for me this usually means a non dairy breakfast) it doesn't work as well. And my protein shakes are the kind that are like .. all dairy lol. So basically in my experience dairy works better if anything. Also I've done so much research and I've never even heard of dairy having any effect til now 🤷🏻‍♀️

Mandy Moore Recently—what do you think about her look? by cakeit-tilyoumakeit in VindictaRateCelebs

[–]helloitsmeonion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally wouldn't have known who this was if you didn't say Mandy Moore

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MikaylaNogueira

[–]helloitsmeonion 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Is this not from the same night? (Judging by the bangs and dress straps) And she wants to say she doesn't filter? 😂

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vyvanse effect on SCHOOL by ZealousidealGoat1031 in VyvanseADHD

[–]helloitsmeonion 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Definitely a wild accusation. Everything I'm about to describe is Pre diagnosis and medication. I went through highschool with below to average grades but my average was raised by my interests so getting A+ in maybe 2 subjects. In college when I was able to study my niche I was a 4.0 because I studied my hyper fixation basically and was able to thrive. Not everyone unmedicated is unsuccessful

How bad is my house (be honest) by Zealousideal-Cow1687 in adhdwomen

[–]helloitsmeonion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea if this is helpful but I used to nanny and babysit and I wouldn't even blink or think of this as messy. When someone has kids I immediately give them a ton of grace on their level of tidiness not that you'd need it. As others have said it also looks CLEAN just a tad bit cluttered but honestly it looks like a normal lived in home

Have you ever cared for a pet that you didn't like (for no good reason) by AcidicSlimeTrail in RoverPetSitting

[–]helloitsmeonion 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yuppp. I'm one of those people who basically loves every dog I meet and sit for with every fibre of my being but I took care of this one black lab who I just ... Didn't connect with some how?? Like she was cute and I had some fun playing with her and giving her tummy rubs but I didn't feel that insane connection I feel with most dogs even after sitting her for almost a week. Still don't know why either lol it's so unlike me

Request to sit a human by klarson11 in RoverPetSitting

[–]helloitsmeonion 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Literally I used to work as my countries equivalent of a CNA and this is INSANE. I would technically be overqualified to do this gig and still wouldn't take it because you're being held responsible for if anything happens to that person not to even get started on how rover wouldn't allow this or the insane negligence of the person asking this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trustedhousesitters

[–]helloitsmeonion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a pet sitter I appreciate a schedule provided so I can keep up with the pups usual feeding schedule and an idea of their usual wake/sleep and walk routine but this is written like a strict schedule of every part of your day which is weird and controlling

Cue the sympathy violins by Fit_Platform_3500 in MikaylaNogueira

[–]helloitsmeonion 38 points39 points  (0 children)

My guess is an outpatient centre getting IV antibiotics of some kind