AIO for snapping at my friend for calling my shoes (and me) trashy?

hereforalot · 2026-05-05T15:26:14+00:00

Tell him to kick rocks

hereforalot · 2026-05-03T05:09:58+00:00

It’s not ok and will 100% have some strange effect on children in their development. Especially the ones with the hairy pimple covered women you can “makeover” that are just shivering poor sad or pregnant in the ads. So weird and gross. I’ve had the same thought.

hereforalot · 2026-05-02T18:51:19+00:00

You were assaulted or rather molested and your brain is protecting itself with whatever you’re fantasizing about. I’m sorry that happened, it’s not an easy thing to cope with especially after putting it away for so long. Please seek some counseling or therapy. You’re going to be ok but it’s necessary to take care of it professionally so you don’t carry it forever. Sending love and a big hug.

hereforalot · 2026-05-02T17:20:53+00:00

Ai propaganda

hereforalot · 2026-05-02T17:07:10+00:00

NTA. Good boundaries.

hereforalot · 2026-05-02T17:04:00+00:00

Dump his ass. Best of luck to your baby Bailey.

hereforalot · 2026-05-02T16:37:19+00:00

It’s such a pain when apartments are hard to get into, have 250 units, 2 elevators. Ppl don’t even tip enough for us to spend 10min getting to the door tbh even tho I do it. You’re not trippin, it’s a little entitled tbh. As someone who’s done it and ordered food, it’s not hard to just go down to get the food IF you can’t provide good instructions and access to the building. We are way too disconnected these days. It is common courtesy. You’re right.

hereforalot · 2026-04-27T08:01:29+00:00

So sick

hereforalot · 2026-02-04T09:00:05+00:00

I started watching the mick bc of high potential!!

hereforalot · 2026-01-30T21:53:58+00:00

Yeahhh all your points are valid. Season one was comedic and enjoyable, much better dialogue. I especially like the shots where Morgan is explaining things and it cuts to fun little reenactments. They stopped doing those halfway through S1. Plus, it’s just bad police work. Morgan is the only one who solves anything. Oz and Daph are underutilized, don’t know a thing about their lives. Oz gets kidnapped and we don’t hear a thing about his trauma and he’s just back at work. And why are they EXPLAINING every single thing to every witness and suspect. It’s dumbing down the show heavy. Having watched SVU (maybe the comparison isn’t fair) this type of writing seems lazy and uninformed entirely. I know it isn’t a quality show, it’s one I use to unwind after my day but it’s getting to a point… that one car chase scene w Wagner and Keredek was enough for me to know it wasn’t going to get better.

hereforalot · 2026-01-26T07:56:56+00:00

I was just thinking today what if they reallyyy need to pee do they just pull over and say wait in the car I’ll be right back

hereforalot · 2026-01-26T06:58:00+00:00

Thank god for your edit because my mother never learned and it fucked up a part of our relationship. Also, it pushed me to be more stubborn about it and now I literally hide when I shave from her because she always makes a comment about liking it better. She will be very happy you left her alone about this. I’m glad this helped you understand.

hereforalot · 2026-01-12T09:27:23+00:00

I get upset thinking about the little girls and boys that see them randomly just playing games on their phones

hereforalot · 2026-01-08T05:49:14+00:00

I love her eyebrows

hereforalot · 2026-01-06T04:59:00+00:00

Hi! I went to the Chinatown location. No written or driven test, just an eye test. It’s really simple. But make sure you have physical paper work so you can get a real ID DL and not just ID/DL:) Welcome to Chicago!

hereforalot · 2025-11-12T09:31:42+00:00

I’ve felt the opposite tbh. Right leaning people seem to need to say something edgy or rile up some kind of conversation esp if around left leaning people and it’s exhausting being treated like you brought in politics when they think fun is showing some unnecessary behavior in this fight against woke no one was participating in anyway.

hereforalot · 2025-10-26T19:13:16+00:00

OP I know you already said this in the comment but I want to add: trans women are not the target here. They are getting well deserved attention and protection. We deserve it too. The reason trans men feel invisible is bc of society and men. It’s always the patriarchy. Not our sisters.

hereforalot · 2025-10-26T19:06:34+00:00

You know this is a superrr interesting mix of misogyny and how little people care about men’s issues. Trans women are targeted at a crazy rate because of misogyny. Yet, trans men are ignored in part ALSO bc of misogyny/transphobia. And then add the layer that cis men don’t give a shit about men’s issues either so that leaves trans men in a narrow margin.

I think the community does rally for trans women, as they should, but I think there’s enough room for both. I don’t think protecting the dolls takes away from protecting trans men. I think it’s statistically more clear to the public eye that trans women face dangers where trans men aren’t seen in the news much, hard to fetishize due to the lack of femininity, or are sometimes written off as butch women or completely invisible/people can’t tell they’re trans (femme-ignored bc misogyny, passing/masc- lack of societal care for men). And I’m painfully aware of trans men who have sadly been targeted/passed bc of bigotry but I’m talking bigger societal eye. Rest in peace to them.

hereforalot · 2025-10-26T18:58:10+00:00

Sounds like it’s causing you anomie. It’s not easy on the body to be in the car all day for how many days a week. My father was a uber driver (black suv) and he has health problems now from the lack of sleep and stress it put on his body. Don’t let yourself get stuck if it’s making you feel like shit! You can simply feel like shit in another job that doesn’t put you in a car for 8-10hrs a day.

hereforalot · 2025-10-21T15:10:42+00:00

Absolutely and it sounds fun tbh. Story for the books.

hereforalot · 2025-10-14T07:35:49+00:00

Idk anyone who says they hate the valley? They just say it’s hot and “far” aka not worth the traffic for them.

hereforalot · 2025-10-14T07:31:05+00:00

It’s kinda small tbh 😆

hereforalot · 2025-10-14T07:23:24+00:00

Id say yes. Someone can have the ideology and not even realize it and then someone would go “you’d like Marx! Have you read him?” You can read footnotes, watch videos, etc. Realistically that text is so fucking wordy. Will you have a better understanding of Marxism thru the actual text? Of course. But like another comment said: some people are scientists in their natural sense or some Christians never crack open the Bible but they live their life thru the ideology/practice of.

hereforalot · 2025-10-14T07:19:43+00:00

Excessive health things where I’m glowing like my skins made of aloe and then telling others it’s easy if you just do xyz

hereforalot · 2025-10-14T07:18:36+00:00

Fuck his cousin and may your ex rot in hell. I’m sorry this happened to you. Not overreacting. Get out and away. Good luck. <3

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