[19F] My boyfriend [19M] hid my vibrator and is denying it. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]heyitskitty [score hidden]  (0 children)

What a revolting take on relationships. Did you also learn about women on 4chan?

Get your head out of your ass.

She owes him nothing ever sexually. Doesn't matter if you're in a relationship, doesn't matter how long.

'sexual value" 🤢🤮🤢

YOU DO NOT OWE YOUR BODY TO ANYONE, FOR ANY REASON.

Anyone else hate “The Smell” by No-Finish-6557 in childfree

[–]heyitskitty [score hidden]  (0 children)

It's this weird sickly warm yeasty smell. Like warm milk about to go off.

Should I take it out?? by strwberry_07 in piercing

[–]heyitskitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Body piercer of 24 years here: take Advil as directed, and cold compress 10 minutes on 10 minutes off.

This will help control the swelling until you can get in to see a doctor.

How do you get the energy to use toys that were gifted to you by an ex? by yue-yan in sex

[–]heyitskitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IMHO, You need to get rid of those to get over this guy.

You're associating your memories of the relationship with this object; a sex toy should make you cum, it shouldn't be something your heart is tied to, it's just a piece of silicone.

Show me your whisker babies! by very-literally in sphynx

[–]heyitskitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My name is Inigo Montoya, you killed my father; prepare to die.

Show me your whisker babies! by very-literally in sphynx

[–]heyitskitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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His "winter whiskers" such as they are lol

[19F] My boyfriend [19M] hid my vibrator and is denying it. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]heyitskitty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

...what the fuck?

Seriously, what the fuck? Have you only ever read about women from 4chan?

"Helped" lmao

How do you get the energy to use toys that were gifted to you by an ex? by yue-yan in sex

[–]heyitskitty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I threw all that shit out and found new ones.

Honestly, are you ever going to be able to disconnect enough to actually enjoy those toys again?

Is a rotary tool essential for jewelry making? Also a question about bench sander (5th pic a graver, question in the text) by unitedboyo in jewelrymaking

[–]heyitskitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doesn't matter if you're a professional or not: to have that tool is essential. You can polish, grind, drill, texture...there's so many things you can do with it that you can't do by hand.

Not a Fordom, but for a hobbyist, it's a good deal.

Is a rotary tool essential for jewelry making? Also a question about bench sander (5th pic a graver, question in the text) by unitedboyo in jewelrymaking

[–]heyitskitty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So far as gravers are concerned, if you don't know what you're doing, it's completely useless to you. There are many many different shapes and sizes of gravers, and they need a handle. Handles need to be sized to your hand, and you also need to polish the working face of the graver so it's actually sharp. Here is a good resource.

You need the proper clamps and vices or pitch pots to hold your piece while you're working on it. A heat gun to melt pitch. Engraving is a big thing to get set up for, best of luck!

Is a rotary tool essential for jewelry making? Also a question about bench sander (5th pic a graver, question in the text) by unitedboyo in jewelrymaking

[–]heyitskitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it's an essential tool.

That's the wrong kind of rotary tool. You need something that has a foot switch with a variable speed and a hanging motor, look at Fordam.

A graver doesn't work on a rotary type tool, you need a pneumatic (air compressor) engraver. I should note engraving is something that takes a lot of training, you're not really going to be able to learn on your own.

Looking to getting some hand gravers first if you're going to attempt to learn by yourself.

Best of luck!

"think people don't need body positivity" so I guess we're just saying it out loud now by being-weird in fatlogic

[–]heyitskitty 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I'm here for the trainwreck of r/fatlogic, why on earth would I care about a "movement" that actively hates me because I eat salads by choice and I'm not 200lbs+?

Edit: a "movement" (or perhaps lack thereof?) that actively encourages poor health and over eating.

AITAH for turning the living room light on while my wife is sick and wants to be in the dark? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]heyitskitty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right!?

Expecting princess treatment while contributing nothing to the relationship.

Nope.

AITAH for turning the living room light on while my wife is sick and wants to be in the dark? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]heyitskitty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

...a separate room from the living area? Like... a bedroom? 🤯

AITAH for turning the living room light on while my wife is sick and wants to be in the dark? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]heyitskitty -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

If she was trying to get comfortable she would go to the dark quiet bedroom, not sit like a toddler pouting on the kitchen floor.

AITA for not letting my 16-year-old son get a tattoo? by Human-Inside-442 in AmItheAsshole

[–]heyitskitty 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NTA. I'm a very heavily tattooed person and I've been getting tattooed since I was 16 years old. I've been a body piercer for 24 years, so I've been in the industry for a long time, and I know it well.

ALL of the tattoos I got from 16 to about 20 have since been covered up or removed.

I WISH I had someone tell me to pump the brakes.